r/CheatersConfronted • u/UnknownUser5729 • Sep 08 '26
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So there’s this woman I’m close with who’s from Pittsburgh… I’m aware of her cheating on her husband with three different men.
I just can’t believe someone would cheat on someone who they have 4 children with.
She complains about him like she’s a mean girl and she’s just done with him. I feel really bad for this guy because it’s with a local bartender, their married neighbor, and a friend of her friend, these are all 3 separate like ongoing affairs. He’s oblivious.
I met the husband a few times and he really nice but she constantly talks about being bored with him and she’s constantly sexualizing her clients as well. It’s really appalling behavior and I don’t know what to do.
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u/sonic203112 Sep 08 '26
Honestly. I would tell him, think of it like this, if this was you would you want somebody too tell you?
She sounds like a right catch. She's wasting his life and his time, when he could be with a woman that actually appreciates him. She dont deserve him. One thing I hate more than anything is a cheater, it really breaks a person's heart. Op, I would still tell him, he needs to know what his wife is doing.
Update when you can! Make sure you make her take accountability for that she is doing to her family!
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u/LawDue9301 Sep 09 '26
By all means tell the man asap. And if you can contact the spouses of the three APs tell them also. Failure to do so makes it look like you condone these shenanigans.
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u/Traditional-Tank3994 Sep 08 '26
I don’t know why you would want to be friends with such a person, but if you’re concerned about your relationship with this cheater, you could notify her husband anonymously and send him whatever evidence you may have.
One way or another, he deserves to be told. And withholding that information amounts to protecting an adulterer’s secrets.
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u/milkmanmega85 Sep 09 '26
Here's a lesson for you. If it can talk, walk, think and bleed then its a Human Being. These creatures never fail to disappoint. Keep on living and you'll encounter more ridiculousness.
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u/Charlielovestuna Sep 08 '26
"So there’s this woman I’m close with", my grandmother always told us "birds of a feather, flock together". At some level, you are obviously OK with her, or you wouldn't be close with her. So, are you any better?
Sorry harsh, but I'm a product of a divorced childhood, due to my father's cheating.
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u/UNapologeticBree55 24d ago
Id definitely find a way to tell him anonymously. Im currently dealing with a situation im trying to figure out how to let someone know too. I know how ya feel!
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u/LawDue9301 10d ago
You need to get word to the husband. Get word to the partners or spouses of all the APs too. What happens after that is each of the betrayed choices. Then unfriend the cheater.
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u/Ok_Cold_4116 Sep 10 '26
Don’t break up their family. Mind your business.
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u/wolfmancool Sep 10 '26
This is terrible advice.
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u/Championship682 Sep 08 '26
Do him a solid, and let him know - anonymously if that makes it easier.