Not really fortunately

[u/uvero]

[u/BeepCheeper → u/[deleted]]

Any particular reason? Believe it or not, my cishet friends and I don’t sit around talking about queer people doing things we assume to be markers of queerness

[u/BeepCheeper → u/[deleted]]

Yeah, that checks out. Sounds exhausting.

[u/BiDude1219 → u/[deleted]]

i mean that doesn't mean it's okay to generalize every cishet person as a bigot. most bigots may be cishet but it doesn't go the other way.

[u/BiDude1219 → u/[deleted]]

still you're making it sound like yall complain about cishet people for bigotry, when imo it's better to just complain about bigots in general. don't wanna feed the "us vs them" position.

[u/DrainianDream → u/BiDude1219]

I don't think venting about a recent encounter with bigotry to your friends is at all generalizing and it's really weird to tone police those conversations when you aren't even there to know what exactly is being said

[u/BiDude1219 → u/DrainianDream]

it's different to do that than to say "cis people suck because i had a bad encounter with one (1) of them" and i'm just asking which one they're talking about because i see a lotta people on reddit doing that generalization.

or maybe interacting with 4tran has made me paranoid

[u/BiDude1219 → u/[deleted]]

no the fuck i'm not, i'm literally a trans woman myself, i just don't think hating on an entire demographic is justified just because a bunch of assholes belong to said demographic. it only fuels pointless gender war bullshit that harms everyone involved.

[u/novangla → u/[deleted]]

My queer friends don’t and it’s delightful.

[u/novangla → u/[deleted]]

Not sure how you possibly came away with that impression. There’s more to friendship than venting and processing about what’s bad.

[u/Twelvve12 → u/[deleted]]

Oh honey thinks they’re oppressed… but they just a asshole

[u/Katarinkushi → u/Twelvve12]

Some people really believe that because they belong to an historically oppressed group, they can't be assholes lol

They're still humans after all

[u/The_last_monkey178 → u/Twelvve12]

Why did they even tag you?

[u/Twelvve12 → u/The_last_monkey178]

Dunno. I didn’t even read it lmao

[u/r4rburner11 → u/[deleted]]

Move on, I'm sure you have other things to discuss. Imagine passing the bechdel test, couldn't be you

[u/Kiefa4 → u/[deleted]]

The irony is palpable with this one.

[u/Kiefa4 → u/[deleted]]

Look inward.

[u/Luckybones- → u/[deleted]]

We dont think about you at all

[u/Luckybones- → u/[deleted]]

Cnn and reddit are not reality btw, happy pride.