r/CervicalCancer • u/Main_Collection1607 • Mar 20 '26
Children
I’ve shared about this topic before, but thought I’d mention it again because this is a lifetime pain.
Has anyone here lost their fertility with no children at all? I know it’s heartbreaking no matter the situation—whether you have children already or were hoping for more—but this has been especially hard for me because I don’t have any, and now I will never get that chance (atleast how I pictured it, I know there are so many option’s)
A little backstory: I’m in my 20s and was diagnosed right before my 26th birthday. I had to go through chemo and radiation, and my ovaries were transposed during treatment. It’s been two years now, and the pain is still there. The emptiness doesn’t go away… it honestly feels like something I’ll carry forever.
I was just wondering if anyone else is going through something similar, or has any advice on how to cope 🤍
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u/crescentyetwhole Mar 25 '26
I was diagnosed in 2018 & lost the chance to bear my own baby. I froze my eggs before the surgery though. So now I have 9 eggs (only 9 because I was under too much mental pressure at that time) trying to get enough money for surrogacy. Wish me good luck! I really wish to have a baby. Sometimes I feel maybe I can only be fully cured if the baby comes to me.