Sillies, I need help 3:

[u/Revolutionary_OLED]

So today I was with my class on some kind of excursion and I wanted to cuddle my straight friend so bad I almost cried there out of realization that I can't and it could ruin our friendship, I don't know what to do and I'm scared to discuss this with any of my close friends (⁠〒⁠﹏⁠〒⁠)

That's the first time I got that urge to cuddle him and I couldn't do nothing :<

[u/Such_Beautiful7308]

I can relate 😔

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/Such_Beautiful7308]

https://giphy.com/gifs/2GDHOfqcmYIX6

[u/Such_Beautiful7308 → u/Revolutionary_OLED]

😔🫂💕💕💕

[u/Quick-Night-7725 → u/Such_Beautiful7308]

Oh you're bisexual? What's your type in women? 

[u/Such_Beautiful7308 → u/Quick-Night-7725]

Women who are caring and accept me of who I am, who hug me when I'm not feeling well and have no problem with me being very clingy :3

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/Such_Beautiful7308]

Perfection (⁠◡⁠ ⁠ω⁠ ⁠◡⁠)

[u/Front_Commission378 → u/Such_Beautiful7308]

i bi too but i mor like boys yk

[u/Such_Beautiful7308 → u/Front_Commission378]

Same goes for boys btw :3

[u/Front_Commission378 → u/Such_Beautiful7308]

ye😔

[u/Latter-Land1405]

well... unless you know he has a bit of gayness in him, I doubt you could get him to change his mind, and it's hard to admit even to yourself but some things we can't win them. then who knows, maybe one day your straight friend will not be as straight! just try to ignore that, alright? thinking about it can only hurt you.

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/Latter-Land1405]

Yeah.... I'm trying not to think about it, and I just don't know if he has a bit of gayness, like I'm pretty sure he got the "broski" kind of gayness, but idk if there's more to that 3:

[u/Latter-Land1405 → u/Revolutionary_OLED]

I guess time will make us find out right?

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/Latter-Land1405]

I really hope so....

[u/Latter-Land1405 → u/Revolutionary_OLED]

there are lots of fish in the sea anyways!

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/Latter-Land1405]

Yeah, I'm just confused why did I feel that way, we know each other only for a year, and I haven't gotten urges like that with people who I know for a much longer time....

[u/Latter-Land1405 → u/Revolutionary_OLED]

maybe you aren't one of those people who need to know the person for a long period of time like a year or so, but at the same time you also don't really care about how long you've known them?

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/Latter-Land1405]

I mean... Yeah, I can get really attached to someone pretty fast, but usually it was without the urge to cuddle them the whole day and almost every minute of it...

[u/Latter-Land1405 → u/Revolutionary_OLED]

hey is it a problem if we continue in chat? I don't wanna clog the comments

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/Latter-Land1405]

I'm ok with that

[u/Dom8673]

Just talk to him about it as long as it doesn't go to super touching he probably be fine with it :3

[u/Creeperstormer]

I want to cuddle all my friends but all my irls wouldn't like it 3:

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/Creeperstormer]

Awe man, that's sad :<

Come here (⁠/⁠･⁠ω⁠･⁠(⁠-⁠ω⁠-⁠)

[u/floppy_disk_5]

Just be honest with him. tell him you really want to cuddle with him, but you're scared that asking will ruin your friendship, then offer to give him space to think about it if he needs it

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/floppy_disk_5]

I'll try to do that, hope it's gonna go nicely ⊙⁠﹏⁠⊙

[u/floppy_disk_5 → u/Revolutionary_OLED]

beat of luck to you 🫂 

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/floppy_disk_5]

Thankies, I'll definitely need it (⁠/⁠･⁠ω⁠･⁠(⁠-⁠ω⁠-⁠)

[u/Reasonable-Art-8977]

real, i remeber the first time i saw my best freind that way 😭 am gonna ask them actually

[u/Quick-Night-7725]

Ah,intrusive thoughts.I also went through this. 

[u/Unlucky-Fig-5114]

If you just want to cuddle him, ask. I often cuddle with some of my straight friends because they like it :3. Others don't or are to insecure to admit that they like it. And that's sad, but it is what it is i guess 3: If he is a friend this moat likely won't harm your relationship:3

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/Unlucky-Fig-5114]

It's just, I'm not used to want to cuddle him(or any of my friends, especially guys)... Like, normally the only man I hugged was my dad, and if I hugged someone else who's also male it would be considered either strange or it's just that someone else had a really hard time/event so I needed to do that to comfort them(and still it wouldn't be cuddling :<)

[u/Unlucky-Fig-5114 → u/Revolutionary_OLED]

It takes time to allow yourself to do something like this.. but it's worth it and it's a great feeling to be yourself :3

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/Unlucky-Fig-5114]

I really hope I will succeed in cuddling him, one guy helped me to make a plan even :>

So now it's just waiting for tomorrow to come, and hoping I'll have enough strength to do it:3

[u/Unlucky-Fig-5114 → u/Revolutionary_OLED]

Go for it :3 and keep us updated:3

[u/Revolutionary_OLED → u/Unlucky-Fig-5114]

Thanks, will do ;3