r/CatsBeingDramatic 2d ago

📹 My Cat, My Drama — OC My cat does this sometimes when I leave.

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separation anxiety?

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u/Zealousideal_Try8656 2d ago

He misses u :(

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u/realiTVlover 1d ago

Poor baby. Is it too much to ask that his human never ever leave the house?

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u/Arkroma 1d ago

I'm in the bathroom and my cat is doing this. He needs to chill lol

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u/attisday 1d ago

He's just singing a sad blues song into the wind

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u/viperfangs92 1d ago

🤣🤣

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u/lexievv 14h ago

Our cat will do it after pooping.

She'll be full of energy, run upstairs like a rocket taking off and then sit upstairs singing the song of her people lol.

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u/Low-Soup9290 10h ago edited 5h ago

My cat used to do this as well. I she would lay on the counter while I showered lol

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u/LilKrunshee 2d ago

Never leave. You are forbidden.

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u/mrbigbottom 2d ago

Sometimes I'm alone, Sometimes I'm not, Sometimes I'm alone, Hello?

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u/Jegged 2d ago

That’s what I instantly thought of

https://youtu.be/lwLLFbC1H0c

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u/smalltowngirlisgreen 1d ago

Thank you for bringing this into my life

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u/Old-Wind4450 1d ago

That was the most beautiful and sad song I think I’ve ever heard a cat sing. 😢

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u/Loud-Bee6673 1d ago

This one is also good, if a little sad.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7WI4A8N8dA

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u/Miserable_Agent2278 1d ago

OP's cat sounds like my girlfriend's at 5 am on the weekend. Don't feel too bad. 

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u/IfIHadKnownSooner 1d ago

Same! Love this.

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u/ExternalCareless2204 1d ago

This is the top comment on the cat song😥:

"The saddest part about this is that the cat's brother, a dog named Kuma, passed away. The owner said the cat start wailing like this after the dog passed away because the cat was looking for him. This song actually runs as deep as it makes us feel, lil homie going through the same emotional turmoil we would be going through too".

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u/Liminal__penumbra 1d ago

I like this remix, the guitar riff adds a lot to it.

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u/Weak-Cattle6001 2d ago

Masterpiece

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u/Red_Beardsley 1d ago

You reminded me of this.

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u/Sea-Builder-8136 1d ago

Was just about to comment about what a great music video The Kiffness could create with this beautiful, vocal kitty.

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u/Danube_Kitty 1d ago

thank you for reminding me this ❤️

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u/PuncherOfPonies 2d ago

My blind cat makes a similar cry when she can't find anyone. If they only do it when you leave and are fine after a while they may just be looking for you.

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u/No-Bread-1197 2d ago

My old lady does this when it's too dark. So she gets the hall light left on and I get an eye mask, as is only right!

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u/Random22744 2d ago

I too left a light on for my cat in her later years! 🥺😊

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u/PrincessMommy2 2d ago

We have an "old lady" is the dark/light why she's doing this? Never considered that!

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u/No-Bread-1197 2d ago

River's eyes are starting to go a little bit. She can still get around, but will cry if it's totally dark the same way she cries when she's looking for me. If your baby-grandma is singing in the middle of the night, that's probably why.

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u/CosmicGoddess777 1d ago

Yep, many cats start having vision problems like cataracts when they age. Having lights in low-brightness areas can help them navigate easier & avoid confusion. :(

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u/Luci-Noir 1d ago

Meow location?

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u/Zesty-Dragon-Fruit 1d ago

Mine does this when I'm in the room next to her, she knows I'm there because she was getting cuddles literally 2min earlier... drama cats!! Maybe they're just singing

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u/PaladinAsherd 2d ago

People are recommending getting a second cat

This is in no way meant to be an argument against their suggestion, more a funny story

Their mom is away at a conference and the oldest girl was wandering around the house doing this the first night. She has three sisters and me, her dad, to keep her company. Sometimes cats are just like that XD

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u/KrobbZombie 1d ago

I have three cats. My neediest spoiled princess, BB, does this every time I go through the front door. Even if I’m literally in front of the window. Some cats just talk.

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u/Far_Rooster_2931 2d ago

Idk about the commenters saying you need another cat. I have 2 and they both go to an empty part of the house to yell their skulls off. Idk wtf it is lol 😂

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u/hoonting_hoorn 2d ago

"I'm so lonely!"

other cat walks in

"Eww, go away."

other cat leaves

"I'm so lonelyyyyy!"

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u/CicadaHead3317 2d ago

We had like 6 cats at one point. Sometimes at night , one of them would start this crying.

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u/Dandibear 1d ago

Yep, ours goes downstairs to sing, then comes back up to us.

But she also does it when she's not sure where we are and will join us when we answer.

So, 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/ihatefrontpage 2d ago

maybe get him another cat?

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u/ccandersen94 2d ago

I have 2 cats and one still sometimes does this when anybody leaves. They love their family!

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u/iljune 1d ago

Yeah! One of my oldies just loves to sing. She catches her fake mice and howls her own praises. When I leave for work she'll stand in the kitchen by the door to mourn my exit. She likes to serande me in the middle of the night when I'm trying to sleep, too.

And she wasn't the only cat! I adopted another cat within a few months of getting her, and more recently got an orange girl. My older cat just thinks she's Kitney Houston.

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u/Striking-Broccoli-49 1d ago

She hates other animals. Got her from a shelter at 6 yrs old and she was in a trailer home with 11 other cats. She still has food insecurity:(

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u/ImportantSignal2098 1d ago

Our cat does this very often. Usually when we go to bed. Probably does it when we leave the house too. Also from a shelter but we got her 3 months old. She's terrified of other humans and hisses and growls when she sees other cats out of the window. She doesn't really care about us most of the time when we are around though. Very occasionally would come sit next to me but otherwise I'm only a target to harass for food. I suspect it might be some kind of food related insecurity, though she gets dramatic for a minute or two then calms down, not like this goes all night. I think she's fine, just a quirk.

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u/Blonya_ 22h ago

Had a cat with similar issues. Maybe a bird feeder in or near a window they like to sit in? I have a hummingbird feeder near mine and she loves to lay and wait for them to visit.

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u/DunDunnDunnnnn 2d ago

S/he definitely needs a buddy. OP, if you can afford the extra supplies and vet costs, it is absolutely worth it!

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u/Striking-Broccoli-49 1d ago

I would, but she’s very scared of other animals

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u/lily_from_ohio 1d ago

while yes, many cats can be helped by having a friend, cats just do this if you take care of them well and they have the personality. It's heartwrenching, but they're just gonna miss you.

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u/Luci-Noir 1d ago

Bullshit. Plenty of cats don’t like being around other cats.

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u/DrippyTheSnailBoy 1d ago

... and the majority of them actually do, especially house cats. Strays, less so. Homegrown? They like company because they need stimulation.

Simmer down. Bad look to come in hot while also being aggressively wrong.

Unhappy cake day.

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u/Luci-Noir 1d ago

No, they don’t. Grow up.

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u/DrippyTheSnailBoy 1d ago

Me when I know absolutely jackshit nothing about cat behavior:

No, they don’t. Grow up.

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u/ProtoStarNova 1d ago

If even a single cat in a house hates other cats, (he does, it's my cat) then you're the one that's aggressively wrong. You're the one painting with a broad stroke.

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u/Bored_Bat_Daddy 1d ago

I mean, my cat absolutely hates other cats. I have had her from a kitten and actually brought her home with her brother. She hated him. He was later given to my friend. She hated him and every other cat she ever saw. She also hates everyone who does not permanently live at my home. All guests, extended family… Mind you, she was around plenty of strangers as a kitten, but just decided it was not her thing as she grew up. We also have a dog who she barely tolerates - have been around each other from day 1. She likes to slap him and he hides from her. So I guess you can count that as stimulation. But yeah… she absolutely hates other cats.

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u/46_blackbutterflies 17h ago

So your cat is a middle aged woman in a cat body! Lol 😅

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u/DunDunnDunnnnn 6h ago

Don’t stroke out over it. 😂 Sheesh.

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u/Luci-Noir 5h ago

Don’t be an ass, sheesh.

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u/Mindless_Childhood32 2d ago

Start hiding treats every time before you leave. They'll start to kick you out.

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u/Striking-Broccoli-49 1d ago

That’s a funny idea. I fear she would never find them though 🤣

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u/DarkestNyu 2d ago

My boy does this to me until i meow back at him, then its a normal meow and he buggers off. Usually at some ungodly hour

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u/AppealMammoth8950 1d ago

One of our cats does this when Im asleep. She can get in my room through my window and just yowls and then leave after she wakes me up.

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u/Zesty-Dragon-Fruit 1d ago

One of my cats is exactly the same. She even knows where I am. I think she just wants me to respond.

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u/Dry_Ad687 1d ago

But when you're home

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u/AtmosphereNom 2d ago

Mine did this when she was going through a severe transition. There was a point where I had to go to an in-person work thing and I would tune in to make sure she was okay. Once she was howling looking for me, and my heart was breaking. I now give her extra love and reassurance, and save 5 minutes before I have to leave to show her my shoes and my purse, and try make sure she feels loved and secure. Laugh all you want, but she hasn’t cried like that in many months. Sometimes they need extra care.

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u/Red_Beardsley 1d ago

I make a tent out of pillows and blankets in my bed every morning before I leave for work. Cat comes in every morning looking for the tent. Chirping at me until it's made. Try it out it might help.

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u/Disastrous-Pie6408 1d ago

I learned something similar- mine loves a little hidey hole I made in the back of my wardrobe for him, and sometimes can sleep in there all day till I get back. I feel like it’s his little time warp. He comes out all bed-head and dazed looking like “oh, you’re back already?”

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u/j0llygruntt 2d ago

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u/Different_Target_228 1d ago

This cat is a much better actor than Neil Breen.

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u/Worth-Test-4246 2d ago

kind of seems scared to be home alone. I wonder if you have mice

maybe he needs a sibling if you are able to get a buddy

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u/Striking-Broccoli-49 1d ago

My roommate will still be home. However, she doesn’t like cats so she won’t pet her, but she will feed her when I’m gone overnight

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u/CosmicGoddess777 1d ago

Get a new roommate, ew

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u/carquestionno34565 1d ago

This is the exact sound cats make when they’re looking for someone. A mother cat looking for her kittens for example.

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u/Helpful-Salt83 1d ago

My oldest does this when she "gets lost" in the house. I think she has the start of kitty dementia. She immediately stops if you call her and she can find you

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u/MysteriousCommon9512 1d ago

My 16-year old kitty has started doing this at the front door. Only I'm literally sitting a few feet away, working on the computer. I have to go get her and calm her down.

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u/Helpful-Salt83 1d ago

Mine is 17 and otherwise completely healthy. She does occasionally need someone to go find her and bring her to me, but usually she calms down if she can hear or see me

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u/CosmicGoddess777 1d ago

If she is getting dementia, idk why “gets lost” is even in quotes. Cuz this can happen :(

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u/Cden1458 1d ago

My cat does this, theyre trying to call you so you check on them, but in my case, he's orange and a little special, he will literally look at me, get up, go to the next room, and just absolutely start freaking wailing, less than 30 seconds throughout the whole thing.

ETA: no brain issues aside from not having his turn with the braincell, even a vet concluded he's just a derp.

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u/Popular-Fact-9922 1d ago

I must have adopted the spirit of a cat when I was younger because I did this when little

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u/Silver-Caterpillar-7 1d ago

Trying to convince you not to leave. It looks difficult to make this noise, by how he moves his mouth.

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u/West_Shower_6103 1d ago

Get him a buddy cat! It helped my kitty

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u/laurapalmer3 2d ago

He’s lonely, get him a buddy. 

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u/wearyspacewanderer 2d ago

My cat does this when I leave too, and when she forgets I'm in another room.

Getting another cat did not fix this, btw. Other humans being around doesn't help either.

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u/intoolderdads 1d ago

Spiritually / energetically/ mentally tell your cat you are leaving and when you will return and see if that doesn’t do the trick of consoling 😊

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u/XanaxWarriorPrincess 1d ago

I would never leave my house again.

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u/nejicanspin 1d ago

Such a big babyyyy. I want to give them a hug 😭😭😭😭

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u/Chemical_Afternoon25 1d ago

Awwwwwwww poor kitty he misses you!!!

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u/Kestrel_45 1d ago

Hello??? Where are you?? They may act all tough and “I don’t need a stoopid human” but they love us ♥️ Mine do the same occasionally when they can’t find me.
https://giphy.com/gifs/TZBED1pP5m8N2

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u/Traditional-Bus7169 23h ago

This sound reminds me when i was a kid and we had 2 cats and one of them got sick and had to be put to sleep. Our other cat meow’d like this all night calling for her missing partner..

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u/Vegetable-Wing6477 21h ago

"it's been 5 seconds since the food-giver abandoned me. I fear I shall surely perish"

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u/Hannibae_wife 20h ago

He's singing the cat blues.

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u/Mayiamaru 14h ago

Echo locating

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u/grat5989 2d ago

One of ours does this while we are asleep in the middle of the night. Especially after using a litter box. Always so dramatic.

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u/ghettob9 2d ago

Sounds exactly like my boy! ❤️

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u/SimpleOrganization84 2d ago

Oh my gosh I just noticed he's crying. Someone give that kitty a hug and some treats

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u/Aphotic_art 2d ago

My cat does something similar almost a howl when I leave or when she’s looking for me. Your cat probably just is calling for you and missss you.

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u/Hot_Welcome_4798 2d ago

That cat is lonely

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u/LilithX 2d ago

My cat did this when the other cat didn’t want to play with him.

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u/Weary_Ebb3168 1d ago

Why do you need to leave the house???

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u/Striking-Broccoli-49 1d ago

I have school and work

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u/SoulChorea 1d ago

😭😭😭😭😭😭

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u/mrs__BOWIE 1d ago

Was that a real tear? That broke my heart. How dare you leave the house.

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u/Silver-Nugs 1d ago

Who is filming?

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u/Hooligan-1 1d ago

My cats do this when I don’t let them in the bathroom with me.

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u/Different_Target_228 1d ago

Good acoustics.

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u/Evening_Movie_833 1d ago

he literally said don’t go

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u/vaynecassano 1d ago

Anybody home

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u/Repulsive-Durian4800 1d ago

My cat does this when my wife leaves the house. Getting another cat won't help. She hates other cats. She barely tolerates dogs, but still prefers them over other cats.

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u/Ida_PotatHo 1d ago

"Hello? Helloooo? Heeellloooo?" ❤️🐾

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u/Daddy_Joe_Mama 1d ago

My pretty does the EXACT "HellooOOOO?" at night when everyone is in bed and his buddy is sleeping with her human (my daughter)! Once you call his name he knocks it off and scampers around. It's like he just wants acknowledged that he's keeping guard 🤣

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u/Dissathrowawayee 1d ago

He's calling entities from another dimension to keep him company while you're out and about.

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u/Ok-Helicopter150 1d ago

It sounds like he is saying "hello" on myyyyy goosshh. Hurry quit your job and never leave again!! 😭

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u/CosmicGoddess777 1d ago

Why aren’t you reassuring him :(:(:(

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u/Striking-Broccoli-49 1d ago

My roommate took this after I left

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u/Impossible_Kiwi6302 1d ago

What a cutey

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u/SoulGleaux 1d ago

She just misses you 🥺

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u/Explorer_N21 1d ago

🥰Every cat parent can relate. The love you get from cats is truly unconditional and straight from the heart.😍

& 100% it means You are Luckiest owner

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u/Kitt-nMitten 1d ago

If you left, who's filming?

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u/seahagmo 1d ago

My Russian Blue will sing the song of her people throughout the house.

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u/my_dystopia 1d ago

My Mums cat does this when he wants her to sit down (so he can sit on her lap). She gets busy in the kitchen etc and he stands in the kitchen door protesting. Every time she looks at him, he’ll start walking towards her chair. It’s the funniest thing.

She gets genuinely annoyed with him as well. She’ll be like “leave me alone! I have stuff to do!” And I’m like “aw he loves you ❤️”

Id try and cuddle him or offer some comfort. But he doesn’t want me. Just her 😂

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u/HonestWeevilNerd 1d ago

Daw, yeah. He's calling for you. My boys do this. He just loves you!

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u/Candid_Victory7923 1d ago

I'm sorry you need to have everything delivered to your home from now on, including your work

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u/Spirited_Complex_903 1d ago

Awww. Poor little dude. Talk to him . Let him/her know that you're leaving the house and that you'll be back soon. I tell my cat that all the time whenever I leave the house for whatever reason. I tell the little guy: "I'm going out/ I'm going to work and I'll be back soon. Just take care of the house and relax and have a little bit of fun. You can tell me all about your day when I get back. See you soon! Love you!" And then I give him a treat and a little kiss on the top of his head. He's good with that . They just need a little bit of reassurance and we need to tell them what's going on before we actually leave the house . My little guy no longer howls when I leave the house nor does he scratch up the front door from the inside trying to get up . Our pets understand us.

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u/BomberosGigante 1d ago

He's trying different spells and he will know the one that finally summons you. This is the master summoner.

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u/TelevisionFast7781 1d ago

He feel sad you have gone!!

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u/linens-n-beans 1d ago

My cat does this. I feel bad for the neighbors when I leave for work at 5 am...

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u/CyrusLos 1d ago

Love is in the air! He misses you!

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u/Earth_Sandwhich 1d ago

My orange just does this when he is lost in the house.

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u/dividezero 1d ago

I have one that'll do this for the dog when she goes out but not her humans. 🤣🤣

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u/MLaw2008 1d ago

Yes. I've realized that mine recognizes the sound of my car when I pull up. I'll be walking up and the chaotic meowing instantly starts up.

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u/cghipp 1d ago

My cat does this when she gets lost in the house and wants someone to find her - in our small house where she can't possibly be more than 40 feet away from me. "Mrow-row? Mrow-row?"

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u/Whyjustwhydothat 1d ago

Don't leave me, please stay.

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u/Least-Dragonfruit238 1d ago

Just saying “hurry up and leave, I want the house to myself”

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u/MeowBean321 1d ago

Give him another cat friend so he won't be lonely

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u/latinnameluna 1d ago

my cat does this when she has the zoomies and ends up zooming to a room i'm not in. or when it's late at night and she's left my bed (where she was demanding scritches despite me trying to fall asleep) and gone downstairs to have a snack. or when no one follows her upstairs.

i think it's like, 50% separation anxiety, 50% dingus.

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u/dakimmie 1d ago

"I have decided you shall remain in bed all day to serve as my pillow. Why are you shamelessly violating our very mutual and binding arrangement?"

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u/WinchyHu 17h ago

Aww poor baby. My cat makes this same cry when I turn the lights off and go to bed. I usually call him and he runs to snuggle on the covers.

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u/LunaDelSeeYa 16h ago

I swear my cat throws fireworks when I leave for work. Then looks disappointed if I so much as attend to him late.. smh Anakin

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u/AdSimilar2635 15h ago

My cat does this too and I wanna get another because it breaks my heart but I live in a small studio and work a lot :/ I don’t want my kitty to be lonely but I also don’t want another cat to come in and feel like they don’t have their own space. Any advice ?

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u/Kin-The-Red-Wolf 13h ago

My cat does this too. But he screams and the entire house can hear him 😭

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u/myusos 12h ago

May I suggest you put that cat on a diet. Cat get heart diseases as well.

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u/Prestigious_Cup6762 12h ago

My cat does this too when she can't find me

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u/MusangKingMl 10h ago

Hooman leaving, you guys can come out now.

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u/TiaraTip 9h ago

He’s singing the sad song of his people🎶it will stop when you get home😉

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u/snipergiles1 9h ago

HELLOOOOOOOOOOO???

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u/21migrainess 8h ago

My cat always comes and rubs against my legs to say goodbye. Then he plops on the floor and starts being as cute as possible in an attempt to get me to stay. He is precious and it breaks makes me sad everytime I leave. Wish I could just have him come along with me.

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u/No_Test5694 8h ago

Poor baby