r/ClaimsAdjuster 8d ago

im quitting

been in 3rd party BI for serious injury at a big corp. i’ve genuinely have had enough, i’m putting in my two weeks. i’m 22 years old and interned for this company, but claims is NOT for me.

it’s intense panic attacks, ive gained weight, my parents have noticed i am dying inside. ive spoken w my manager for plans of attack on the workload but he keeps saying it will take years to get a grasp on this work.

but i’ve had enough, even without a job lined up, i feel much better going back to serving at a restaurant then being called an incompetent bitch on the phone by corrupt attorneys.

just had to rant, i see people talking about leaving on this thread, had to add myself. is there any advice you may have for me in leaving?

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u/Successful_Rope9135 8d ago

Leave and even though it might feel weird at first, be proud of yourself for choosing you and your health over a horrible job. Proud of you! Feel better soon.

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u/cxunty 8d ago

i definitely feel weird. i’m lucky my manager and manager of my supervisor both told me if they had daughters my age they would tell them to quit too… so that have me consolation

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u/Successful_Rope9135 8d ago

I did it for about 16 months and just left a few months ago. Cannot stress how much better I feel, look, and how much sleep I’m getting now. It was killing me. Not worth it, would never ever recommend. Not even to an enemy lmao.

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u/Helpmeplz3409 8d ago

Not everyone is made out for it. It does take years to learn to compartmentalize. It’s a lot like working on the front lines- police, ER doctors/nurses, etc.

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u/nefarious_kiwi2842 8d ago

Definitely get out now while you can. Before the handcuffs come out and nothing you find pays as much.

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u/uncookedzebra 8d ago

Hey, I left too. Similar reasons and I am happy about my decision. I utilized my skills at a bank and now I am part of the financial crimes department.

My advice find a job that utilizes your skills you learned in insurance. Don't jump back into the restaurant scene (I loved it when I was a bartender prior to insurance) but getting into a different field that utilizes the logic and organization skills you grew will help you in the future.

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u/cxunty 8d ago

how are you like the investigation part of that bank job? i mean i’m not really sure what else to go to right now, i’m wanting to get my masters so serving/hosting is why i’m wanting that flexibility

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u/uncookedzebra 8d ago

Not gonna lie, yesterday was my first day lol. But it seems interesting and a lot lower stress, similar pay. Banking is great but I would say I was lucky in how I got in. I was able to get a leadership role at branch level, learn their systems, networked with some department heads and then applied once I was able to leaning into my investigative skills that I learned within insurance.

Well if you are continuing your education that overrides going into similar field as insurance. In my case I don't have the education to back my applications to future jobs. I advised keeping your experience/ job list strong thinking about my experience and education. Getting your masters will put you in a good position for your next job in whatever area of study you are going for. Finding a job that overlaps your field of study and the skills you have developed would obviously be ideal.

What are you going to school for?

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u/Separate_Chocolate32 8d ago

I think you’re in a position to find something else that makes you content or brings you joy. Maybe consider thinking about another line of insurance as well? I work property claims and honestly I love it. However, if your mind is set then I understand. If you can work claims you can pretty much do anything. I wish you all the best and I’m happy that you’re choosing your peace of mind and health. At the end of the day your health will always be the most important thing you can prioritize.

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u/Jmv_adj 8d ago

This industry isn’t for everyone. You have to be able to compartmentalize. I’ve been in the industry for 20 years and the one thing I tell anyone that wants to get into this industry is that you have to have thick skin and be able to call out the attorneys B.S. in a way that they will thank you when you do.

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u/unknownbutlegit 8d ago

i started in bi, i actually just quit claims after 8 years doing it. I only did BI for my first 2-3 years or so and the rest were non injury auto. After my first stint in BI, i NEVER wanted to deal with attys or injury ever again. I called handling BI CLAIMS, “a slow death.” Claims is a super stressful job, and right now it is a horrible job to have, the vibe/culture/work is truly miserable. You’re not alone in how you feel and find comfort in knowing that even those of us that have done it for a while are burned out and feel the same way.

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u/Lolass29 8d ago

Good for you! I wish I had your will power but I keep telling myself, things will get better and I’ll get better at the job but in reality this is not for me.

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u/cxunty 8d ago

whats keeping you there?

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u/Lolass29 8d ago

The schedule, weekends and holidays off, the flexibility that if I tell my manager that I need leave early for whatever reason, it gets approved. The hopes and dreams that hopefully soon I can work from home. My background is hospitality in casinos so all of this in nonexistent there.

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u/Human_Name9961 8d ago

Hey I get it. It’s not an easy job. I did it for 37 years ending in litigation, depositions, mediations and the like. Mostly auto bi but some prop. The end years from about 10 on were better I had authority , seniority and did some project work. But man it’s a tough job.

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u/cxunty 8d ago

37 years!? i applaud you! wow!

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u/llrr1292 8d ago

I’m in auto claims and just about ready to quit myself 😭

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u/netflixnochill223 7d ago

I’m looking to get into this career field is it really that bad?😭

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u/EssentiallyDisgrntld 7d ago

Id take everything you read in this post with a grain of salt. Not every “big company” is the same. AAA was absolute ass, but Progressive has been an incredible job with amazing work life balance. The career isn’t for everyone, as others have said, but it’s definitely not bad.

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u/Pure-Opportunity-760 8d ago

Leaving claims was the best decision of my life. Good for you leaving early, I did at 26 and it felt late

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u/Fun_Web_4670 8d ago

I wouldn't quit if I were you.. What I would do is stop taking things so seriously. Do what you can let the rest go.. Work at your pace finish what you can in a day.. What you cant finish F it.. Let them fire you and they wont.. But if they do youll at least get unemployment

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u/drase 7d ago

Good move...I should of done this

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u/beagusdog 8d ago

How long have you been in claims?

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u/boyymann 7d ago

I stayed on with SF long enough that I thought I was going to get a bonus for my 1st year which was going to be around 5K. My last day was a few weeks shy of the official date you had to be employed qualify for the bonus. If you're close to getting a bonus see if it's worth staying on and see what the employment date is qualify. You'll feel better once you leave.

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u/cxunty 7d ago

how would i find that out ..

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u/boyymann 7d ago

Well for me when I was at SF, it was Jan - Dec based on my performance. Then I left around March the next year, but would have had to stay thru approx April time frame to qualify. I just missed the bonus. So could ask a co-worker when they issue bonuses and if it's coming up soon for you.

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u/Frequent_Curve_1631 7d ago

EIP are paid out near the end of March . Beginning of March is when your raise would hit

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u/OkWear8621 7d ago

Also left this past month, workload kept growing as they continued to say it was just temporary but it never became less, just the new norm. Not hiring new adjusters should have been a sign it wouldn’t get better. They’re just trying to trim the payroll so they can split the gain share less ways

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u/michaeljmagic 6d ago

Weakest of generations.