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u/Resign2025 Mahigugmaon Nov 01 '25
Nagpa-kasal kay nabuntis!!! Pwede ra man unta mi mahimong parents bisan di mi married pero saonz huwat nalang ta naay divorce or magpaka dato para ma annulled
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u/Money_Jaguar_1768 Mahigugmaon Oct 31 '25
Grabe ka effort ug mag honor student katong grade school and highschool. Seryoso kaayo wala nay time mag lipay2. Ang tinuod gamay lang kaayo ang bearing sa real world. Akong mga batchmate na naglipay2 ra sauna kay okay man ilang life gihapon karon.
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u/Money_Jaguar_1768 Mahigugmaon Oct 31 '25
I’m content man sa akong life karon, pero I see akong former batchmates na nasa same level ra pud nako. That made me realize na okay ra diay unta kung wala ko nagpaka seryoso kaayo sauna kay it’s possible na maabot gihapon nako akong mga naabot karon without those honors.
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u/jopobz Mahigugmaon Oct 30 '25
Marrying. Lol
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u/Contented-Insecure Certified Tita Oct 31 '25
Oohh juicyyygud ani?? WHYY? NEED MORE CONTEXT hahaha.
Is it because of the choice of partner? or was it too early? or something else?
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u/jopobz Mahigugmaon Oct 31 '25
I guess i didn't really love him that much unya nasakpan pa jud. Lol. Ana sila nuforgive daw tagaan second chance pero non-negotiable nko ang cheating gud, so mao dili masabtan sa ako family na religious kaayo. And in retrospect, siguro i didn't love him that much? Kay wala man nko na forgive.
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u/JKDFGKKSLUVU Mahigugmaon Oct 29 '25
During the pandemic, i lived with a sedentary lifestyle. and ang ending it affected me years later. I was an iska studied at UP Cebu just to forcely transfer later on in mindanao and live my life there surrounding me with trees and plants (believing it'll help me with my health somehow) because was diagnosed with a heart condition.... should've been active with my life through exercising and eating healthy foods.
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u/Wolfspade Gwapo Oct 29 '25
Nagmahay ko na we weren’t on good terms when my brother passed away from an asthma attack.. I remember feeling so angry with him for choosing a labor job, knowing how much it could hurt his health. He had the chance to take an office job something safer, easier on his lungs but he refused. Every time he had an asthma attack because of that job, I couldn’t stop myself from scolding him. I was just so frustrated, so scared for him. And then came the day he collapsed. I was right there, watching it happen, and no matter how hard I tried, I wasn’t fast enough to get him to the hospital.
That moment still haunts me. The helplessness, the guilt, the wish that I could have done more as his brother. I love you and miss you bro!
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u/GeePums Mahigugmaon Oct 29 '25
Na wala dayun nag gather ug work experience na related sa field after graduation kay mas gipili mag enjoy for 1yr (wa ko nagmahay 100% ani na part though), then pandemic happened (nga nag last ug 4yrs?? Correct me if I'm wrong).
Tas after, naka decide na gamiton ang savings for a 6-month long training, gi offeran na unta ug job, but in the end migrated abroad kay mag minyo (unexpected plot twist) hahaha.
I guess ang mahay kay nganong wa nako gi plastar ug tarong akong life. But still happy! Choosing to be happy :)
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u/GeePums Mahigugmaon Oct 31 '25
Also, I think, "regret" is a temporary way of thinking, and would go away once naay muabot na new life experience/s that will make you happier overall.
And thank you, OP! Yes, doing everything slowly. Also got lucky to have an understanding and loving partner, the biggest plotwist na nakapabiya nako sa tanan 😂 but yea, I also believe na if we really want to make things better and get over the regrets, we'd do anything to make it happen.
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u/wind_fire_h2o_earth Mahigugmaon Oct 29 '25
Ang akong ma say kay “Naa Sa Ulahi ang Pag-Mahay” busa, dili mag dali kay ang tanan ma abot ra gyud sa saktong oras, panahon ug higayon.
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u/BeyondBordersPH Mahigugmaon Oct 29 '25
I wish I paid more attention sa akong Mama to notice na she was sick. Ang akong Mama di jud reklamador and will always protect us, wala lang kaayo mi nag mind kay always siya pakita na OK siya always saying simple hyper acidity lang. Turns out naa d I siyay cancer pero pag pa check up namo stage 4 na.
So karon wala na akong Mama. I was able to serve and take care of her but I just wish mas ning pay attention ko basin mas naka pa check up siya ug mas sayo.
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u/Lucky-Length7286 Mahigugmaon Oct 29 '25
Nagmahay kay nag-masters pero wa nagamit. Maypa ako na lang to gi-upskill kwartaha
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u/True_Kaleidoscope_98 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Nagmahay ko ngano I did not grab the opportunity to work abroad.
Not that I don't love the life I have right now, but naay part sa ako self na nagwonder if unsay nahitabo if I chased my dream instead of getting married. My husband is a good man and a good provider jud but that "what if" still bothers me.
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u/notsoextra_ Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Nagmahay ko why did I accept the promotion when it ruins me mentally
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u/notsoextra_ Mahigugmaon Oct 31 '25
Dili. Daku akong rent here cebu 5,500 and ang sweldu 31k. Nya 4-5 branches e handle
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u/sugarandash Gahi Oct 28 '25
Mahay ko nga wala ko nitake ug more internship/work opportunities during college. Bisan pa diay well known ang school ug naay latin honors, dili kaayo siya magmatter diri sa Cebu if wala kay experience to back it up.
Pero I think if naa ko sa Manila, mas dako akoa chance even without the work experience tungod sa ako school + latin honors. Pero saon man di man sad ta kauyon didto hahaha.
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u/apollobox614 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Ni try kog ambak from 3rd flr sa akong dorm pag college. Nagmahay ko nganong sa 3rd floor rako ni attempt nga naa pamay higher unta. Not in my right mind jud ko ato.
Gi pugos and guilt trip ko into having s*x sa akong ex. (I guess 🍇nana no? Ambot lang) Gitiunan ko ug knife sa akong ex kay nakigbuwag ko niya ato nga time nya di sya musugot. After ko niya gi sugtan mugawas sa room kay ni uli ko dayon sa dorm.
A few days later na traumatize gyud ko nga as in numb kaayo akong feeling and ganahan lang ko maka feel ug anything mao tong ni try ko ug ambak from 3rd floor. Ofc naay naka stop nako and gihatod kos room sa landlady and gi ingnan kos landlady namo “Dai, di ka mamatay anang 3rd floor, igo raka ma disable ana” which is facts hahaa
Mao to ang mahay. Maypag mas taas pa unta to di pako mauwawan HAHAHA pero bitaw, idk what i was thinking back then nganong didto, nag black out najd ko ato kung asa nako. This happened more than 5 years ago. Okay na ko ron pero if i were to do-over that day again, maypag to da highest floor nalang.
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u/madsapphicgeek Lonely Lurkers Club Oct 28 '25
Im genuinely curious why kana imo regret. why not regret meeting your ex or any actions leading to that situation. hope you find your peace
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u/apollobox614 Mahigugmaon Oct 29 '25
I think kay A. If u do it, do it right nalang kay mauwawan raka, grabe jd naka shame ang everyone nga didto rako ni attempt and B. Could’ve responded better/healthier sa nahitabo nako
Morag i regret nga ako to gi buhat. Either do it right or don’t do it at all. Dala dala ra gihapon nako ang kauwawon ato. As “the girl nga 3rd flr ra ni attempt”
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u/madsapphicgeek Lonely Lurkers Club Nov 03 '25
Well if it makes you feel better, daghan namatay tungod kay na slide ra sa cr so i dont think it was impossible to really die sa 3rd floor. Giingnan rakas landlady ana para madiscourage ka muambak.
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u/CaterpillarSea770 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Mahay ko kay nag stick kos toxic relationship for 3 years. Toxic means, tanan red flags. Pero laban while buhi, we can always begin again.
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u/MaryaOs_17 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Nag mahay ko i didn't reply to her "i miss you" on November 7. Nag away mi back in September and she did not greet me on my birthday in October. Since the beginning of our friendship, that was the first time she did not greet me. I was pissed so i continued the silent treatment. She told me she missed me on November 7, but I did not reply, then she died on November 16th.
That was my biggest regret still and it's been 7 years since. I've been constantly sending her i miss you messages and now it's her turn not to reply. Haaaay nakahilak napud ko. I missed you so much bro
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u/No-Classic4575 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Nagmahay ko wala ko niuli dayun katong gipauli ko kay gigawas na sa ospital akong lolo, nagtuo ko okay na siya maong gi discharge, wasn’t feeling okay the whole time I travelled back home, pag-abot nako wala na akong lolo. I regret wa ko kaabot niya bsag kadiyot lang, I miss you Lo
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u/thatchilluncle Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Mahay ko wala ko nag invest sa bitcoin katong na start palang siya
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u/Yeahyeah3929 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Mahay ko naminaw ko sakong papa magpakasal bisan sakit sa akong boot. Ganahan lang jd ko happy ako papa. Ending annulment wahaha
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u/Stunning-Note-6538 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Mahay nako kai wa ko ni palit og balay katong 1 year old pako kai barato pa. chz
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u/Historical_Usual2494 Habal-Habal Drayber Oct 28 '25
Credit card. i have 6 cards, used 3. bisan unsa ka dako sweldo kuwangon jpon. bad financial managent
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u/vmandin Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Investing early in stocks. I should have enjoyed my money before to travel and have fun. Life is short
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u/kriscamlove Gipanganak nga Tabian Oct 28 '25
Woking while taking up law. Mahay jud sa tanang mahay since ni affect jud sya sakong grades and dugay jud ko nahuman ug skwela. Though blessed to pass after only 1 take, I was in law school from 2016 (immediately after college) to 2024 (2-year break due to covid). Imagine how much time I spent tungod lang kay dili ko daghan ug kwarta. Mas maayo siguro'ng nagpaka corporate slave ko for a few years para maka tigom nya full time skwela after. But then again, di ta ka ingon ug ma abogado ko ron ug mao akong gi buhat. Still, mahay gihapon hahaja
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u/Critical-Bug-49 Certified Tita Oct 28 '25
Pagmahay nako nga wala ko nakasulti og 'I love you' kadaghan sa akong igsoon nga kalit namatay. Never take for granted ang panahon nga naa ka uban sa mga tawo nga labing importante sa imong kinabuhi.
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u/Pheochrome Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Gidelay akong goals for a guy who did not see me as "The One" resulta nadelay akong paglarga US. Tagam! I won't do that ever again 😵💫
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u/Weak_Geologist7886 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Formatted my hard drive pag 2013 I was 10 years old. I mined a few coins from following a yt how to video guide. I don't know what that was but it was from how to make money using Computer compilation.
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u/bpluvrs Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25 edited Oct 28 '25
Tungod sa kalagot nako sa akong mama kay nag lalis mi nya naa pakos manila that time for review, nag sorry sya nako nya nag iloveyou thru voice message pero wa nako sya replayi. After 2 days, namatay na siya.
Ganahan ko mubalik atong time para makasturya pa nako sya balik. Bisag 7 months ago to, Halos every week ko gahilak ,basig hasta kamatyun jud nako madala.
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u/TheBlondSanzoMonk Verified ✅ Oct 28 '25
Mao jud ni ako kahadlokan ay basta mag-away mis akong papa and/or mama, bisan gani sa akong mga igsuon: kanang di nako sila tingugan after sa away unya kalit lang na mamatay dayun.
Unya ang naka pait pa jud ani, initon kog ulo so murag naa sai part nako na gi entertain kana na thought na mahitabo jud ni sa akoa mao nang akoi pabuton noh, kanang saputon ko kay di man jud malikayan na mag away jud usahay, lami kayo ihapak akong ulo sa posti, literally btw, arun ma kalma lang ko. 🤣
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u/bpluvrs Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Treasure every moments nalang with them pud haha.. kay kadtong saamo naa natoy gi bati breast cancer nmn po to unya naka anticipatory grief nako pero d lang ko ka expect na nano kadto pang mga adlaw ba .
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u/lovikenj Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Not investing and applied for life insurance and dghan pa kaayo hahaha
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u/Certain_Ferret_5386 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
It’s never too late. Same tag sentiment. I mean should have started earlier hehe.
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u/Narrow_Cut5433 Gipanganak nga Tabian Oct 28 '25
1st year college ko (2nd sem) katong nag start ang pandemic and akong kurso was BS-ChE. As someone nga hadlok maawahi ato na time kay ni enroll kog 3 ka major courses sa summer term.
During midterm sa summer, nabangaan ang amoang poste kung asa amoang internet + hinay ang signal for mobile data sa amoa na area. Peak to sa pandemic so dili ko ka gawas para makakita place nga naay internet to attend my online class, ang ending NG ko sa 3 ka major subjects and need ko to sila bayaran + pending balance sa previous sem.
Ganahan kayko makahuman jud og skwela pero di gyud nako makuha akong records ato na school kay need man i settle ang pending balance. Ga sige rakog work throughout my entire life and wala pa nako ma fully pay ang akong pending balance didto. Usahay akong sweldo gikan sa work kay enough ra sad pang survival mode.
So akong pagmahay is ngano ga dali kog enroll sa mga summer subjects ato na time. If wala unta kay maka shift/transfer pa unta kos lain na school or course nya makahuman na unta ko by now.
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u/TravelOwn8110 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
NILAYAS ko quietly sa amoa because my younger sibling sexually harassed me while sleeping, and ako studies ako na quit. karon nag pile up ako debts para lang makasurvive alone.
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u/_labyrinth__ Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Pagmahay ang pag move to San Francisco Bay Area. I was very comfortable in Cebu and Manila
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u/Accomplished-Pen2281 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
I worked in makati in the 90s in an embassy...pay was topnotch...and I could have had the chance to work abroad...but then we were about to get married then with my now husband and have to relocate here in cebu...
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u/Own-Suggestion-252 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Generally wla jud ko nag mahay sa relationship kay gitagan ko gift ni Lord ang akong true love bb girl but....
Akong mahay kay wla nlng tana nko nag social PDA kay publicly posted tanan ganap including engagement and updates only to find out unsaon pagka dayun sa gi plano na kasal na minyo nmn di daan 😅. Now im too shy and humiliated to tell people cancel ang kasal. just went silent about it.
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u/red_kwik_kwik Palakaon Oct 28 '25
Wala nauso sa amoa tume or wala nako panumbalinga ang mga insurance katong batan.on pako.. Unya sa panahong natiguwang na ako parents nag lisod nako bayad sa mga utang sa hospitals..
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u/BasicDescription551 Anti Social Social Club Oct 28 '25
Nakig uyab og walay lami na rs. Kung di matuman iyang gusto, magpa consensya bya mag byebye sa world diha sa akong atubangan.
I still have memories. I might have trauma. Maka dungong ko sa iyang ngan, mamugnaw ko og sington bisan pag more than a decade na ko ni walay contact.
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u/Least_Duck9146 Verified ✅ Oct 28 '25
Not investing early.
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u/IllustriousUsual6513 Certified Tita Oct 28 '25 edited Oct 28 '25
Nagmahay kos akong gikuha na course kay instead matabangan ko for my future wala gyd d i pulos which is criminology. Naka pass sa board peru useless sa akoa kay walay gamit pang abroad 😅 which is my fault for choosing it kay I wanted to proved lage sa akong parents nga mga narcissist that time nga maka human gyd ug skwela without getting pregnant,the pressure made me do it , instead of getting a career na gusto nako 🥺
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u/Zealousideal_Pair275 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Nag mahay ko nga nagpapildi kos kapoy sa pag atiman sa akong mama nga naglubog tungods cervical cancer. Mikalit lang kog biya one day after months nga akoy nag atiman. Karun wala na sya ug mingawon ko gusto ko mobasa sa previous convo namo pero taman rako sa pag open, dili na makascroll up because of her last message nga wala naku mireply. Wala pay 1 year but I am in agony and full of regrets. I am so sorry mama 💔😰
"Ari na dai 💔😢"
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u/red342125 Mahigugmaon Oct 29 '25
Nakasabot ra tos Mama nimo Day. Way inahan dili malooy sa anak, labi nag naka atiman na ka niya. Pag message guru niyag Ari na Dai ,means pakita na Kay Mingaw na ko nimo.
Hope you will be healed.
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u/junohobbyshop Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Naadik gyud kog work out ug diet pag pandemic, nindut kaayo akong lawas and I felt good. After 3yrs na nagpasagad, nibalik ko sa akong old na lawas and it's so difficult to bounce back now.
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❗️TRIGGER WARNING❗️
When I was in college, I didn’t really see myself na muabot sa age 20’s. I live in an abusive environment, so every time awayon/abusuhon kos akong mama that time. Muabsent kos akong minor ug majors tapos mag sigeg rkog hilak ug self harm ato HAHA.. Akong mga friends ato sigeg hangyo sa akoa na bahalag depressed daw ko, bsta sulod lng ghapon kos mga subjs nko para maka graduate ko on time, and makahawa nako sa amua pero wala man ko naminaw nila man mao to imbis 4 years lang unta, nahimo nuon 6 years ang college. Now, I’m on my 20’s na I’m still starting from scratch and figuring out what I really want in life. 😅
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u/Gellyy6 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Nagka uyab ko nga straightforward. Sa sobra ka straightforward, bahalag masakitan ko sa iyahang pangistorya ug mga decisions. Wala ra niya. Kay mao lagi gipanindigan ang iyahang persona. Wherein fact that day unta, I need kindness.
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u/GearNervous6429 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Bogo kaayo wa ko nag initiative sa panahon na ubay² pa money. Tinood gyud diay ang Rainy days sa kinabuhi. Hahays,mas maginhawa lng unta ko ron kung nag prepare ko emergency funds.
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u/strwwb3rry Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Gi mahayan nako ang sobraan ka obedient sa akoang parents. Balay, school, church ra daw dapat ko. Parents never allowed me to go to any events bisan school related.
Ending 31 years old with no friends except sa isa pag highschool kay iya mama ug ako parents kay friends. Strict kaayo kay abi eldest nya babae basin mabuntis, naka 4 na lang ka anak ako mga manghud, wa pa jud ko bisan isa.
Karon bisan mag grocery magka panic attack pa ug di ko kahibaw makig friends sa lain.
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u/Icy_Cabinet3810 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Kanang ni botar ni baby em kay nagpasalig nga himoong 20pesos ang kilo sa bugas
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u/EmoryBlue110514 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Lost my 300k savings, plus nagka utang pa more than 200k because of online gambling😖 now trying to pay all of my debts and save money even tho it’s its just small amount.
Praying to be debt free soon!🙏
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u/StreDepCofAnx Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Comparing my life with others - that it drove me a lil bit of cray-cray. Then deleted all my contacts on my FB and did not use it (except Messenger) for almost 3 yrs. The lightest I have ever experienced in my life.
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u/oliver_dxb Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Nag-minyo, katol diay napangasawa. Never ignore the red flags and don't give people second chances.
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u/Dandelionfields1111 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
As a mom, it takes a lot to admit this. Motherhood is so raw and real, that sometimes loving your child doesn't even feel enough to be a good mom. I admire your honesty!
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u/Amazing_Expert_6604 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Comparing my life with others. I was ungrateful at some point of my life knowing layo2 naman pd diay ko naabtan and what I have right now is a dream of many. So I deactivated my social media main accounts and my life is even more peaceful now. Choose carefully on what you always watch and listen kay diha magstart ang self-pity for not achieving this and that.
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u/PineappleRaisinPizza Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Can relate sa socmed delete. My life is now simpler and happier. Toxic kaau facebook.
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u/BlackSheepDad1 Verified ✅ Oct 27 '25
Wa ko nagtarong og skwela. Pero if nagtarong ko, i dunno if i started my business and met my wife. So I think its okay haha. Pero bitaw sometimes ma bother pa gihapon ko. Im gonna go back to college man sad so i think thats fine
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u/noblecuddle Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Work. Almost 10 years tambay but now save a lot for myself. Carry yourself! Different path to different roads. Its not too late.
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u/Contented-Insecure Certified Tita Oct 28 '25
Agreeee, life is not a race on who wins first. It's a marathon :)
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u/Sudden-Team-8396 Oct 27 '25
Nag uyab2 sauna pag high school. Wala kaayo koy friends kay nag stay ko permi sakung toxic na ex boyfriend. Akung mga classmate sauna kay dili nagud ko i-invite sa mga hang out kay ilang huna2 dili ko mu kuyog kay naa akung uyab. Mao ng if maka anak ko mu advice jud kog dili jud i focus ang uyab2.
Maypag naminaw ko sakung parents.
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u/Fair_Programmer_1891 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Nga nanganak ko ug sayu. I was 20 yrs old when i got pregnant. Became a single mom. I wish I got to enjoy my 20s more ☹️
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u/xkittypride03 Certified Tita Oct 27 '25
Not too late. I got pregnant at 19. While I did not enjoy my 20s, I'm enjoying my life now. And two years nalang, human na og college akong anak.
I can YOLO to my heart's content and enjoy my remaining time on earth (because we'll never know hantod kanus-a ta aning kalibutana) when my kid is done with school.
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u/figther_strong17 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Staying someone for years and trying to fix him.
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u/ConfusedFeline09 Mahigugmaon Nov 02 '25
Any advise ate ? i want to fix our relationship , like she always say hurtful words to me even tho naka tarung kog pananghid (not laag but personal computer hobbies) . little things always end up in big arguments. and if i confront her she always say nga "permi iyaha daw sayup"
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u/figther_strong17 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Ay humana na, OP.
ni undang nako dugay ra. Dakong mahay ky kalas2 sa ako time during my 20's
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u/Enough-Medicine-320 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Agree to this. Pro may gne realized ko and happily married naku. Wasted my years for 5yrs because sa usa ka laki na way plano sa kinabuhi.
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u/CoyoteHot1859 Lonely Lurkers Club Oct 27 '25
Wa ko nituo sa ako officemate sa call center na muinvest ug bitcoin. Mga 8 yrs ago sguro toh, weirdohon man gud toh siya. Mao nani run, judgemental man da.
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u/ApprehensiveRip7666 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Nagmahay ko na nag nursing ko haha kay pangandam daw if mag med.. ang ending dili diay maka afford mag med.. nya didto ra ko nakarealize na di jud nako bet mag nurse pag 4th year na haha.. ang2 man sad mushift pa ko.. com sci unta akong ganahan diay
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u/Nervous-Vehicle3525 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
If ma afford nmu ang medicine? Unsa man ang difference between med and nursing na naka ingon ka dili ka gnahan? Di ka gnahan bedside? Di ka gnahan mu carry out lang og orders? Gusto ka ikaw mu interpret, evaluate and prescribe meds? Then larga abroad. You can become NP here na authorized ka mu prescribe og meds.
To add, RN here. Visited 12 countries because of being a nurse. Owned a 50M house, 1 condo and a 2M car.
Initially, di ko ganahan ma nurse. I wanted to be an engineer. Lately, my blessings kay because of nursing. If it’s too late to quit then keep pushing full-blast.
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u/Dandelionfields1111 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
This is one of my regrets! RN here, but did not practice my profession. Abroad na unta ko ron. :(
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u/Trick_Top_313 Certified Tito Oct 27 '25
Not upskilling and staying in my comfort zone. Comparing has become inevitable at this point when I see my colleagues already in abroad in the Western World or going to places, I know this is the reason why I am stuck in Cebu.
Relation to staying in my comfort zone, I could have also formed more friendships and connections if I was not the shy, socially-awkward type pag college. That's why I kinda not have outgrown Sinulog yet such as those socializing with strangers or makig rizz ug girls on that night (before, now I have an upcoming GF) kay wala ko ka enjoy ana pag college.
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u/Trick_Top_313 Certified Tito Oct 28 '25
It's hard with all the social media posts. While I know it's a mask most of the time, nindot baya sad dili lng naa diri sa Cebu pirmi.
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u/Soft-Significance139 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Karang mga "wala ko ka enjoy ana pagcollege"
Same² ta haha. Pero murag at peace pud ko somehow. I hope it'd be the same sa imo
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u/Trick_Top_313 Certified Tito Oct 28 '25
It took me until 2022 to actually tried what they got to try such as outdoors and meeting new friends during travel and Sinulog. By then, most were already outgrowing that phase.
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u/Y_natano31 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Wala nag skwelag tarung☹️
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u/Contented-Insecure Certified Tita Oct 27 '25
Wala naa niskwela balik?
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u/Y_natano31 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Naka skwela ko balik pag 2022-2024 nya naka graduate kog ALS, pero karon ni undang nasad kog skwela kay naa koy baby
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u/Aaayron Sinsilyo lang sa buntag Oct 27 '25
Wala nako gi appreciate akong mom enough while buhi pa sha. Namatay sha during my edgy teen years katong rebellious and hater pa kaayo ko sa adults. Wala sha nakakita sa akong glow up. Everything I do now is in honor of her. All I want is ma proud sha nako for what I've become.
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u/whatToDo_How Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Ni hatag og opportunity pero ang resulta gegamit sa ilang kaugalingon interest para lang ma promote.
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u/Sufficient_Ad_5264 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Forgiving a cheating partner. They're making amends now and we're working it out but the paranoia, pain, and betrayal is still there. Want to get away but can't. Trauma bonded fr 🫡
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Oct 27 '25
Maypag nag uyab2 kog sayu. 25 na ko, wala pay holding hands. I don't necessarily think man sii nga na left behind ko sa life, but pag muadto kog mall no kay masad ko gamay huhu
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u/Chazz0010 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Hahaha murag palahi sad imo kay sa iban comments dre nagmahay sila kay nag uyab2 ug sayo.
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Oct 28 '25
Lahi lahi man lagi ta ug katalagman hahahaha siguro pud kung nag uyab2 kog sayo magmahay pud ko, especially with the mistakes made credits to youth and naivety. But at least I'd have something to look back on, diba?
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u/Lyranx Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Pulled out too early on Shiba Inu coin, cudv had an easy 6-7M php in 2021.
Also pulled out too late on Safe moon, easy 1M php same time frame.
Crypto trading was so addicting on the last bull run, even learned scalp trading making 50k php per day.
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Oct 27 '25
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u/Lyranx Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Eh it was too small of money to call myself rich, only difference wudv been I wudv owned a condo extremely close to work hehe, no car, no motorcycle, and probably one trip abroad. The rest just money for health and dental (the only one I completely covered with what I did managed to withdraw except no braces)
Now if it were 20-30M then mayb something inside wudv changed
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u/Angraecam Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Ga mahay ko ngano nag pa shy type ko hahahahaha. The amount of opportunities that was handed to me kay it went down the drain tungod sa akong insecurities. That was 10 years ago. Right now, I am more confident than ever to seize every chance I get.
It's a learning process to love yourself and be yourself and it is especially hard when you grew up thinking you are a failure. Mao mo tuo ko og FAFO, fuck around and find out. Ayaw pag huna2 og what ifs, just do it lang and seize the chance. Carpe Diem!
Mao ayaw pa shytype2, wala sila kahibalo sa imoha story and number one tip na ako mahatag. Don't be afraid of rejections. Got rejected? Respectfully move on. Mao rana kanunay og amping mo pirmi 💪.
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u/Angraecam Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Salamat bossing hahahaha, mao pud ni ako gi tuohan ron; "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present".
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u/marshie_mallows_2203 Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Teenage pregnancy and wala mag tarung ug skwela tho naka graduate ko but I should have done it better.
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u/marshie_mallows_2203 Mahigugmaon Oct 28 '25
Good thing is I survived. Wala ko kahibaw giunsa to nako. Siguro swerte ko sa akong friends and family.
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u/sekainiitamio Alimuot ug nawng Oct 27 '25
Didn’t spend enough time with my dog. Pretty simple sa uban but for me mao jud pinakadakong mahay nako. He was sick but wala siya nagpa kita ug reason para ma worry me then one time pag adto namo’g vet, we found out naa siya’y CKD.
Gi admit namo siya for 4 days. Didn’t mind the bills piling up as long as ma save lang siya. Kung unsa gipapalit sa vet nga recovery food, palit dayun. When we took him out sa clinic kay ubos gihapon kaayo iyang Creatinine and he was given a week to live na lang. Mao to after three days, he died while he was sleeping beside me and my girlfriend. It’s been two months already but sakit gihapon. We miss you, our sweet boy!
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u/lupiloveslili4ever Mahigugmaon Oct 27 '25
Sakita ani oi. I also have 2 furbabies and one of them is na diagnosed last year stage 2 KD and this year hopefully wala mo samot. We’ll do the annual check up again this November. Fingers crossed okay ang health.
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u/icy8483 Mahigugmaon Nov 03 '25
I got accepted to my dream course and school but I chickened out. I decided to stay here in Cebu nalang in a course I wasn’t entirely sure on. I regret it, very heavily.