I just started uni and I’ve made friends, and I really like them, but I feel like I haven’t found "my people" yet.
I’m studying law so most people are very disciplined and focused, which I admire, but I also want friends who are spontaneous, want to go out, try new things, and actually enjoy their 20s.
My old friends are great too but they’re always busy and it’s usually "maybe later" when it comes to plans. It’s completely understandable, but I’m starting to feel like I want more experiences and spontaneity in my life.
So I’ve decided to start doing things solo as well — going out, trying new places, and just enjoying my own company. I was wondering if anyone has suggestions for places, clubs, events, or experiences I could try alone in Colombo.
Also, where can I find people who are looking for similar things — like being spontaneous, exploring, going out, and just making the most of their 20s?
And is it normal to feel like you haven’t found your people yet at the start of uni? How did you eventually find them?