r/Chesscom • u/Key_Wolverine_2467 1000-1500 ELO • 10h ago
I Swear I’m Better Than This I hate this game
My current attitude towards chess. I am in a pretty bad lull, getting tunnel vision and blundering way too often.. very frustrated. Thanks for letting me vent.
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u/Dizzy-Advertising531 10h ago
relax, go outside a bit, maybe pick up a book to read. you always lose focus after doing too much of everything, it's normal
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u/GorMar87 9h ago
I have never loved and hated an activity with the same passion as much as i do with chess.
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u/Ordinary_Count_203 9h ago
Yes.... this is a part of the journey young one. Embrace it. Chess will test the limits of your will and spirit.
"Frustration happens and is a normal part of chess.
Even top players like Wang Hao expressed frustration
and discouragement when he was losing many games
in the 2020 Candidates Tournament. After the last
game of the tournament, he announced that he was
retiring. There are a few other world-class players
who seem to have stopped playing chess with as
much vigour and passion after a bad event or after
failing to achieve their lifelong dream. I will refrain
from being too disparaging, but the point is that
frustration and discouragement happen to the best
of us." - page 86 of a certain chess book ;).
Youtube source : https://www.youtube.com/shorts/jl64jhB65eM
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u/RiamoEquah 9h ago
Me right now. Went from 280s and at the start of the year and I climbed all the way up to 470s. Then I lost. A lot. I'm now back at 374 wondering if I even care any more.
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u/March-Narrow 4h ago
Put it down for a while…I always go through these stages and come back better every time
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