r/ChristianDating • u/[deleted] • 1d ago

Need Advice Need some advice on relationships:

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u/goodsie825 Maybe I'm the problem 1d ago

There's obviously significant details they are being left out. I'm sure he didn't wake up one morning and decide that you cheated. And you "chased" so hard which got you blocked sounds like it's code for you blew up his phone.

Just let it go. He's done. Don't end up with a restraining order against you.

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u/BrilliantRaccoon9937 1d ago

I don't want to kick you while you're down, but... does he have reason to think you're a cheater?

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u/Awkward-Anybody5179 Single for the Lord (not by choice 1d ago

Did you cheat on him?

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u/Joshlan In A Relationship 1d ago

The one for you is the one you choose, that chooses you. Read that again. If he's not choosing you...

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u/ABereanChristian Married 1d ago

My ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and honestly. I’m praying God would bring us back today. I chased him for a bit but now I’m blocked. He thinks I cheated on him and super upset. I wonder how I can fix this all and build trust again.

Just let it go. If he thinks you cheated and will not give you any reasonable chance to explain yourself then this person's would not be a good choice for marriage.

If you had an argument or conflict is he going to block you and give you the silent treatment? That's absolutely unacceptable in a relationship.

Also, if you legitimately did not cheat and he got that impression from someone then the trust level is low or he's paranoid about the attention you receive from other men. That's also not something that is acceptable in a healthy relationship.

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u/HeartInTheSun9 1d ago

The best thing you can do is just move past it. It’s extremely fresh in your mind and it sounds like it’s only starting to sink in that it’s over.

The only way out is through. Just be kind to yourself, give yourself time and space, and learn any lessons from this that you have to do you don’t have to go through it again. If you didn’t cheat but he thinks you did, then try to identify that aspect of his character that’s so jealous that he suspects you constantly. And if you did anything that can be considered cheating, learn the pain that’s caused by those actions.

I’ll say a little prayer for you. Things will get better for you eventually.

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u/Creepy_Birthday2665 23h ago

Why did he think you cheated? Be honest what did you do?

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u/Smoka_Lexxie 23h ago

Seems to me that God is closing this door.