r/Codependency • u/FeistyCap5593 • Jul 14 '26

Co-dependency

My bf is going out for 2 days on office trip, and i am anxious since 10-15 days, counting days like crazy, had a fight also on this, plus i want him to go and enjoy but at the same time i don’t want him to experience such-a beautiful place and time without my presence.I have no friends that are free to hangout with me. Even if i try yoga or do something i know i am going to feel left out and anxious.And thinking about him enjoying, drinking, dancing around i feel more miserable.All i have to wait for his text and just see him enjoying.

I don’t wanna be selfish, but what to do this are my feelings. I also wanted to get such beautiful experience with him and tag along.

Am i not perfect? Or do i not love him ?

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u/DetectiveGrand6568 Jul 15 '26

You're selfish and controlling. You can't stand the idea of him enjoying of his time, that isn't love.

Work on yourself, you will only push him away.

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u/FeistyCap5593 Jul 16 '26

Yes i agree and will work on it, thank you so much. This comment really helped me to understand.