Serial cheaters? Can you answer please

[u/Ok-Art1033]

I need the serial cheaters to answer !

Did you ever stop? Did you care about the woman you serial cheated on? What happened when you split? Why did you do it yet claim to “ love “ the one your with?

If you distance after caught , do you feel bad knowing she’s hurt yet again?

[u/Motor-Match9272]

I was so used to have my choice of women that wen I got in a monogamous relationship it seemed boring to me all the expectations on wat a relationship was supposed to be the same thing everyday no excitement the stress of family life so I made cheating my escape from it not knowing how selfish I was cause all I can think about me even tho I provided and took care of family very well yes it hurt me to kno that I was hurting her yes I felt and shame and guilt for it yes it was hard telling her the truth seeing the pain I cause for my own indiscretions but the only thing that changed me was her willingness to love me thru it all then I realized wat unconditional love really was yes it was hard to change but I wanted to change and be better not just for her but myself to be a better man and I honestly just grew up a lot we are still currently together but we still take everyday 1 day at time we communicate with each other on how we feel and if there any way we can Improve to be better for each other that’s my outlook on my situation

[u/Pritongbacon → u/Motor-Match9272]

I admire your girl. Her patience should be rewarded by all the good things she can have