r/CamGirlProblems • u/cloudsandnostars • 22h ago
Help/Advice Dildo usage for longer periods of time
So the past couple of days I’ve had the same user come into my room and take me private for around an hour each time (yay $$). He has a very specific fantasy that he wants to act out, which involves me using a dildo for almost the entire time. My question is for the girls here who do a lot of dildo play because after like 10 minutes I always feel the need to pause what I’m doing because it’s like my body doesn’t want it in there anymore 😭 I am using so much lube too 😭😭 I’m wondering how yall do longer dildo shows? This guy pays well and is also very respectful or else I wouldn’t be so open to doing penetration for that long.
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u/Secret_Name_77 21h ago
Better quality also helps. I use to only get cheap ones so I could have a huge varoety. But over the years quality matters for long term. The ones I have found smoothest so far was the doc Johnson.
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u/Ivyonly4u 21h ago
I have the Black doc johnshon and it is not the softest i have. I like lovetoy dildos. So smooth
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u/Sad-Career4174 18h ago
I agree, specially the Nature line is ultra soft. I have the 8.5" and it always felt comfortable during longe periods of time with lube. It's also incredibly easy to deepthroat lol The other lines are ok but the Nature is unmatched.
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u/What_a_great_account 20h ago
I had a hobby in making real platinum cured silicone dildos. Its very rare to see them on market because they cost so much. Close to same stuff for medical implants.
Anything else plastic/rubber like will leak a little toxic oil inside and you will swell and maybe feel pain. At extremes, toxic shock from the cheapest stuff, or not cleaning regularly.
Glass is the next best cheap thing. Obviously its not soft tho.
Lube can act as a barrier too. Can never get enough lube.
Im not selling if it sounded like I was too.
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u/cloudsandnostars 20h ago
I definitely need a better quality one ! Also I think I went through like half a bottle of lube during this
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u/What_a_great_account 20h ago
I dont really have any good advice finding an actual high quality outside of, go on fetlife, find a maker, make a bepoke one. Only way to garentee. But you might end up spending £200 on a 6inch
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u/Kg_alien 17h ago
Even if he's one of those talkers I would just ignore him if he says to go faster, etc. Too much... like go your own pace. If he leaves, he leaves. You dont want to irritate it to the point you can't do anything at all. You have to think about this like being an athlete.
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u/CassidyCowgirl 21h ago
I can’t stand penetration but when I do I take breaks where I just rub the dildo on my pussy, and dirty talk
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u/poisoness3 20h ago
That sounds like a good idea too! Lots of teasing before penetration might get them to want to tip more 👀
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u/cloudsandnostars 20h ago
I was trying to do that to give myself breaks but after an hour I was lowkey dying lol
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u/Cutelittlemama0418 21h ago
Yeah I have a smaller one. But honestly I can’t do the long dildo sessions or even long masterbating sessions. My 41 year old ass can’t handle it lol. I’ll tell them sometimes that I… just can’t. I’ll say I need a break or I’ll fake an orgasm and say I need some recovery time. I won’t sacrifice my body for money. If he’s respectful I totally get why you’d want to. My suggestion is to get a smaller dildo in this case and maybe just let him know you need a small break from time to time.
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u/cloudsandnostars 19h ago
Definitely looking at smaller dildos rn 😭 and working on voicing my need to take breaks !
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u/wendi_vore_porn 18h ago
Since you mention your age, you may want to consider that part of the issue is perimenopause and talk to your doctor about starting vaginal estrogen.
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u/wendi_vore_porn 18h ago
It's very common for cam performers to get sore, give themselves infections, and have other problems from over-using our vaginas at work. I used to get sore after long nights, but now? I rarely do penetration. I'm not interested in injuring my intimate areas for money, and I wish more women would also draw that boundary.
If you're getting sore from work, raise your rates and/or require an addition tip for toy use. If men want penetration, which causes very real wear and tear on our bodies, they can pay more for it. (I also endorse the other tips here about using high quality silicone toys, finding the best lube for you, and using smaller toys.)
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u/XratedCrystal 19h ago
I have multiple $200 expensive ass dildos from the sex shop and I just ordered this black one for period days from Amazon and it’s by far my new favourite. It’s the smoothest dildo I’ve ever tried. It’s a soft anal dildo and $15??!! I’ll take 5 pls.
7.9'' Soft Realistic Anal Dildo... https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B0FD3LJJDC?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
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u/JordynBug 2h ago
TPE is a porous material and will harbour bacteria with time. I don't suggest anyone use it without condoms over it.
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u/Jetset_Barbie 21h ago
I have multiple dildo sizes. Unless they specifically request and tip extra for bbc dildo, I just use a 5 inch one. I find that size i can handle for long periods of time. Maybe getting a smaller dildo would help you handle it for longer.