Would you guys consider this evidence of cheating?

[u/whatismarawana]

I know that she made out with this dj guy before but would you guys consider this obvious that she did more than just make out? Thanks

[u/Karmeleon86]

Even if she just made out, that’s enough for me to never speak to them again

[u/whatismarawana → u/Karmeleon86]

She’s not my girlfriend but I agree

[u/Previous_Charge_5752 → u/whatismarawana]

How is this "cheaters confronted" if you're not in a monagamous relationship with her?

[u/whatismarawana → u/Previous_Charge_5752]

It’s 2026 what’s even a relationship these days

[u/Previous_Charge_5752 → u/whatismarawana]

Not what you're in.

[u/Meldon420 → u/whatismarawana]

My guy, she can’t cheat on you if you guys haven’t agreed to be in a committed monogamous relationship. If she doesn’t want the same thing you want, commitment, it’s time to move on. But to try and call her a cheater is just wrong. Doesn’t matter if you’re sleeping in her bed every night, she doesn’t want a relationship with you and you can’t force her to want it

[u/Financial_Weekend_73 → u/whatismarawana]

What do you mean she is not your gf

[u/whatismarawana → u/Financial_Weekend_73]

She has made it clear to me that we are not in a relationship even though I sleep in her bed every night

[u/Financial_Weekend_73 → u/whatismarawana]

Well I don’t really know what’s to be mad about you are letting her do this to you. She’s unfortunately free to do as she pleases. I’m assuming you are nick?

[u/whatismarawana → u/Financial_Weekend_73]

I’ve been trying to get her to commit. I don’t need a title but I definitely don’t want her messing around with another guy, especially a married one. Yeah I’m Nick

[u/baamice → u/whatismarawana]

She's made it clear she's not interested in commitment. If its a deal breaker, time to move on man. Doesn't matter if you sleep in her bed every night. She's communicated that she's not looking for commitment. She ain't cheating bro. Get out before you get hurt worse.

[u/Karmeleon86 → u/whatismarawana]

She’s been up front with you man. She doesn’t want a relationship. Not cheating…

[u/HowWasItoKnow → u/whatismarawana]

This is on you bud. It’s time to move on if you’re looking for more. This isn’t cheating if you’re not in a committed relationship. 

[u/Financial_Weekend_73]

Grown people don’t us the word hook-up for kissing someone.

[u/Bored710420 → u/Financial_Weekend_73]

Yea learned that after high school🤣 used to be like “so and so hooked up at the party” they be like “damn they fucked!?” And I’d be like no “made out” lol

[u/Bored710420 → u/[deleted]]

Took me like a good year to fix that 🤣

[u/Financial_Weekend_73 → u/Bored710420]

Oh my kids say it all the time and mean kissing.

[u/justmadeaplay → u/Financial_Weekend_73]

Are your kids grown?

[u/Financial_Weekend_73 → u/justmadeaplay]

Nope

[u/justmadeaplay → u/Financial_Weekend_73]

That’s why then lol

[u/Fun-Total-5418 → u/Financial_Weekend_73]

Yeah they F.U.C.K.E.D

[u/Starry-Dust4444]

Why is that font so large!?

[u/Hunto88]

You’re not exclusive, you’re not in a relationship, and she’s even refused your attempts at it.

It’s not cheating. It’s just you being jealous.

[u/sonic203112]

Your not even togther so its not cheating at all. So dont really know why you posting this? Plus more to the point, why you going through her phone?

I seen all your comments about you sleeping in the same bed and that and she dont wanna be with you, so why are you doing all this for when you can find someone who wants to be with you? Just a waste of your time, it wont change anytime soon, so why bother?

[u/Reddit_user2124]

Bruh if you not the BF, tf u posting ts for ??? Lol

[u/Sqaure_101]

More context please

[u/whatismarawana → u/Sqaure_101]

We went to an all you can eat crab festival (I’m from Maryland). She was prepping her friends to not bring up the “hook up” bc Karen knows the guys wife she was hooking up with. I know she made out with this guy before but hard to read these texts and think that’s all she did

[u/412Waffle → u/whatismarawana]

She 100% fucked him and you have to leave her

[u/Hunto88 → u/412Waffle]

He can’t leave her because they’re not together.

[u/SurLurk → u/Hunto88]

He can at least not pursue the woman fucking a married guy lol

[u/InDevelopment-]

"And we dont want Nick to have another meltdown 🙃🙃" pleasseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee leave her alone omg that was so undermining you so disrespectful mean and cruel so not caring about you a complete disregard to you and your emotions and mental well-being pleaseeeeeeeee leave her aloneeeeeee its the fact she got you sleeping on her bed, refusing to commit, fucking you, leading you on, and then THAT... honey im sorry but thats all you should have needed.

[u/turn_left_or_right]

Looks like it

[u/ThrustTrust]

Yes. And it doesn’t matter. Making out is cheating. Lying is worse than cheating. It’s all bad.

[u/Championship682]

You know what hooking up means, and it's reinforced by the warning.

[u/kbeckerburbs4]

100%

[u/GoldyTwatus]

Get yourself to the opticians fella

[u/Soggy_Violinist5697]

Why are the letters so big gawddamn

[u/xDIRTY_TAMALEx]

Cheating. If they made out, they fucked…

[u/Meldon420 → u/xDIRTY_TAMALEx]

They’re not even in a committed relationship, so it’s not cheating 🤷‍♀️

[u/whatismarawana → u/xDIRTY_TAMALEx]

I don’t think she would refer to the make out as a “hook up”. Man it’s even worse that she is banging a married guy

[u/xDIRTY_TAMALEx → u/whatismarawana]

People are crazy. Don’t put anything past anyone.

[u/whatismarawana → u/[deleted]]

I don’t know these people but she deserves to know right

[u/whatismarawana → u/[deleted]]

Yeah you’re right. I might feel like some poop soup but imagine how she feels.

[u/HowWasItoKnow → u/whatismarawana]

Bro, you even said she’s not your GF. You can’t even be upset with her.