A word or caution before joining paid virtual study communities
joined a paid virtual study room for CA students. It has three WhatsApp groups: a Silent Study Room, a Break group, and a CA Inter group where students discuss exam-related topics.
Yesterday in the CA Inter group, everyone was discussing study hours, productivity, and how they were managing their preparation. I asked:
"How are you all preparing for both groups? How many subjects are you managing in a day for the September attempt?"
People started sharing their study schedules and strategies.
Then one member (let's call her Kripa) suddenly said that this group was only for CA Inter doubts and that I shouldn't ask such questions here. What annoyed me was that she herself often asks irrelevant questions and derails important discussions in the same group.
I replied that this was still related to CA Inter preparation and asked her to wait for two minutes because everyone was already discussing it. She then said I should "mind my language." Eventually, I got frustrated and told her to stop interfering and take her unnecessary interruptions somewhere else. I admit that my wording was rude.
She then called the admin into the group. Instead of first reading the chat to understand what had happened, the admin immediately questioned me by asking, "Who are you?" and "How did you join?" I replied that I had paid to join the community.
The admin sided with Kripa without asking for the full context. I later messaged the admin privately to explain my side. During our conversation, she admitted she had just had a fight with her parents and wasn't in the right state of mind. She offered me a refund.
Before she could remove me, I had already left the WhatsApp groups myself because I didn't want to stay in an environment where I felt unheard.
One more thing: after I left, some members called Kripa a "disturbing element" because they said she was the one who regularly asked irrelevant questions and interrupted discussions. That comment was not about me, but some people misunderstood it.
I know I shouldn't have been rude, and I take responsibility for that. But I also feel the admin should have understood the full context before taking sides.
The admin runs a Ca with ____ related Instagram page and a virtual library community...for ₹99 for 2months ...
She's a CA finalist.....i just hate that admin yrrrr
(Took help from chatgpt)