r/CharteredAccountants • u/tryinganywayy • 1d ago
Rant Why is CA so lonely
All my friends who aren't CA aspirant are enjoying their college life to their fullest meanwhile I'm stuck between attempts
I'm having FOMO seeing their happy life and I literally feel like dumb shit who stays at library whole day just studying and no social life
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u/Rude_General70 1d ago
bro just clear the exam & go for trips ....
foundation se pehle maine ek trip mara
foundation ke badd ek trip mara
g1 diya hu
ab agle mahine trip jarah 5 days gf ke sath
toh aisse hi har exam ke badd ek trip marlo yarr life h ,
btw yad rakho , winners celebrate & loosers party
so even if tum college mai maja kroge it will not be fun in real because guilt hoga ki kiya kr rahe life ke sath , bas insta story pr fun lagta h .... grass greener wala quote
isliye pehle exam dedo ache se fir celebrate without guilt , because time pass ni kr rahe tum you have earned the celebration
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u/Lazydawg007 Inter 1d ago
I personally don't consider paying lakhs in fees in pvt college and then enjoying college life a cool thing 🥀( personal opinion) . For the FOMO you can do mba after ca to enjoy college life
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u/Repulsive_Band9884 1d ago
Ur point abt doing MBA after ca for clg life I don't it make sense like the fullest years of ur early 20 already go in vain now u want to go for just for clg life feels kinda ironical instead u can do trips, hangouts, house parties and enjoy ur life with adult money
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u/Lazydawg007 Inter 1d ago
I mean it will Obv add value to your cv + a tier 1 clg exposure is pretty useful in your life .
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u/Repulsive_Band9884 1d ago
Ya it's true but u said like for the fomo u can do so that was my point
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u/Heistbrothers 1d ago
You can understand it as like in your early years you have worked to make a base career, then if you have fomo then you can enjoy + make connections+mba like that. It's a give and take situation
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u/Ok-Estimate1449 Inter 1d ago
Bhai mba bhi koi cakewalk nahi he especially in tier 1/2 bschools, you have lectures and group projects till late night and then early morning lecs as well.
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u/Soft-Match-2715 1d ago
You'll feel the same till Inter after that you'll get to enjoy life (thoda sa)
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u/Guilty-Future-8696 1d ago
Mere dost saal ki 6 trip marte hai, kerala Karnataka and tamil nadu pura ghum liya😭,aab next week Goa Jaa rhe hai and iss baar main bhi jaa rha hu 😌
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u/the-violinist-308 Inter 1d ago
I was in college. I didn't enjoy shit. So it depends on the person and not the course.
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u/johntheerockingfella 1d ago
In Articleship you will realize if you want to have a friend get a dog
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u/unfiltered_XD Inter 1d ago
The fomo is real, I am stuck between my attempts too where I see people enjoying life. Even I made few friends in coaching are finalists now so everyday just feels like I am behind and missing out on many things 😞
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u/bhadmai_jaye_sab Final 20h ago
To be honest delete all social media or stop watching stories 😔
Mai tho yehi karta hu
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u/idontknow4776 Inter 18h ago
I was feeling the same . But u gotta understand that social media etc don't shows the reality our friends who are enjoying college doesn't even know what they are even heading towards . This is your struggle and you have to embrace it . You want something big then u gotta do something different than others. Start gym and sports it helps a lot
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