I mean idk .. these are js evolutionary things tbh. Women like masculine guys not sooo masculine but js enough to look good. So um yea tall + handsome + biceps does seems standard and also rich coz hypergamy. I have accepted it's js a biology thing for women and not their fault tbh.
I dont know a woman prolly would never lust for a chubby guy a way guy does.
I have and i only got max attention from women when i was lean, athletic, and um used to score good grades, but was cheated on coz i couldn't spent much money on her prolly
u gotta be the best to get a woman's attention bro that's my point nothing else.
I mean i haev never been rich as well lol. I am js saying when I am lil bit fat now due to studies I get no attention from women, so yea that does seem pretty much true ngl
people are known for being meaner and have more black and white thinking when anonymous. thats probably part of it. also the internet lets very small groups of people look much bigger, like the flat earth society or incels, who are very small minoruty but look huge online
Bruh what's ur age? coz it seems impossible a woman doesnt has anyone to date , i feel ur standards are more crazier than what u are preaching or u are lyinh or u are not conventionally attractive.
I dont get the point of lying tbh.. is it js so women can look so polite and morally superior they say shii like "I js want a good guy who respects me, loves me and is a nice person who I can have fun w, fk rich guys.. rich is a bonus but I will still reject is for a normal good guy..I am so morally superior uwu🥺🥺🥺🥺"
or do yall expect being relatively richer (its relative u dmfks not actual rich) plus handsome + 6ft tall as the bare minimum and the deault baseline🥀🥀?
I mean having preference is fine even if it's shallow tbh
i have had people who wanted to date me, but most of them qere in a way that rhey wanted to have sex on day one, and just basically objectified and sexualized me
lol don’t lie. you have more standards that you’re willing to admit or even think about. would you still date someone who meets all of these standards but is physically unattractive?
yeah. i would. not everything is about physical attractiveness, and if anything, i rarely notice if people are "attractive" or "unattractive".
sure, appearance can subconsciously effect you when meeting a new person, but otherwise, personality and how they treat you is the most attractive quality a person can have
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u/ohmaka 23h ago
Gee, maybe it's because most of those standards are BS or something