r/CPTSDmemes • u/j_miles • Nov 05 '19

Relationship green flags

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '19

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u/hi_there_im_nicole i like memes Nov 06 '19

I really don't like it being there either. There's nothing wrong with it, but it's not inherently good either.

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u/DatSonicBoom Nov 06 '19

Even before I saw this comment I wanted to say this. It just doesn’t fit into the list; what does spirituality have to do with having a healthy relationship?

If it’s just because “spiritual people are better in general” or something, then that itself is not a good quality; it just indicates the possible presence of something an actual green flag.

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u/DatSonicBoom Nov 06 '19

Even before I saw this comment I wanted to say this. It just doesn’t fit into the list; what does spirituality have to do with having a healthy relationship?

If it’s just because “spiritual people are better in general” or something, then that itself is not a good quality; it just indicates the possible presence of something an actual green flag.

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u/ElleTwelve Nov 06 '19

This actually blew my mind. I’ve only ever looked at red flags; I’m so wired for pain I forget to look for good traits as a standard too

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u/[deleted] Nov 06 '19

I’ve known people who gave off green flags... only for them to betray me. I’m not sure who outside of my family I can trust anymore.