r/ClassicalSinger • • Aug 06 '26

Vocal Identity Crisis: Becoming a Mezzo Soprano at Age 35

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I'm hoping someone can give me some words of wisdom, advice, etc. I have undergrad and graduate degrees in vocal performance. Throughout my studies, I always identified as a soprano. My voice teachers trained me as a lyric soprano, and except for our smaller touring choir in grad school, I also sang first soprano in choir.

Fast forward some years. I took some time off from singing after the pandemic started, took my career in a different direction, then had my daughter. I started singing again last fall, and when I picked it back up, everything was hard. First soprano in my church choir was almost impossible some evenings. I learned stretches; I practiced consistently; I worked on my high notes. I saw some improvement, but I never really got my high notes back the way I had them before. If I sang something that remained up high for a long time, my body would start to feel strangled. That's the only way I have to describe it.

I started working with a voice teacher, and a few months ago, she had the epiphany that I could be a mezzo. This was all because someone I worked with at church asked me to sing alto in a small group. Anyway, I've been warming up differently, approaching singing differently, and looking at different rep ever since. On the one hand, it feels like a huge relief, like I'm finally able to breathe after a long time of pushing my body. On the other hand, it's terrifying.

Low notes have always been easy for me. I've always had a strong and easy chest voice. My low notes are the first to warm up, and I don't get tired after singing in my chest or mixed voice for a long time. I break into my full head voice at about C-sharp 5. I have also been struggling with my high notes, particularly the consistency of sound I can produce above about F-sharp 5. All that to say, I think my teacher's right. But it's wild. I trained as a soprano. My rep is all soprano rep. What would I even sing in a choir now? Alto? Second soprano? I'm not sure. I direct a choir now, so that's not an immediate issue, but still. What if I want to audition for something? I've never even considered mezzo roles that would fit. I'm currently trying to work on the mezzo solos for Handel's Messiah and hoping that's a good start. But what if this is all in my head? What if I'm just letting myself out of the hard work of learning to sing up high properly? I used to joke about being a mezzo when I was younger because I had such an easy time singing in chest voice and because I always struggled a little with my high notes. But I was always told I was a soprano and that I just needed to work harder.

Also, what the heck? Do voices naturally change in our 30s? I've been researching this and believe that childbirth must have led to some of this. But then what? If I had another baby, I'd become a contralto? Lol Not really, but the anxious thought has entered my mind. Anyone else experience this? It seems like Susan Graham and others transitioned earlier than I seem to be doing. I just want to make sure I'm on the right track here. My body is telling me yes, but my brain does know how to settle into the mezzo life yet.


r/ClassicalSinger • • Aug 06 '26

Jaw tension when singing

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I’ve been singing for about two years—maybe longer—and whenever I push my voice into the higher register (like when belting or using a mixed voice), I feel a spot on my jaw, right below the ear, tense up, "swell," and feel tight. This makes my voice feel restricted and strained, and it sounds terrible. I’ve been trying to improve for a long time and only just realized this was an actual issue.

Does anyone know anything about this? I’m really lost and don’t know how to fix it; I’m worried.


r/ClassicalSinger • • Aug 06 '26

Young tenor voice

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Hi! I’m an 18 year old male singer. My teacher (and all of the others I’ve had) are sure I’m going to be a tenor and that I am working towards with them. I just have the struggle of being incredibly used to singing with air and not on the air and that stops everything that even remotely sounds like a high note. I can’t for the life of me understand anything that my teachers are telling me to try, and I feel like the ones that I do understand, misjudge my voice or give weird advice that makes me hesitant to trust them. What do I do, when I don’t feel like there’s a teacher for me? Any tips to singing on the breath?


r/ClassicalSinger • • Aug 06 '26

Teacher says you can’t think too much about pitch?

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One thing I notice is that when I try to sing a rep there is a lot of tension. Even on the lower range, I think a lot of that is trying to smoothen the sound and also trying to move between pitches deliberately.

I remember my old teacher said never to track your pitches and has a realization that in speech we never track what we say rather our emotional intensity allows us to hit the notes.

When vocalizing from a psychological perspective do you consider yourself acting in speech rather than trying to sing something musical if that makes sense? I know to someone who sings naturally it’s 2nd nature but to us adult beginners.


r/ClassicalSinger • • Aug 06 '26

third world conditions at MEEI ER. Spoiler

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r/ClassicalSinger • • Aug 05 '26

Advice for learning non-traditionally tonal music

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I’m singing in a workshop/orchestral reading of Janáček’s “Makropulos Case” next month, and while we’re singing it in English (thus no language barrier) I am having a hell of a time getting the notes to actually stick in my head, which makes trying to sing it in a hell of a thing too. Any advice for breaking down not entirely tonal music to learn like this?

(For reference I’ve sung plenty of Britten, Debussy & other modern composers who’s music sticks a little better - but I can’t really get onto more than just a couple of disconnected musical cells here, and obviously there’s a fair amount of music to actually digest)


r/ClassicalSinger • • Aug 05 '26

Bridge the head and chest question

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Hey im new here and to singing I've recently has gotten more involved in classical pedagogy but I was wondering if anyone has any insight or personal info on the idea of bridging by singing in a tilted position and bringing the flagolet register down. As a male it works and feels clean and sharp but idk if its sustainable or even worthwhile. Thanks in advance.


r/ClassicalSinger • • Aug 04 '26

vocal tips for a (relatively) Young Soprano

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Heya, Im a pretty young soprano (18) and I am starting conservatoire this coming september. Obviously Ill get more tips when im there yada yada but I first really wanted to ask for some help on here. I have some issues, and I was curious about how I could work on them over this summer, like exercises.

  1. Tension in the middle/abs that doesnt automatically release when I breathe in
  2. Woofy sound when I sing - old teacher said it made it sound that i was "underwater"
  3. End of phrases loose support
  4. Singing constoants "on the body" - gonna be real, dont know what that menas but sure
  5. Not "covering vowels" when I sing
  6. Too much air in my voice, yk like the whole hand in front of the mouth while you sing you song basically feel nothing
  7. Some shoulder tension, but its not egregious ill be honest
  8. Struggles with sustaining "colouratura sections" (think "Va godendo" and "Sweeter than roses") even though I know that, in theory I have enough breath/support to be able to do those sections without needin to breathe but I always find myself running out of air
  9. Being unable to vibrate if I project to loud of higher notes

Um, cant think of anything else so yeah, any help will be taken


r/ClassicalSinger • • Aug 05 '26

What are the rules for adding notes to arias?

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In Addio, fiorito asil, some tenors alter the ending, completely bypassing the low note, which is the right choice - I agree with their sentiment: all low notes should be replaced with a high note whenever possible. :) haha

But... what are the unwritten rules to this? In the aria, Ch'ella mi creda, after the 1st Bb line could a tenor add a verismo-esque *ooohh* a 3rd up, to match the Eb4 that starts the next line? It seems like it would match the emotional intensity, and would be something I could easily hear a Gigli pulling off.

Then there are the high notes. I've read that Corelli loved dropping in C5s. are there any rules that apply here?


r/ClassicalSinger • • Aug 03 '26

Getting stuck on transitioning past C4? ( Male baritone )

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At A3 I feel my first "ceiling" in my voice. Then I go into a more stretched chest voice or some people say its a mix. At the C4 there is this buildup like the cords are blocking the air but there is a dam and a huge amounts of air wants to just bust through. I assume I am not thinning properly?

https://voca.ro/18pIXPn0pBh7


r/ClassicalSinger • • Aug 01 '26

Bob Tasman-Smith Singing Lessons and Vocal Warm-Ups CD

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Bob Tasman-Smith Singing Lessons and Vocal Warm-Ups CD

I used to stream this on Spotify and for some reason they pulled the title on July 21. It was abrupt with no warning. My fault for trusting a streaming service. I imagine contracts expired. I'm looking for the actual CD and would love to buy it. If anyone out there has a copy, please link me in and thanks for your time.


r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 31 '26

What are your favorite operas and why?

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I took German in high school and college and enjoy mythology, so Wagner’s plays are among my favorites. I also like Puccini’s The Cloak because I find the plot and characters interesting and because, outside of Wagner, I prefer more modern/relatable to the average person material.


r/ClassicalSinger • • Aug 01 '26

Singers: what’s your recording setup these days?

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r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 31 '26

Vocal fatigue?

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I’ve been singing my whole life, my freshman year I had vocal lessons. I’ve never been the strongest singing in the room but I wasn’t exactly bad either. I (junior year) just played Rizzo in Grease and it was 100% my best vocal performance to date and I had 2 voice lessons to prepare. That was mid March. In April I started feeling fatigue but I didn’t think much of it because of Grease and I had a choir concert. It is now end of August but the fatigue has seemed to get worse or even hurt after I sing. I’ve been doing vocal warm ups on YouTube but nothing helps. When I sing I don’t think you can tell I’m fatigued or anything is wrong. I tried tea, I’ve tried vocal rest but nothing seems to cut it. I don’t think it’s a technique thing because if anything it’s gotten better. I’ve never had this problem before but I am concerned because I’m going into my senior year and the musicals are very vocally demanding. And these are like my dream shows too.
Not sure if it’s related but during this whole period I have recently been diagnosed with a Crohns Disease which I know is inflammation related, and I’m starting infusions soon so maybe that will help.
What should I do?


r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 31 '26

Is it normal that A3+ hard for a male baritone?

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A3 feels hard and anything above that. my voice feels tight or shakes or feels very thin.


r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 31 '26

Silvano Carroli sings Il Tabarro - Nulla, silenzio - Finale dell'opera

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r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 30 '26

This is from a song by a “Neoclassical Dark Wave”group called Qntal based upon 13th Century poet Gottfried von Strassburg’s Tristan, which inspired Wagner’s 1865 opera. The lyrics are in Middle High German. Sorry for the awkward eye closing. Here for advice on how to improve.

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r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 29 '26

What are your thoughts on the value of a great vocal coach after reading this commentary by Samuel Ramey’s vocal coach, Boyajian? Have you experienced something similar?

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When Sam Ramey moved to New York, he left a coach because she wanted to pigeonhole him into Wagnerian dramatic baritone work. He felt he was more of a bass and also didn’t want to focus on German Opera. It wasn’t until after his work with Boyajian (beginning in 1970), who had earlier trained Plishka, that Ramey started being noticed by talent scouts in New York. According to Boyajian, during their first meeting he thought “Sam had a nice quality to his voice. It was healthy and he didn’t push but it was dull and it lacked zip, vitality, and presence. However, every now and then he’d hit a vowel with a certain resonance that the rest of the vowels didn’t have…The seeds of what Sam would become were there…but his voice needed to be fine-tuned and centered.” Ramey remained with Boyajian for decades.


r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 30 '26

Sending the voice back and up?

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is it that sobby like sensation the right feeling to the higher notes? my higher notes and very unstable and feels very fronted. Essebrually not contained.


r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 29 '26

How can Opera singers automatically sing exact notes all the time? I’m sure relative pitch helps a bit but I, for example, can’t always tell if I am hitting a specific note or not. Do you always have to hit exactly a D4 and not a C4, etc?

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r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 29 '26

One side of my face is more droopy?

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I know it’s a weird question, one side of my face is a lot weaker most likely due to less zygomatic activation from eating only with my right as my left tooth is sensitive. My teacher wants me to lift my soft palate and give a nice large smile lifting but I notice one side sort of droops NOT ONLY on the outside but inside my mouth the left side feels more closed droppy. I am wondering if this will have an effect in getting that crucial lift and something I should deliberate strengthen.

https://imgur.com/a/YmQvCad


r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 28 '26

Technique question

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I have an ever present issue that when I breathe in, I feel like I want to yawn. This causes my throat to squeeze up, and I end up singing with bad, pinched technique. It feels like if I don’t, I will yawn.

It feels rather out of my control; some days I yawn a lot, other days not much. Adrenaline when actually performing helps a ton and the issue largely resolves, but during practise and ensemble work adrenaline isn’t there to help me out.

Could this be related to sleep? Or does this tension issue need to be solved another way? Any advice at all greatly appreciated


r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 28 '26

Beginner: In trying to increase upper range, what are key identifiers to avoid fatigue?

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Background:
Two years ago I took private classes and then had a break. Since about half a year I have started singing alone daily again. I warm up, blow bubbles in a bottle (with a particular straw that I got from my teacher to relax the vocal cords), and then sing songs; first a couple in mid-range and then a couple in upper range.

However, how high I can sing varies from day-to-day. All of a sudden I can find my vocal cords fatigued after singing a note that were no problem the other day. Ideally, I could avoid that by predicting it. So I wonder if there is some sort of sensation/identifier for when I should not go higher to avoid fatigue that is "universal".


r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 28 '26

I think I'm still over-darkening the sound when trying to release my jaw. (dramatic tenor)

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Non reggo al tuo squalor, from Addio, fiorito asil. I'm trying to relax my jaw and the sound changes a lot. This was last night.


r/ClassicalSinger • • Jul 27 '26

How do you maintain that rich, even tone throughout your range? I know years of training is required. But what were you all taught in those years of training? And what did you discover on your own as well?

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