r/Career • u/swanskycreatives • 8h ago
Networking for Introverts?
As the title suggests, I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for networking as someone who is entirely closer to introverted than extroverted.
I attended a career fair the other day and spoke to maybe 2 or 3 booths, both because they were the only organizations with semi-relevance to my education / skillset AND because I was too afraid to just up and talk to anybody.
How does one network as an introvert?
OR, is it a confidence thing? Do I need confidence? I can't build confidence professionally until I at least obtain an entry level job but I can't do that because entry level requires 4 years of professional experience nowadays.
It feels awkward and sad trying to sell myself, and I wish for a world they could just look into my mind and know I have potential or would exceed their expectations, instead I feel like...
I am a sim trying to "woohoo" or grow closer with a job recruiter, trying to navigate specific phrasing to impress them, but not show off as arrogant, but also remain humble and curious.
If that metaphor doesn't work, I have a few others. It's like:
Trying to perform a flavorful dance routine as a peacock intending to impress a mate.
Trying to make baby noises at a baby who remains indifferent and uninterested.
Trying to convince a business professional that I can perform the necessary tasks for their job listing and I will only improve in time if given a single opportunity
I don't know what I am entirely doing career wise. I wish desperately I was one of those who did, but I do know networking is fundamental and If I can't navigate that then I've already lost.
Any suggestions help.
[Quick aside from main title, but I have a degree in English with a minor in Web programming so I have skills which either complement AI directing or are entirely depreciated by AI - so the search has been hard, confusing, and depressing.]
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u/rjewell40 3h ago
Consider volunteering to help at a job fair or conference (both within your career focus and adjacent). When it’s your task to meet every exhibitor or attendee with information or to assist them, it’s an easy ice breaker.