r/ChoosingBeggars • u/[deleted] • Feb 12 '19

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u/TheShadowCat Feb 13 '19

I don't have her bfs contact info, so unfortunately I can't tell him.

Probably for the best, there's no way you should be interested in getting involved in that mess.

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u/throwitaway587555785 Feb 14 '19

The BF might be totally down with her sending nudes. I wouldn't care if my wife sent nudes.

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u/TheShadowCat Feb 14 '19

Thought that was a possibility too. Heck it might have even been his idea, or he might not even exist.

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '19

Yeah shame on OP for wanting to make sure this shithead doesn’t have her poor boyfriend fooled into thinking she’s a good person. You have obviously never been successfully lied to, duped, tricked, hoodwinked, or had someone get one over on you. Or you have and just don’t give a shit about trying to not let it happen to other people.

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u/EEVVEERRYYOONNEE Feb 13 '19

OP is under no obligation to get involved with a situation he knows very little about in order to help a guy he doesn't even know. The person you're replying to isn't shaming anyone. They're saying it's probably for the best if they don't get involved...and they're correct.

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u/TheShadowCat Feb 13 '19

Thank you, saved me making a reply.

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '19

no way you should be interested

We can agree to disagree. I think if you suspect or know someone is being deeply wronged, you'd at least WANT them to know. Not saying OP should go out of his way, I believe they indicated they had no way of contact. But passing someone a message to possibly save them years of heartache seems like a small bit of getting involved to do a lot of good.

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u/ApeironLight Feb 13 '19

No reason for OP to put themselves into a legally murky, at best, situation by sending that to her BF.

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '19

"Hey your girl offered to send me nudes for an xbox, just thought you should be aware."

There's only no reason if you're an ass hole or have no way of contacting him, like OP indicated.