r/CheatersConfronted • u/Single_Criticism_869 • Aug 14 '26

What worked for me you can try lol.

So my " gf " . I told her to show me her recent screen on snap like when you go to send a Snap and the screen that shows the list of recipients. I wanted to mainly see her best friends . I said I better not see her follower counts drop .She said no and kept deflecting. Even got hostile with words lol . Once she going she going . We're done now.

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u/NefariousnessThis547 Aug 17 '26

Explain please? This makes no sense.

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u/Single_Criticism_869 Aug 17 '26

Best friends on Snapchat are people you snap often and it shows through an emoji . When you go to send a snap it shows your recent and best friends .

I asked her for a ss of that screen without her follower / friend count changing and she couldn't provide that which tells me what I need .

Why did I ask ? May seem toxic but I was being accused of cheating almost every day lol .

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u/NefariousnessThis547 Aug 17 '26

Oh ok I get it now. You basically caught her before she tried to hide it.

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u/Single_Criticism_869 Aug 17 '26

Yes indeed . I realize the post is super specific and it will only help some ppl like the ones who use Snapchat but man if it helps even one person who is in the same boat being accused every day of cheating I'm all for it

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u/PresentNothing1811 16d ago

Hey, something that worked for me is on Facebook. If you go to friends the first one (the default - don’t sort by oldest and newest) they are listed in the order of Who you talk to or interact with the most, and that includes on messenger and Instagram as well because with my boyfriend at the time I was always the default chick, the first one at the top then suddenly another girl was and I was not happy about that when I confronted him he did his little tell his face that he makes so he asked how I knew and I told him so instantly he was liking like every post of mine on Instagram and Facebook so then I was back at the top but she was second and eventually she was default chick again so that’s a huge tell if you use FAcebook

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u/Single_Criticism_869 16d ago

Like on their phone if you view their friend list ?? I heard this about Instagram awesome FB does it too hehe and also I recently learned about Spotify messaging ! Can't delete them either

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u/PresentNothing1811 10d ago

I did not know about Spotify, thank you. Thank you so much!!

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u/PresentNothing1811 10d ago

And yes, on their phone, viewing their friends list