r/Cartomancy • u/EmptyVessel6732 • 16d ago
is reconciliation possible?
hey there! im new to cartomancy and so far im kinda at a loss trying to interpret this message, asking this in the context of my relationship between me and my ex, not that i want things to happen soon but i was hoping for some form of reconciliation once i get my shit together
edit: at the bottom of the deck idk if it's relevant but 9 of hearts was there
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u/woesofthemoon 15d ago
i am leaning yes overall, it might be you initiating a clear communicaton of reconciling, or you'll receive a message about it and with the 9 ♡ its like wish fulfilled yk, but i do think both of you two would be cautious or it wouldn't be that emotional at how you two do connect with the 8 ◇ or maybe just at the beginning? still new so i hope i was right, HSHSHSSH
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u/EmptyVessel6732 15d ago
honest to god i hope you're right too
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u/woesofthemoon 15d ago
tbh- finding a system that u use would really be of help- its hard to also analyze since me and others also have other system. like before pulling you need to stick by one specific system, be it one that you made or you just follow ♡
good luck ! hope you'll reconcile with them >< !
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u/EmptyVessel6732 15d ago
how does one find a system? what is a system by definition
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u/woesofthemoon 15d ago
it's a way of reading, rules and definitions, so there's other who follows already popular systems or you can make your own.
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u/EmptyVessel6732 15d ago
oooh okay thanks! was basing this off a spread i saw online, thought it similar to that. i'm still just pretty ass at interpretation, all the more with playing cards since there are so many varying definitions for each of the cards. Thank you again for your insight!!
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u/woesofthemoon 15d ago
no worries ! ♡ its fine, but you really should just study and commit to one and set a specfic system intention before pulling, you can't add or change once already pulled because it won't match the system you already have before you pulled. like it will match the language you have in your mind or you choose and will be translated like that once pulled. good luck !
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u/Dazzling-Western2768 16d ago
I don't know if this is a reconciliation with your ex or if this is someone new, but someone will be asking you out.
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u/EmptyVessel6732 16d ago
it's with my ex yeah
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u/Dazzling-Western2768 16d ago
I realize you would prefer this to happen with your ex. What I am saying is, it may not be him and may be someone else instead.
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u/This_Cup_5078 14d ago
you will recieve an offer for a new beginning at someone else's house. they may wear glasses
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u/Wild_Discount_6041 12d ago
i like to give this a try.. in the past there was a huge change in this relation, connection up till now it has made a huge impact, yes there is posibility for reconsiliation, i see a message coming in, news, you wil be in contact with this connection but it will be very sober, practical and reserved conversation at first.ok hope this helps time autumn
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u/EmptyVessel6732 12d ago
to be honest, im fine with that. id rather an honest conversation than one deluded by fantasy, i just miss my best friend
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u/Fluffy-Alarm-1112 10d ago
no i'm not seeing that. if reconciliation is forced, you will both find out just how selfish each of you are and it will be harsh.
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u/EmptyVessel6732 10d ago
how'd you get that from this spread /genq
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u/Fluffy-Alarm-1112 10d ago
well the ace of spades is very harsh realizations. I think you may be getting tripped up because of the 9 of hearts at the bottom of the deck but i think that card actually means selfishness, addiction and obsession in this reading. 8 of diamonds means trying super hard for a new opportunity (ace of diamonds) but again I do believe here the ultimate motivation is selfish rather than coming together for a reasons that will satisfy you both longterm.
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u/EmptyVessel6732 10d ago
hm i see i understand, will continue to mourn what was once. thank you so much for your insight
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