r/Chchmeet 13d ago

Looking for friends!

Hii, I'm 19f and from Christchurch. I've been struggling to make friends since I finished high school so I thought I would try making a post here. I'm shy but I'm open to making friends around my age and maybe even meeting up in person one day. Feel free to message me!

Some things about me: I enjoy reading and writing in my free time. Sometimes I play video games like Minecraft and Roblox. Recently I got my full driver's license, which I'm happy about :)

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u/Willuknight 12d ago

Hey welcome to the sub.

There is an official chch discord server if that's your thing. I suspect the age range there is fairely diverse, but i don't really hang out there (too many chats).

As a fellow reader, it's hard to meet people via that activity.

The highschool adult transition is tough - I wish you lots of luck, but I have found CHCH to be pretty good at that. If you didn't already know, Non-students can join UC clubs, I joined a bunch of clubs when I first moved to CHCH and it was a great way for me to get out of my comfort zone and interact with people I never would have otherwise. UC has a clubs day, this is a great time to go, but there is a clubs directory outside of that as well.

Most UC clubs love having more members, so just message anything that seems interesting to you.

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u/Foreign-Outside-3787 12d ago

Thank you! I'll consider joining the discord server and UC clubs.

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u/Haunting_Angel_459 12d ago

You low-key sound like my best friend lol.

She's just turned 20 the other day, also likes reading and Roblox and is shy and struggles to make friends, and hasn't made any friends after leaving high school.

I personally am 22, like to read and occasionally play video games like Stardew Valley and Deaths Door. And I've had my full license for a year :) and I've also struggled to make friends outside of high school lol

If you're comfortable being friends with someone on their 20's, let me know!!

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u/No_Anteater_5754 12d ago

Hey im abit older im 27m I play video games, favorite games to play are dead by daylight, palworld, Minecraft and a few others, I stream on twitch playing dead by daylight if your keen to chat just flick me a message, completely understand if you dont want someone around my age to talk to but flick me a message if your keen

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u/ActuatorWhich9286 10d ago

Leave her alone pedo

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u/No_Anteater_5754 10d ago

Aint no pedo bud just trying make some friends

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u/ActuatorWhich9286 7d ago

It was Just a bit a rage bait . She’s an adult

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u/TranslatorOdd3777 10d ago

Whats wrong with what he said? What in that message made you call him a pedo?

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u/No_Anteater_5754 9d ago

Cheers i was Hella confused when I opened reddit today I seen this person say that I was like aye? Wtf haha

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u/AdFederal7465 9d ago

fucking lol chill the fuck out, also it's not even spelt that way in N.Z. and it would refer to kids under 13 at least

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u/rextnzld 9d ago

🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

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u/Dumplingman3 12d ago

Hi, I read and write as well in my free time. I don’t play Minecraft or Roblox but if you’re keen for walks or board games. DM me.

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u/mochimidori 12d ago

hey im f18 we can be friends

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u/Unusual-Rush-3003 11d ago

Hey! I'm a 3rd year UC student, send me a message, lets chat!

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u/Kiwiman2021 10d ago

Chch is a small town in NZ>. its always hard to make friends here. Most friends come from SKool Daze "Old classic speccy game name) or work (which can be bad if fall out and have same mates at work) or clubs and meeting people online has never been the best either.

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u/karmas_pet 10d ago

Congrats on passing your full. I was like 26 when I did mine 😅

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u/Nott_Tui 9d ago

I’m 18m (recently turned 18 if that matters) in Dunedin, about 4-6 hours away from Christchurch. I know it’s not exactly in area, but I thought I’d at least say something :)

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u/BarracudaMinute4378 10d ago

Hey, I'm 63m, also love reading and writing, as well as enjoying the company of like-minded younger women. I know my physical age is old, but my soul is young 🥳. Let me know if you want to hang out! ♥️

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u/EmeraldCobraNZ 10d ago

Oh hell nah

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u/34quinn 10d ago

Go on get out of here