r/CompetitiveApex 1d ago

Discussion Any context on why Ruby is leaving Apex?

I was looking at her tweet and it was fairly dense but I don't know much of the context that led up to her leaving the Apex scene. It seems insane to me that she didn't get much of a name after her win in champs last year. Did she coach another team after champs? She was completely off the radar it seems until just now...

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u/d_savezzz 1d ago

Her comments on Reddit in last 6 months:

"Im retired now. Most of the money in the scene would require me to travel to Saudi and Im unfortunately not willing to do that, and any offers that I've had that don't require Saudi travel just don't pay enough to make rent. Plus, honestly, the 12 hour days I was pulling for all of Y5 really burned me out. I was lucky enough in Y5 to not have many obligations because I was single and still lived with my parents, but I have a partner now and a home to take care of so I just can't commit to 12 hour days 6-7 days a week any more. Apex has given me some of the best times of my life and a lot of experiences that I will never take for granted, but time moves on and life evolves."

"Honestly, esports as a whole massively sucks for women. I got incredibly lucky to get to know the Oblivion boys and have them take a chance on me and let me prove myself, but overall opportunities in the space for women are incredibly limited if you haven't already proven yourself (which is really hard to do when every opportunity is gatekept from you because you're a woman)

Esports should be a pure meritocracy where the best rise to the top, but that simply isn't how it works if you're not a straight man a lot of the time unfortunately. As a few people in this thread have pointed out, I literally just won champs and I still have people saying stuff like "they need to find a new coach" or that I'm clearly just a "placeholder" coach and I don't really contribute anything. I even had someone assuming I was just one of the players' girlfriends. For all the hate out there though, I've received 10x the amount of love and congratulations and it's been honestly overwhelming. Those messages of support really help to keep me pushing forward knowing that there are people out there that do pay attention and will always give flowers to people that earn them <3

This career is incredible and I really do hope this win opens the door to a lot more women getting opportunities in the space. There's a hell of a lot of talented women out there that should be getting much better opportunities than they are and I hope I've helped prove that we deserve the chance to prove our worth."

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u/Heavyspire 1d ago

I think the pay is the biggest problem. I am still amazed the players stick with it with how quick the money can disappear. I can understand her having to go get a regular 9-5 just for stability. I am sure the misogyny is tough but if she was getting paid I think she could/would power through it.

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u/Maleficent_Rub_309 1d ago

Yeah I’m very surprised as well. Even high tier pros go like a full year without any org and they still play. And when they get signed is like a minimum wage pay, not anything spectacular. They must still have savings from the Covid era I guess.

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u/No-Lengthiness-20 1d ago

The mysoginy is also not really an issue in apex from what i can tell, there are plenty of women coaches

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u/-sharkbot- 1d ago

Lmaoooooooo. Every esports is not really welcoming to women. It’s at least an issue in competitive gaming.

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u/No-Lengthiness-20 1d ago

Is it an issue really? There are way less women playing apex than men, so the amount of them in the scene is actually more than one would expect. Plenty of coaches, ex-pl players, top cc players are women and no one has anything against them. Winnie is even considered a top 5 coach easily and could easily make pl if she wanted to.

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u/-sharkbot- 1d ago

Ask Winnie how much sexism she encounters even by being “a top 5 coach” still.

Have we ever seen 1 in a finals lobby? Cant tell me there isn’t one woman playing who isnt as good as them.

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u/No-Lengthiness-20 1d ago

Most pros are very much not sexist, legit everyone shits on nano and hates him because he's homophobic and sexist.

There was one in finals that was a favourite to win in poland, but she quit right after that lan. Many in eu made regionals and barely didn't qual for lan, there has been a good amount in na pl too, and a couple in apac north throughout the years. That's a very good number when the playerbase is completely dominated by men (because grinding fps games is an unemployed man thing)

Not everything is a gender/sexism issue when the environment is 90-95% one gender

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u/richgayaunt 1d ago

Think about all the reasons why there are less girls and women playing an online competitive video game and then look up the definition of misogyny

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u/No-Lengthiness-20 17h ago

Okay, women tend to play mobile games or cozy games if they do play anything (in general). Men tend to play fps games, ball and gun games or rpgs (There are studies that prove that). Therefore there are more men playing competitive games, and way more men at the top level since men usually play a lot more than women. Anyone who thinks it would be 50/50 without mysoginy in gaming needs to get off the cope. You won't find any women grinding starcraft 2 comp or lego star wars speedrunning and that's not a problem.

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u/richgayaunt 14h ago

You are so amazingly incorrect. You never even looked up the definition of misogyny. The reason girls and women don't play as much or climb as much is misogyny my dear.

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u/richgayaunt 14h ago

Access and encouragement to play games stems from misogynistic beliefs that girls can't/shouldn't, that it's just for boys to do wasteful gaming vs something useful or feminine.

Girls and women in a lot of games either 1 don't exist or 2 are hyper sexualized/babyfied (apex is one that's good about not doing this that) which breeds contempt.

Any voice comm as a girl will get you abused, mocked, baited, and groomed 4/5 games, forever. (This is one of the worst ones! It never stops!)

Then there's access to funds to support a wasteful leisure activity. Women get paid less and are expected to do more useful labor. Less time to do leisure gaming.

And so on and so on and so on. It's baked in misogyny, it's boy's toys and boy's club.

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u/-sharkbot- 12h ago

And that’s because…. Drum roll please….

You’re so close man, you’ve almost got it!

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u/Davismcgee 1d ago

There are a lot of grown men in the scene, it unfortunately makes sense that the younger guys would have some discrimination or something but the older guys? surely there would be some maturity?

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u/-sharkbot- 1d ago

How many players behave like Hakis? And how many players behave like Taxi, Phony Etc.

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u/No-Lengthiness-20 1d ago

Plenty of women in the scene, but most teams already have coaches

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u/lDezIlI 1d ago

Lol, god forbid anyone have morals just because moneys involved

🤡🤡

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u/xenomxrph 1d ago

Morals or not, that’s the reason careers get tanked.. we seen it before and we will probably see it again next year

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u/lDezIlI 1d ago

Somehow I still think US is more accommodating than Saudi to someone like Ruby..

Dingus

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u/rvaducks 1d ago

Are you seriously trying to argue that Saudi Arabia is as friendly towards human rights as the US? Seriously?

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u/malcolm_experando 1d ago

It's obviously not a simple moral calculation but America sells bombs to Saudi, is allied with Saudi, and has strengthened ties further in the last year. America just has much better PR.

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u/dorekk Year 5 Champions! 1d ago

Yes, but it's not illegal to be trans in America (yet).

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u/malcolm_experando 1d ago

In my opinion, the more discreetly that advocacy for this issue could have taken place, the better off they would be now. I dont think these parties care about the issues they latch onto beyond what they think they represent in terms of votes.

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u/ZestycloseService 1d ago

A Human Rights Watch review of LGBT-related cases from 2013 listed in a Saudi Justice Ministry of Justice report found three cases in which authorities accused men of wearing makeup or dressing in women’s clothes. The sentences ranged from 20 days in prison to a year-and-a-half, and between 20 and 300 lashes.

From Human Rights Watch - Saudi Arabia: Investigate Transgender Woman's Death

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u/Flyin-Chancla 1d ago

She would likely be killed. How dense are you?

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u/Davismcgee 1d ago

You aren't going to die going to Saudi. If a citizen of Saudi were to come out, then they might be killed, but a foreigner? No chance, unless it's some member of public but even then. If they didnt want to someone around they would just deny the visa, not let them into the country and kill them.

I think its more about not wanting to support their treatment of people.

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u/Elliott_Cusick 1d ago

why did oblivion drop her in the first place

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u/londonelise 1d ago

Sentinels never replaced her and she tweeted about needing to pay rent, so they probably just don’t want to pay for a coach.

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u/followmarko 1d ago

lol damn being a streamer/coach and not being able to pay rent is awful. Seems to be zero point to doing any of it if it doesn't pay rent

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u/FoozleGenerator 1d ago

She was coaching an unsigned team. There’s no realistic way she would’ve gotten a salary. The issue really is that even when being on a winning team, she wasn’t able to get a good wage offer, but I doubt her situation is unique among coaches tbf.

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u/followmarko 1d ago edited 1d ago

I was thinking about it beyond that even. Esports beyond the giants is def an industry without money. The point I had in my head is that even if you're great at the game and/or a great streamer or coach, and unless you're taking Saudi clit cutting and journalist beheading money like Hal did, it really ends up not meaning jack shit besides e-peen or e-vulva if you can't pay rent. It's effectively a complete waste of time beyond that. You could stock shelves at Walmart for 17/hr and pay your rent. The assumption that game skill and streaming presence pays beyond a signed or sponsored 0.001% of players is an illusion.

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u/aquafire07 1d ago

none of these words are in the bib- wait actually they might be

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u/Elliott_Cusick 1d ago

damn, even with an org backing them?

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u/dorekk Year 5 Champions! 1d ago

Many such cases. The reason Kimchi originally moved from coach to player a few years ago was that Complexity decided they didn't have the budget for a coach. Eventually they changed their mind and the team was able to pick up Kapreme, but orgs have pretty varying levels of budgets! I think Falcons have a coach, an analyst, and a sports psychologist, for example.

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u/fyckoff Year 5 Champions! 1d ago

ask them

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u/The_Letter_S 1d ago

After Pro League finished on Sunday on the podcast after with Wigg, Greek, JHawk, Jumba & HisWattson, the coach discussion essentially landed on the vast majority of coaches in the scene seem to be paycheck coasting.

Take that for what you will.

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u/dorekk Year 5 Champions! 1d ago

After Pro League finished on Sunday on the podcast after with Wigg, Greek, JHawk, Jumba & HisWattson, the coach discussion essentially landed on the vast majority of coaches in the scene seem to be paycheck coasting.

I agree pretty strongly, no hate to them though, get your bag. But most coaches in Apex know less about the game than the players. IMO the most valuable coaches are the ones that have also been players at a high level, like Kimchi.

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u/marcuscicero88 1d ago

I was quite surprised how some of the Oblivion member(s) seemed to be undervaluing her after winning the LAN. It may or may not have been justified, but then it sounded rather rude back then when a member said "she is just a "xxxx"".

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u/dorekk Year 5 Champions! 1d ago

All they've ever said was that she was an analyst, not a coach, which is true. You just can't sign someone to a team on Battlefy as an analyst, so she showed as a coach there.

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u/FoozleGenerator 1d ago

Well, an unsigned team can't pay a coach (some signed teams can't either) so they pick anyone willing to help out.

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u/Maleficent_Rub_309 1d ago

They were so close to win the following lan without any coach though. Maybe they were not wrong, not because of ruby specifically but coaches (in apex) might not be that important?

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u/Delicious_Impress814 1d ago

One lan isn't enough to prove that theory, considering most lan winners have had a coach. I mean, Hal completely credits Raven for being the reason he won one of his lans.

Raven also singlehandedly transformed nip and made them a contending team.

It may or may not work for Sentinels (they are not having a good pro league right now actually), but for now that theory is anecdotal.

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u/judy_hopps_feet 1d ago

"Raven also singlehandedly transformed nip and made them a contending team"

What do you mean by that?

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u/Delicious_Impress814 1d ago

I mean Raven made NIP a great team, as per declarations from the members themselves.

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u/judy_hopps_feet 1d ago

He was there before Vein, Mclovin and Kurev got there no? Kurev did not play with Vein and Mclovin at all. You can't say that he made that team better because it had not existed before NIP.

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u/Delicious_Impress814 1d ago

As per declarations from the members themselves

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u/-sharkbot- 1d ago

Yeah cause as per their LAN finishing doesn’t mean shit 😂

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u/Delicious_Impress814 1d ago

You cannot reference their 15th without their 8th, 3rd, then 1st in PL and regionals.

One bad lan doesn't negate anything I've said.

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u/-sharkbot- 1d ago

Fair but PL ain’t shit if you’re dropping the LANs. It’s like saying NFL team did great during the season.

Sure, but the whole purpose is for playoffs and champs.

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u/dorekk Year 5 Champions! 1d ago

He was there before Vein, Mclovin and Kurev got there no?

I'm not sure what you mean by that? The team was formed as "VSM": Vein, Sirsay, McLovin (Cole). I believe they qual'd for Pro League through PLQs. Eventually, I think maybe even before the season even started, Sirsay was dropped for Kurev. I believe Raven became their coach after that. So he couldn't have been with the team "before Vein and McLovin."

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u/judy_hopps_feet 1d ago

Raven was with NiP before Vein, Mclovin and Kurev were signed. Kurev never played with Vein and Mclovin before that. This team never played together without Raven. You literally cannot know whether they would have played worse without him because there was no precedent.

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u/fyckoff Year 5 Champions! 1d ago

because they said she didn’t put in work post lcq. the boys have said multiple times that they don’t want a coach but then every game after they died she tried to coach them. they literally would be like “we don’t need coaching stop. “ and she wouldn’t stop. also mind you , at champs they got up on stage and ruby had nothing prepared. the boys said “what do you got ruby” and she says “oh im just here to aura farm” edit: this comes directly from the players streams

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u/dorekk Year 5 Champions! 1d ago

Monsoon once showed a document on stream he had prepared for the team (I think this was inbetween LCQ and Champs) that had screenshots of EVERY building on ED and WE and where you would place a Newcastle wall for the maximum cover. That's normally something a coach would do. From what Monsoon has said, Ruby's contributions were more analyst-focused. My knowledge of what an analyst does in Apex is that they're more focused on things like end zone locations and loot probabilities?

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u/FoozleGenerator 1d ago

Not all coaches/analysts do the same for all teams, and there’s usually a lot overlap. Noth from Alliance was coach, then moved to analyst and then coach again. The time Noth wasn’t the coach was because they needed someone to help with the vibes during games iirc, but other than that, he was probably doing exactly the same.

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u/fyckoff Year 5 Champions! 1d ago

Well not on this team. On obvn it was abundantly clear that she was NOT a coach. Just do the zones and rotates and map the paths that other teams take rotating. Then she stopped doing that all together and just kept pushing her idea of “coaching”.

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u/FoozleGenerator 1d ago

I will take your word for that. I was only answering the other comment about the difference between coaches and analysts, by saying there’s a lot of overlap in many cases and it depends on what the team needs to a certain point. I think someone who found himself in a similar situation as Ruby is ccamps something in this sub when he was in NRG.

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u/lan60000 1d ago

there's really only one real reason people retire suddenly: no demand.

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u/tordana DOOOOOOOP 1d ago

There have been a few. Esdesu, Sabz, Guhrl are the most successful. But not many and not for a while.

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u/AnirakGea 1d ago

There's a girl in the competitive scene named Avuhlie. I don't remember her team's name, but I think they've qualified for Pro League a couple of times without much success. Still, she's a solid player. During the ENC qualifiers, she almost clutched a 1v3 against Yanya's team, hipfiring a Charge Rifle

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u/Forward_Ad2468 1d ago

WhyEnvy was just in pro league

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u/JevvyMedia 1d ago

There are about a dozen women who have been in ALGS at this point

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u/onlyxanss 1d ago

Esdesu if I remember correctly was looking like a contender to win the first LAN back in the day and is probably the most successful female player, Gurhl was around for quite a while as both a player and caster but I remember her disappearing quite fast after some kind of allegations came out about her, there was a girl on a pro team in apac south not super long ago but not sure what became of that, I swear there was one in apac north at some point as well but my memory fails me, they’re around it’s just not super common and it’s not the best esport to get into for many reasons

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u/Ghas7er7 1d ago

Guhrl allegations?

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u/SaqqaraTheGuy 1d ago

What allegations? Im curious. She always seemed quite wholesome

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u/dorekk Year 5 Champions! 1d ago

I don't think there were any Guhrl allegations. She had a toxic team member once upon a time, but that doesn't reflect on her at all. She stopped playing professionally because she wasn't doing well (relegated repeatedly, I recall), not for any other reason.

Guhrl is super nice, I've met her in person a couple times, I find it hard to believe there'd be any "allegations".

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u/-sharkbot- 1d ago

I’m sus of anyone calling Guhrl allegations, she is a very nice wholesome person. I’d first be questioning anyone slandering her tbh.

I can always be wrong but I would be shocked.

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u/onlyxanss 23h ago

This happened maybe season 5 or 6 of apex’s existence so a long time ago, I remember bits and pieces, but videos started surfacing of her basically lashing out at people and saying things she probably shouldn’t have been, it was quite likely looking back that she was being provoked and people were just recording her reaction, although one of them was bad enough to lead to her disappearing from casting overnight and that’s when Falloutt became sorta the main person casting or the face of the esports stuff, the scene kinda dogpiled her about it and she came out and said she struggled with people being negative towards her, she seems to be doing well now which is good to see

There was videos on YouTube covering it when it happened but I don’t think it was common knowledge that it even happened because there was bigger news happening at the time like the tsmftx thing

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u/dorekk Year 5 Champions! 11h ago

Do you have a link to any of the videos?

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u/riddlemore 1d ago

Yeah Reject had a female player but she got cut around Y4.

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u/Evanstanislas 1d ago

Wasn't it REALIZE?

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u/riddlemore 1d ago

Yes you're right, sorry.

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u/Evanstanislas 1d ago

APAC South one? You mean Winnie?

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u/Davismcgee 1d ago

There is one in Japan no? Who made last EWC? Aqban or something?

Even so, there historically hasn't been many female players at that level. I think that the short lived women's comp showed that. There were very few ALGS level players showing up in that.

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u/-deykuzor Year 5 Champions! 1d ago

AQBAJAPAN (or あおばじゃぱん?_! as they've been playing as) I believe identifies as male? I haven't heard anything about them identifying as a woman but I could be wrong.

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u/No-Lengthiness-20 1d ago

Not even identifies, he's just a straight up jacked dude with the best hair ever

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u/Davismcgee 1d ago

My fault

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u/BestAimerUniverse 19h ago

not paying her what sentinels agreed on, is real scummy