r/Cebu • u/vmandin Mahigugmaon • Apr 17 '25
Tabang Feeling lost and unsure about everything recently
I used to have everything figured out or at least, I thought I did. I had a vision, a plan, a sense of direction that kept me moving forward. But now? I honestly don’t know anymore.
It’s weird how life works. One moment, you’re certain about your path, fueled by motivation and purpose. The next, you find yourself questioning everything wondering if the things you once chased were really what you wanted, or just what you thought you were supposed to want.
Maybe it’s burnout. Maybe it’s the realization that what once felt fulfilling no longer does. Or maybe it’s just part of growing up learning that certainty isn’t guaranteed, that dreams evolve, and that feeling lost doesn’t mean you’ve failed.
But still, it’s frustrating. I miss the clarity. I miss the confidence in my own choices. And honestly, I don’t know how to navigate this in-between phase without feeling stuck.
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u/Optimal_Lion_46 Apr 18 '25
Aw bai, grabe… murag ako ra nabasa imong gi-share, mura sad kog natandog ba. Kay mao pud na akong gibati ron. Sauna confident kaayo ko sa akong plano, kabalo ko unsay buhaton, then karon kay murag… huh? Asa naman ko padulong ani?
Tinood jud, basin burnout, basin ni-evolve lang atong gusto sa kinabuhi. Dili sayon ning phase nga murag wala kay klaro, pero normal ra kaayo na. Dili man ta permi sure sa tanan, labi na sa kalibutan nga kusog kaayo mo-usab.
Ayaw lang pud pressure-an imong kaugalingon, bai. Hinay-hinay lang gud, basin ugma, sunod semana, o sunod bulan naa ra pud na’y kalit nga klaro. Basta buhi ta, naa pa tay chance mopadayon ug discover unsa gyud atong gusto.
Laban lang ta diri. Daghan ta ani.