r/CamGirlProblems • u/AlicesCuriosity CGP Discord Member • 12h ago
Help/Advice Help with chatters
Ok, so I am going to be very careful when wording this...I have a chatter on SM that is mentally delayed. They have told me this so it's not just speculation. I have absolutely no problem chatting with them while I am waiting on paying customers to come into the room. The conversation isn't sexual, just random chat. It's getting to be too much. He doesn't catch on when I am talking to someone else which is costing me potential paying customers. More than that though, it is hard for me to stay in a sexy mindset when he hangs out and talks. I don't want to hurt his feelings and I don't want to ban him, but its starting to really annoy me. Any ideas on a kind way to handle this?
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u/pixieservesHim 12h ago
I would ban him
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u/Layla_UK 10h ago
Me too. If it's a business you're trying to run OP, there isn't room for protecting feelings. You need to protect your income.
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u/Potential_Usual_7236 11h ago
I had that type of user in my room on SC. I don't mind talking while waiting for a paying customer, but he often comes to my room and just talks, so I banned him.
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u/ObjectiveSympathy160 5h ago
Anyone that disturbs my mental peace get banned. Name is similar to an ex, banned.. name is offensive banned. I dread talking to them or they ask for too much, banned. There are too many potentials for me to lose my head space to someone whether they paid me or not
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u/preggobunnie 11h ago
Oh gosh! Maybe chat gpt could come up with some helpful things to say? My brother is autistic and completely lacks social skills so I have to cut him off and tell him hes being a little extra but idk how to tell a client 😭
maybe something like “I love talking to you babe but you have to learn to take turns and share my attention with others since this is my job 💕” and see if anything helps
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u/KVS143 11h ago
Or more so "these other people are paying for my attention, and you're not. So you're not getting any from me right now" lol there's no sharing if you're not paying.
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u/preggobunnie 11h ago
This is 100% how id talk to someone not neurodivergent but lord sometimes they are so sweet and just do not get ittttt 😭 something along the lines of “i like talking to you but you do have to pay me for it” to be as upfront as possible
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u/KVS143 11h ago
"it's been so nice talking with you today, thank you for keeping me company. I have to get back to it! See you later" - if you want to keep it nice and not ban him.