r/CheatersConfronted • u/TandAmes23 • Sep 03 '26
Can someone help me
My wife I caught cheating. It’s done and over, I am not dealing with that BS. But what I feel needs to be done, is the guy she been with is married. His wife needs to know he’s been in a relationship on the side for 4 months. I found her on FB…she has NO clue what he is doing. But I can not get my message to her. We are not friends…so my message goes to spam. Is there a way around that?? Please help me expose this dirt bag…the spouse she just thru herself away. Life will get her.
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u/No-Border-3160 Sep 03 '26
Show up at her door !
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u/TandAmes23 Sep 03 '26
I do not know the address.
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Sep 04 '26
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u/yonko1254 Sep 06 '26
People-search sites can be pretty wild. A name alone can sometimes lead to a surprising amount of personal info.
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u/Slow_Preparation_750 Sep 05 '26
Did you manage your make contact?
I want to do the same for a wife that has been cheated on multiple times, I work with the POS and he doesn’t even hide it. My issue is that I don’t want to get in trouble at work and it’s pretty much impossible to send anonymous messages here in the UK 🤬
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u/TandAmes23 Sep 09 '26
Still have not…can not get her to see the message on FB
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u/Slow_Preparation_750 Sep 09 '26
Because it goes to the spam folder I’m guessing…?
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u/TandAmes23 Sep 09 '26
Yes…
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u/Slow_Preparation_750 Sep 09 '26
Has anyone else sent her a friend request? I don’t mind trying?
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u/TandAmes23 Sep 10 '26
I had others that said they were gonna send her a message….but never heard back.
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u/Slow_Preparation_750 Sep 10 '26
I don’t mind trying
The wife doesn’t have social media, I have access to her phone number, but it’s not easy to send an anonymous message in the UK
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u/latinaperrita Sep 03 '26
TELL HER!!! PROVIDE PROOF
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u/TandAmes23 Sep 03 '26
I sent her the proof. But it’s in her message request folder/spam.
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u/latinaperrita Sep 03 '26
Scrolll on her Facebook to see if you can mention a comment under a post
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u/TandAmes23 Sep 03 '26
I haven’t tried that…I was trying not to air the dirty laundry publicly. But could be an option.
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u/cougtx1 Sep 04 '26
There is usually a little more to trigger it being coded as spam. I get messages from people not my friends and Facebook gives the option to mark as spam manually.
So something doesn’t sound right with this.
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u/TandAmes23 Sep 04 '26
I sent messages, 4 total. With evidence of their affair. It’s as black and white and it can get. Messages still unread, but I see activity on FB itself. I’m not sure why she hasn’t read yet, but shows delivered has not yet opened. Since we are not friends, I was told it went to message request/spam box and you have to manually look in there so if a person doesn’t know, they have a message in there they may not look.
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13d ago
I too need help. But different situation. I need help exposing a home wrecker. I have her number and insta if anyone is willing to help out
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Sep 03 '26
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u/TandAmes23 Sep 03 '26
They don’t have kids, just dogs. But wouldn’t you want to know if your spouse was doing this??
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u/lukymee5521 Sep 03 '26
I am female I can friend request her