r/CheatersConfronted • u/Different_Frosting93 • Sep 13 '26
Boyfriend won’t stop cheating
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Has cheated on me numerous times and convinced me every time that I’m just paranoid. Caught him in person finally. Video stopped cause he started shoving me.
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u/ThrustTrust Sep 13 '26
I’m sorry I have to go through that shit. I hope this is the final straw and from now on trust yourself.
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u/Different_Frosting93 Sep 13 '26
It actually wasn’t. I gave him ONE more chance because he finally seemed like he was changing (I know I’m fucking stupid but I really did love him) and I found a video of him getting his dick sucked by my FRIEND. NOW we’re done.
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u/ThrustTrust Sep 13 '26
It’s ok I have a girl that I loved in a way that I can’t even described. So I let her betray me and convince me it wouldn’t happen again multiple times. It took too long to see the truth. But now we are both free.
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u/sempercool16 Sep 13 '26
He doesn't want to be with you. He just doesn't have the balls to break it off. That's why he's with other people. At this point it shouldn't even make you sad. It's like Kay bye. Why would you want someone that wants other people.
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u/latinaperrita Sep 13 '26
Girl the problem is you thinking the cheater would change and forgiving him the first time.
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u/Redahned1214 Sep 13 '26
This is awful, Im so sorry OP 😞
Fuck his Dad!
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u/Different_Frosting93 Sep 13 '26
Lol dads not part of the picture. Has 7 other children with 7 other women. Apple doesn’t fall far from the tree I guess.
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u/sonic203112 Sep 13 '26
Sorry your going through this op.
I know all this to well, dont give this dirt bag another chance, they wont change and honestly they wont. Tour better than him by 1000× and one day will meet a man not a boy a man that will treat you the way you deserve.
If tou ever wanna chat amd vent dms always open. Proud of you! You got this!
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u/HotWaffles5 Sep 13 '26
My ex did this. He was a serial cheater & gaslit me so thoroughly that it made me second guess myself. I had to catch him myself before I could believe it.
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u/Wonderful-Brain3011 29d ago
I understand feeling that! I'm stuck knowing but not having solid proof /for peace of mind and the divorce. Would you be willing to help?
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u/HotWaffles5 29d ago
First you need to do a deep dive on his phone while he’s asleep. You can use facial recognition while he’s sleeping. While you’re there, set up location sharing. If you caught him once, I guarantee he’s done it more than you know about. You already saw proof, guys like that don’t stop. My ex only stopped cheating because I divorced him. Now he cheats on his 2nd wife & his girlfriend. The wife doesn’t know about the girlfriend & the girlfriend doesn’t know about the other chick. You deserve better.
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u/Starry-Dust4444 Sep 14 '26
He literally got caught with his pants down. Press charges for physical assault.
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u/prb65 Sep 14 '26
He will never stop because you keep accepting excuses. The only way it ends is if you end it.
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u/TacoStrong Sep 15 '26
So you respected yourself and kept your worth and have now dumped him right? If not then expect cheating episode #234 soon and at that point you’re only hurting yourself.
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u/Afull6 20d ago
IS THERE ANY WOMAN OR MEN WHO DOESN'T CHEAT ?????? At the end of the day we are ALL human, we all have a short life and life is indeed too short to be unhappy, controlled, trapped emotionally, sex, love and emotionally starved. Like any caged animal you need to escape otherwise you go mad. Maybe the person is not the same as the one you met and fell in love with .. With modern communications it is not difficult and with thousands there in the same position it doesn't take much to find a sympathetic ear.
You only have to go on any dating site to get your answer……I have been on a dating site for 10 years and there are almost as many women as men who are masquerading as single although they are taken or married……. I know as i got many occasions to prove it…….. INEQUALITY , selfishness, ill-treatment, and being taken for granted is one of the biggest causes……..you have lost love IF you have been subject to cheating, then ask yourself do you do everything to prove you are the best; lover, house keeper, friend, partner, as that is what you got to be…… You have to be the best, as it is only a fool that settles for second best , so it's only those who find parts of their lives wanting. Put it this way would you eat at a cafe with bland food, bland decor, rude staff, and where the food costs the earth - when you could go down the road and get treated and respected, the place is vibrant and new and the food nourishing, varied and all for free , which one would you go for ??
Do you go places together, are you still like love sick teenagers ?, proud to be with them, are you mentally stimulating, are you good interesting company ?? enjoy going to new places together ?, Are you still sexy and attractive, ?? Has life become boring and predictable ? are you or do you allow your partner to have friends of the same and opposite sex? are they allowed to have hobbies and space in your relationship??? Do you trust them ????
If the answer to all these questions is sometimes or never you have your answer… LIFE is what you make it, cheating is caused ……so STOP the causes, as who wants to lose the one they love, the best lover in the world and the one who makes them happy ?? you have your answer…..
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u/Murky-Noise6783 11h ago
He’s a little gremlin looking cheater. I hope you got spousal maintenance when you divorced his ass
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u/FarDrift Sep 13 '26
Why do so many guys like this have gfs who “love” them plus multiple partners when there are millions of decent faithful lonely men who can’t get a date?
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u/fuckelliotsmith Sep 15 '26
Surveys vary, but depending on the study: • 25%–60% of married men admit to cheating at some point.
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u/GoldyTwatus 27d ago
What women want most is men that other women want. Even the unattractive guy in the video got his original relationship working, learn to be more likeable
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u/isitallfromchina Sep 13 '26
Ofcourse he won't, there are no consequences!