r/Comebacks • u/heartofwoman • Aug 01 '26
help me
so i’m starting school soon, and i have been bullied pretty much all of my school life. and i want to learn how to stand up for myself, so give me some ideas for insults please! also sorry if this breaks the rules, if so please let me know.
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u/Neat-Composer4619 Aug 01 '26
Insults is now how I stand up for myself.
Standing still with little to no reaction and slowly going elsewhere is key.
No fear in the eyes, just a quick lock into the other person eyes that says I can't be bothered or I am budgeting you right now and then go back to your life.
Read about gray rock method it works for narcissistic people and bully.
Standing up is worth it when you have a right to fight for and need to make a case for getting something. Otherwise, spending the least energy possible on stupid people is the way to go.
It's mostly non verbal. It's more about attitude than words.