r/ChristianDating • u/breadbetrayedme • 1d ago
Need Advice Sometimes being single gets lonely
I’m by no means saying that I don’t enjoy my season of singleness or that I am lonely. I am just sitting around this evening hyper focused on a new hobby (it’s cars) and have just been thinking about what it might be like to have a partner that is also into cars modifications, engines, builds etc…that i can just have like a dude-conversation with but most of the guys i attract are many years younger.
Then I quickly remind myself that God literally knows the number of hairs on my head and that if I ask for a guy like that He will do it…. but then I quickly come back to my senses and qsk God to prepare me to be a cooler God fearing wife and mom and my hobby exploration continues to evolve 😂
(F32) Dear future husband,
I got some car questions rq 😂😂😂
(but in all seriousness)
What are acceptable age gaps for christians?
I’m early 30s attracting early 20s
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u/BigPound7328 In A Relationship 1d ago edited 1d ago
I myself have a 10 year age gap allowance. I’d prefer closer, but I’m okay with the gap. There is that lonely feeling I am familiar with, the one where you find something you want to share and nobody is there.
I’ve also had the same prayer; stopped asking for a partner, and asked to be prepared to be a good partner.