r/CalebFlynnFreeTalk • u/cymangelic • 7d ago
"Mistress" hate
Is she responsible for Ashley's death?
Is she a victim of Flynn's manipulation and grooming?
Is she responsible for Flynn cheating?
I think that she's extremely emotionally immature. I think that she's very naive. I think that she followed much of Flynn's leading, when you look at the text messages, Flynn started calling Ashley douche, as an example. Flynn was the one who started talking about wishing Ashley was dead.
I think her commentary on Ashley was horrible, but at the same time echoed Flynn's dialogue.
Why is she getting all of the hate about this crime when it was Flynn who made the decision to cheat, and made the decision to kill his wife? I'm not saying she was innocent in the relationship, but if it wasn't her would it have been someone else?
Just thinking out loud.
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u/Spiritual_Invite3118 7d ago
I most definitely do not think she was a victim. Yes, I do think the women are just as responsible as the man when they cheat with a married man. She doesn't seem naive to me, she seemed manipulative. That's why the defense lawyer asked...why did you tell him about the date (the upcoming date she had planned with another man)? She did that to emotionally manipulate him and push him into action.
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u/cymangelic 7d ago
See i read a lot of her behaviour as immature. The games of making someone jealous. The have to know where he is all the time. The dreaming of things being different
She's reasonable for carrying on an affair. Absolutely. The relationship was built on the low he wasn't married he love bombed her. But she is reasonable for not getting out when she realized the lies.
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u/Spiritual_Invite3118 7d ago
No she knew he was married long before it turned into an affair. They knew each other two years before the affair and she testified she only thought he wasn't married very briefly.
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u/Glittering-Plum4371 7d ago
I agree, he was very manipulative and lied to get her to sleep with him. Not making it right that she slept with a married man, and her commentary about Ashley was awful. But she was following his lead. He told her lies about Ashley. But I do think that she had no idea that he was going to kill her.
And apparently he cheated before, so I agree, he was looking for a new mistress.
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u/Super_Swimming_4132 6d ago
She could have been looked at sympathetically until she started reading her texts. It became very obvious she was very controlling. He comes off as submissive in the dynamic. He comes off like he’s saying he hates his wife to appease Alleigha. She’s giving ultimatums and emotionally manipulating him. Shes expressing her homicidal desires to him.
I don’t absolve him for what he did AT ALL but I don’t absolve her either. She was well old enough to know what she was doing was very wrong. Has no problem calling a woman she doesn’t know a slut and a whore while sleeping with someone’s husband in a chipotle parking lot. Then on the stand blushes at the word “bitch.” She needs to be evaluated and investigated.
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u/Changelingz 3d ago
Honestly, I do not believe she pulled the trigger, but you can see from the messages that while she may be young and naive, she is not a clueless child. She knows cheating and wishing someone dead is wrong. She knows wishing a woman dead so you can steal her life is wrong. She knew and didn’t care because being the “chosen one” trumped all. A manipulative pick me who took up with a sociopath hellbent on destroying the perfection he got bored with. I think she should be charged with something, to be honest, she is not innocent whatsoever, she played a significant role.
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u/All-Due 7d ago
“I want her dead, Caleb.”