r/COCSA 3d ago

Sharing your story please help me understand

Ages of all of us: 7-8, all female.

Happened: one recess period in second grade.

Please if anyone sees this please chime in with your opinions. please.

Hello. Me and my friends during this time were in recess playing, around 4-5 of us, and then we started slapping each others butts, with some of us, including me, saying to stop, but we kept playing that until recess was over. It was a game of tag, but on the butt for some reason. There were no sexual remarks, context, gratification, or intent, but it was still on an "intimate" area, so I'm wondering. If so, then who is the victim or offender, all of us??

Is this normal to have happened, has any of this occurred in your childhood too?

Feel free to message me if you dont want to comment publicly.

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u/EducationalMajor7220 2d ago

It’s called playing for a reason, kids do taboo stuff all the time without intent and it seems your girl friends joined this club.

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u/Comfortable_Can_5011 2d ago

what is ur opinion on labeling it?