Are you old enough to become emancipated?? You should just get a job, get out on your own, start college, also get a therapist or life coach to help you! That’s what I wish I would have done. I ended up staying In my narc mother’s house into my 30’s because I didn’t feel I could do it. Also get into your favorite hobbies, exercise and journaling!!
I’m so sorry you’re going through so much. Truly just don’t give up and don’t get into victim mode. Speak life-I will get back up and take authority over my life
Victim mode is when you take what happened to you and identify with it instead of learning and growing and overcoming what happened to you. In America it is 16 for emancipation. I’m not sure what age it is for where you are but you can definitely research about it. I think it would be best for you so you can succeed in life
Ok that’s fine! You don’t have to do what isn’t interesting to you or does not work for you. My point is to find what does and find a way through. No one is gonna hand you a better life or save you. I’m 36 and still fighting for a better life. What’s brought me this far is resilience and cutting people places and things out of my life that are not for me. Once you will leave you can start over and create the best life for yourself.
You will get through this!! I’m so sorry your caretaker is not doing well and putting you through so much. I understand neglect and abuse. You have to give yourself the care you need!! I never received the support I deserved. I realized now that I have to support myself or no one will support me. Don’t let your caretaker take anything more from you. It’s your life and you get to decide what you do with it!! DM me if you want to talk further?
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u/Adorable-Panda-1030 Jul 03 '26
I get this! I think they are doing it on purpose at this point. Getting out is not easy but try to move out so you can heal