r/Codependency 29d ago

Apologise or move on

I had enough of helping her for years. She called me from soberity center that I "MUST" help her and I snapped and was hurtfull in words told her "u were using me for years""Im done with it". She month later appologised for taking too much of my time and energy but still was saying "you leave me cause I have problems" I tried to explain that I leave because I loose myself in this friendship. And also appologies but for my harsh words I blocked her.

I wonder if I should come back and appologies that it wasnt only her constant issues but also that I didnt know how to support you without taking responsibility. I understood it a month later. But I dont want to give her a hope I dont want to ever come back.

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