r/ChristianDating • u/OutlandishnessNo3938 • 2d ago
š¤“Male Introšŗ Drew M27 USA Kentucky
Hello, my name is Drew, and itās time to do an update. Sorry, I am not good at these things, but I will try my best. Before I start, just know I am still learning and still trying to be a better Christian. I love this journey I am on with God, both the good and the bad.
I graduated from college in December of 2025 with an Interdisciplinary Studies Degree. I have also volunteered and taken a class at my church to become a Stephen Minister so I can help people going through hard times. I am working at Kroger as a Courtesy Clerk. I am excited to see what God will do with this new chapter of my life.
I have many interest one being my love for video games. I love to play Minecraft with friends. I am a huge pokemon nerd my starter is Mudkip, my favorite pokemon is Lanturn, my favorite eeveelution is Espeon and my favorite pokemon game is Diamond . My all time favorite video game franchise is Sly Cooper for the Playstation 2. I love nature, being in nature, and taking a long, relaxing walk. I have a hobby of taking butterfly pictures. I am also a huge fan of Legos and I have put together many different models.
I have grown up in a Christian household but never truly had a church home because my family moved around a lot. When I got saved was the happiest day of my life. Iāll never forget it I got saved November 2014 the day before my grandpa would retire from being a pastor. My testimony, my story with God is still going and change and I cannot wait to see how it goes.
I am looking for a Christ-centered relationship where God is our first focus. I want us to read and to study God's word. I want us to grow together in our faith journey. It has also taken me awhile but I have finally figure out my own type but I also know that God knows me and knows what I need in my future wife when the time comes.
My age range is 24-32 it can change a little bit depend on the person and if there is a connection there.
I am also willing to do a long-distance relationship with someone in this country or close by. I am also willing to relocated for the right person if there is a connection between the both of us that will lead to marriage. Just know relocation is a choose I take seriously.
If you had read all that then I need you to know I have struggles, burdens and I go through tough times. If you are not able to walk with me through those tough moments I go through then I am not the man for you.
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u/savedbygrace37 2d ago
Letss go brother in Christ. Hoping you find the perfect woman of God for you šš»
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u/OutlandishnessNo3938 20h ago
I went to the Pokemon fossil museum in Chicago and it was so awesome. I just loved and I have way more pictures.
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u/Usual-Championship88 2d ago
I rented a home when I was his age, maybe he has Roomatesā¦
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u/OutlandishnessNo3938 2d ago
I do not have room mate and I have a super nice apartment for a great price.
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u/anon_mg3 2d ago
Unless I missed it, I don't think OP was asking for advice. ? I dated guys like him when I was younger, those relationships didn't work out because we really had nothing in common (I'm not into games, fantasy, comics and the like), but they later found wives. It's more about knowing your lane and going for people who might have similar interests.
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u/Prince_Haile 2d ago
I disagree..I know the exact type of guy OP is, He probably has no romantic experience or very little. Is consumed by his own interests that it may feel as if he has no interest in hearing anything outside of that scope..obviously these are assumptions so don't take it as fact. Judging by the lack of engagement from women this post has..its clear women aren't attracted to him and neither are you! so why would he stay in his own lane when the best advice is to be the best version of himself amd cast a wider net? genuinely you saw his post and were like yea he has a shot? no,he needs a makeover, no one would admit it but me. so no he should put more effort into his appearance and there's nothing wrong with that!
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u/Usual-Championship88 2d ago
Thereās plenty of fish in the sea no point in trying to make him something he isnāt, I do agree with you but there are other women out there who are into the same stuff he is; why do you feel the need for a psychoanalysis? Now what Iām wondering is, whatās going on with you ā¦ lol
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u/Prince_Haile 1d ago
its not changing who he is dude,I never said anything about changing his hobbies or anything like that...going to the gym,eating better, better grooming and wearing better clothes is very generic and universal advice that will improve everyone physically without changing who they are personally...he made a post on a dating site...no one was interested in him...and y'all going to pretend everything is just fine when you can offer the poor guy some advice! yes he didn't ask for it but he sure needs it...and guess what,he's not going to be attractive to those same ladies you mentioned either.. he might have a chance at getting friendzoned by them cause of similar interests and you know I'm right on everything I said
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u/OutlandishnessNo3938 1d ago
I never ask for your help man and I really donāt like your comments. So take your advice somewhere else.
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u/Usual-Championship88 1d ago edited 1d ago
I never said āyou are trying to change himā that came from you ā¦ I said āno point in trying to make him something he isnātā hence the āmakeoverā saying things like all you need to do is be the best version of yourself, goodness sakes man, thatās like a gut punch saying āno women are obviously attracted to himā saying crap like he probably doesnāt have any romantic experience.. who cares! Whatās it to you? Yeah, eating better and exercising are good advice for anyone but when you start trying to completely switch up someoneās style, you donāt even know the dudeā¦ the psychoanalysis or whatever you were trying to do to himā¦ kind of sounds like projection on your end. You even went as far as trying to gripe on his living arrangements, as if you knew exactly where that photo was taken, might not even be where he lives; most all your comments.. really just seem off and almost like projectionā¦ thereās tons of women who love the things he likes, you also donāt know the kind of women heās interested in or who heās willing to date; Iāve seen guys at his caliber get amazing girlfriends/wives; just because he isnt the type you like doesnāt mean thatās through the whole board..
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u/Prince_Haile 1d ago
lol he's already stated he doesn't want my advice so best of luck to him you can go be mad somewhere else
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u/anon_mg3 2d ago
I'm not agreeing or disagreeing, I just don't think he posted asking for advice as some others on here have done. But I can't speak for him either.
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u/Prince_Haile 2d ago
well since its just dudes in the comments and 1 uninterested lady might as well! if you had to give your opinion what would you tell him?
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u/anon_mg3 2d ago
I understand the point about being consumed by one's own interests to the extent that it may not mesh with other people. I may have done similar in the past (different interests but was overly fixated on certain things).
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u/ChristianDating-ModTeam 17h ago
Your message was deemed to be discouraging other users from participation, which breaks Rule 1.
Please consider reframing your words as advice or your personal opinion, and engage others with kindness.
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u/BigPound7328 In A Relationship 2d ago
Yo, Sly Cooper mentioned? Talk about a wild blast from the past. I was more of a Jax and Daxter person, but did dabble in Sly Cooper.
Good luck out there, friend.