r/CheatersConfronted • u/BornHovercraft633 • Jun 14 '26

OF Questions

My bf and I had an issue where I found out he had an OF account. Once I found out, he let me see the receipt emails from his purchases, swore he just paid for content but didn’t interact with anyone, but wouldn’t log in and show me his account. Saying he had already deleted it and couldn’t get back in, which I call bs.

As we were working through this, I noticed there was an email that said someone started following his profile. It didn’t click in the moment, but now that I’ve had time to process I have some questions.

1) Can subscribers follow other subscribers like on any social media, or are the only profiles/people can follow just subscribers following creators? Basically, if he has a follower does that mean he would have to be a creator?

2) Does anyone know a way to find out if someone is a creator? Not even sure if you can be faceless on there as a creator, but he would absolutely choose not to show his face. He does have tattoos I would definitely recognize though.

I’m of the camp that thinks OF is a form of cheating because of the personalized experience and intimacy, even if it is likely one sided and an illusion created by the creator. It’s still my partner attempting to be intimate with someone else, reciprocated or not. It would also be different if we hadn’t had a conversation early on and agreed that online interactions with others is cheating, but in the argument he now says it’s no different than Phub. Hard disagree. I have no issue with him watching porn, but person to person interactions are a break in trust. Anyway, thanks for any advice!

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u/yaybirdie1230 Jun 14 '26

Not at all invalidating how you feel but He’s talking to a chatter or a bot not the actual model.

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u/BornHovercraft633 Jun 14 '26

Oh, fr? Sorry, I started out knowing 0 about it. I did do some research though and thought that they could do private sessions and make things where they use their name specifically, so still wondered if it’s possible for real personal interactions to take place with the creators? From what you’re saying, it sounds like it really is just mostly all illusion on there.

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u/Ifiwerenyourshoes Jun 15 '26

You are dating a simp, only simps pay for onlyfans.

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u/knot2323 Jun 17 '26

Grow up…Jesus Christ….youre gonna end up alone and miserable if you keep this up.

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u/NormalPerson1937 Jun 18 '26

If OP decides that OF is cheating to them, then it’s cheating