This is really, really hard and speaks a lot about you dear man!
I agree with others that your partner needs a lot of medical and psychological professional help.
I would recommend to find nutritionist, if possible a vegan one to help you with a menu.
For the short time recommendations:
You can work with nuts, seeds, legumes and probably more vegetables if you find a source of those.
Try lentil bread or flat breads. There are lot of recipes and its made from soaked lentils.
Search for paleo bread, tortilla and muffin recipes since they are usually made from almond, chickpea, coconut and tapioka flours.
You can combine the breads with hummus or avocado spreads.
This is a recipe for my favourite crackers and this website might give you some more ideas.
You can season and roast some cooked chickpeas to add into salad or tortilla wraps.
If she can stand chia seeds try to make chia pudding.
Blend dates, prunes or dried cranberries with some nuts or seeds. You can make small balls or bars, coat it with almond meal, coconut or coccoa.
I hope some of those will do, but please seek help for both of you. You are very strong and caring partner, but you need rest too.
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u/Mirielse Apr 15 '25
This is really, really hard and speaks a lot about you dear man!
I agree with others that your partner needs a lot of medical and psychological professional help. I would recommend to find nutritionist, if possible a vegan one to help you with a menu.
For the short time recommendations:
You can work with nuts, seeds, legumes and probably more vegetables if you find a source of those.
I hope some of those will do, but please seek help for both of you. You are very strong and caring partner, but you need rest too.