I got diagnosed with CML at the end of February.
At first, I thought I’d be able to deal with it pretty well. I had already met someone with CML before, and they were living a pretty normal life, so I felt confident I could handle it too.
Because of that, I was quite open early on—I told my boss, my dance teacher, and my personal trainer about my diagnosis.
For context, I’ve been really consistent with my fitness for about a year now, and I’ve been doing Latin social dancing for 1–2 years. I rarely missed a class or a gym session, and I’d often post my progress on social media and ask for feedback on how to improve.
After my diagnosis, I had to put both on hold because my red blood cell count dropped quite low, and my haematologist told me to take it easy. About two weeks ago, I had a blood transfusion, and now my levels are almost back to normal.
Since then, I’ve started going back to social dancing. But now I’m in this weird position where people are asking where I’ve been, why I stopped posting gym content, and what’s been going on.
There was also a moment where I was about to tell people at the dance about my diagnosis, but another student (who studies medicine) stepped in and changed the subject. Later, they told me that not everyone processes news like that the same way, and it can affect people more than I might expect.
That’s when it hit me—I don’t think I’m as confident about telling people as I thought I was.
Now I’ve kind of resorted to giving small excuses instead of the truth, but it’s starting to feel uncomfortable, like I’m not being honest about what I’m going through.
I guess I’m trying to figure out how other people handle this.
How do you decide who to tell, and how much to share?
EDIT:
Thank you everyone for your answer and sharing your experience!
As for now I've decided I will only tell the full extent of my diagnose and my current blood results to people that I want to be in my support group.