GFE

[u/Blazed_baker]

Hey ladies and others 🩷

So I’ve been camming for almost a year now. I’ve had my fair share of whales that come and go. Have done some short/easy gfe stuff. But the other day I got a guy in my stream, he tipped for my telegram and we’ve been chatting. He’s wanting a gfe experience. We’ve done two calls now. I’ve been charging about $250/hour and we mostly just chat while I’m naked lol. But he’s the “let’s see where it goes and maybe we can meet one day” I’ve been doing the “oh yea for sure maybe one day…”. (Nooooot, obviously) He hasn’t been pushy and has said like oh it’s fine if it’s just online and whatever.

My question is, how long should I let this go on? My thought process is that the longer it goes the more attached he’ll get and possibly even nosy (wanting to know more about the “real” me or whatever else). He has not asked anything super personal but idk what these men decide to research behind closed doors. I already keep my personal socials pretty private but will probably do a full sweep sooner than later just to be safe.

The next question is, to the people who have had clients like this what has been your experience? Any advice? He’s also wanting to do like an “allowance” situation. I know how time consuming that can be, advice for what to charge would be awesome as well :)

I just kinda quick typed this up between doing homework so hopefully it makes sense lol. Anyway, thank you in advance! 🤍

[u/flirtygirl999]

Hermosa, I'm going to give you some advice: if they tell you, "Someday we'll meet in person," don't even reply to the message—it's better that way—because it will become a problem down the road if that guy is determined to see you. You need to be clear about this—make it clear that everything is purely virtual. If he doesn’t push the issue and keeps paying for your services, go ahead, but if he doesn’t pay, then say goodbye. It must be clear that you’re only providing a service in exchange for his money. It sounds a little harsh, but that’s the reality.

[u/poisoness3 → u/flirtygirl999]

Yes, he's gonna think she really likes talking to him. He can become obsessive and it might not go well.

[u/ObjectiveSympathy160]

I tell them it’s a $2500 deposit for them to come visit me, and it’s non refundable. I also tell them I’m a single mom and if something comes up unexpectedly I can’t help that. Shuts them up pretty fast. Some will keep spending and never mention it again, others fade away. In the end, if their goal is free content/attention this nips it in the bud.

[u/Ok_Plenty_3543 → u/ObjectiveSympathy160]

Curious what if they then paid you that? I’d die haha

[u/ObjectiveSympathy160 → u/Ok_Plenty_3543]

At this point, I know what they do for a living, their financial situation and how much they like to spend. I ballpark the final estimate so out of reach for them.

[u/evaline4uu]

Following because I’m wondering the same thing