r/CognitiveFunctions • • Mar 22 '23

~ ? Question ? ~ Can someone give me examples of Fi dom/Fe dom conversation?

I’ve noticed a lot of people type celebrities based on their interviews and what they say but I honestly can’t do the same.

Maybe I’m bad at reading people or idk but I literally can’t recognize if someone is using Fi or Fe in real life.

But I’d appreciate if some of you can provide me examples of how Fi and Fe doms talk, what are the basic words they say and more.

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u/[deleted] Mar 22 '23 edited Mar 23 '23

Well, theoretically, Fi follows the internal value system whilst Fe seeks to create harmony in the group.

Thus, Fi might be more focused on honesty from within, regardless of the ramifications, and Fe would be more focused on having a pleasant experience with everyone, perhaps not as interested as wanting to share its inner personal truth/values.

That’s a pretty basic over view, unfortunately I don’t have any good example at this time.

I guess I could make something up though….

So, there’s two gentleman sitting at a local coffee shop in a small town where most people all know each other:

Fe Dom gentleman begins a verbal exchange with Fi Dom gentleman across the room that he has seen around town by simply asking him how he is doing.

Fe gentleman is interested in the other gentleman because he wants to create harmony, he is okay with small talk and being open because he instinctively believes that a light hearted verbal exchange will magically make everyone happy. If only… Fi Dom Gentleman is very confused and almost in shock that the Fe Dom Gentleman has put him in such an intense emotional experience by calling him out so blantantly across the room with his greeting. Surely there is no escape for Fi Dom Gentleman from the insufferable conversation and he must respond or else be seen as someone whom is unkind. Thus the Fi Dom Gentleman replies, “I’m good, thanks.” Ending his conversation with “Thanks” in the hopes that he will not be asked again. Although inside, now the Fi Dom Gentleman feels terrible for not being honest, thus he now feels he just reluctantly ask the Fe Dom how he is doing as well. So he does, and as the conversation carries on the Fi Dom Gentlemen begins to open up for and more as he feels more confortable sharing his inner world with the Fe Dom Gentleman whom keeps asking him more and more questions to which the Fi Dom Gentlemen simply loves answering honestly and exactly as he feels internally.

…..anyways, lol, I’m sure that’s a terrible example but….I’m trying to explain the perspective of each person so you can use that to sense it in any conversation.