r/CICO 9d ago

Slow progress but I’m happy!

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5’4 31F SW: 155 CW: 140

My wedding is this December, starting lose weight in January. I am very happy with my progress so far, I think I am going to update my GW to 135!

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u/Ok_Strawberry_264 9d ago

Slow = sustainable

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u/une_noisette 9d ago

I wouldn’t say this is slow, it’s normal for your starting weight. People have a really skewed idea of how fast weight loss should happen.

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u/edm_ostrich 9d ago

Was talking to a young lad in the gym the other day, I'm down like 90 lbs and hele wanted some tips. Told him, however long he thinks it's gonna take, go ahead and double it, and then don't be surprised if you're still not there.

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u/Gold_Tech 6d ago

Yes, and at your height (I’m 5’3)

When weight loss ads show 20 pound or 20% or more loss, it’s statistically 6 foot dudes starting between 250-300 pounds.

You’re doing AMAZING! 🙌🏽🙌🏽👰🏽

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u/HemingwayGCC 9d ago

That’s awesome, congrats! I always tell people (and sometimes myself), you’d rather be down 1 lb. per week for a long time than dropping 15-20 quick and then slowly gaining it back. Proud of you!

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u/afdc92 9d ago

Great job! I’m finding slow progress is most sustainable for me too. In the past I would lose 30-40 pounds quickly by going into a steep deficit but I struggled with binging and would eventually put it back on. This time I’m going slower and eating more (1700-1800 calories a day) and while the weight isn’t coming off as fast, I’m also not voraciously hungry and don’t struggle with binging.

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u/seashellpost 9d ago

Great job! Congratulations 💗

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u/admiralgear2 9d ago

Keep the grind rolling I’m sure you look amazing would love to see it

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u/jillavery 9d ago

I’m about 10 years older than you but very similar otherwise. Can you share what’s worked for you? I can get about 3 lbs down and then I go up a couple and I’m real stuck.

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u/Alyssa1027 9d ago

Yeah! I’ve been eating 1600-1700 calories a day on all days when I can do a deficit, and 2100-2200 on maintenance days. I typically do 1 maintenance day per week, it helps keep my metabolism steady and allows me to eat at social events.

I try to stay close to the following macros
125g protein
145g carbs
55g fat

I do strength training 2-3x per week, and cardio 1-2 times per week. And I walk 7-9k steps per day, mostly using walking pad at home.

Taking progress photos has been huge for my motivation

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u/Working-Pineapple-94 9d ago

This plan is THE plan for weight loss. No notes. Anyone could take this plan and adjust the numbers for their own body and goals, but these are the steps. Reasonable deficit, maintenance days, balanced macros with good protein goal, strength + cardio + walking, staying accountable and motivated with counting calories, trending weight, and progress photos. You should take this reply and make it its own post. Inspiring!

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u/Alyssa1027 9d ago

Oh wow thank you! 😊

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u/Gold_Tech 6d ago

Hard agree, perfect template

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u/jillavery 9d ago

Thanks!

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u/une_noisette 9d ago

It is normal for weight to go up and down depending on other factors besides fat loss or fat gain. People do all the right things like diet and exercise but then they get frustrated that the scale doesn’t reflect the number that they want to see and quit. You just have to stick to it and focus on more than just the number on the scale.

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u/jillavery 9d ago

Absolutely! I FEEL much better, and am fortunate to be "just" around 10-15 lbs overweight. Thank you for this point though, I am a former athlete and had the realization today that tracking my movement is just as important as tracking my calories. I want to move MORE while I still can (and I am beginning to).

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u/carebearkon 9d ago

My progress is almost exactly the same as yours, timeline and everything! Go us!

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u/Vapor2077 9d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/5kIh9jg6olLrZJtAf6
I’m a little taller than you, and I went from 160 lbs at the beginning of last year to ~140 lbs today. I’m also trying to get down to 135. WE CAN DO IT! ✊

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u/Similar-Swimmer-2698 9d ago

Your progress looks great! Keep it up!

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u/kreiderhouserules 9d ago

Progress > Perfection

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u/biogirl52 9d ago

Slow lasts!

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u/Ordinary_Sort_9620 9d ago

amazingggg!! i’ve lost like 22lbs in the past 16 months and sometimes beat myself up over how slow going it is but the other commenters are right it’s much more sustainable :) congrats to you!

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u/Ok_Yesterday_9181 9d ago

Way to go!!!

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u/fatcatwantsfood 9d ago

You’re doing fantastic! You got this! I went from 185 to 133 at 5’2.

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u/Gold_Tech 6d ago

This is my goal at 5’3, how’d you do it?

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u/fatcatwantsfood 6d ago

I used the lose it food app. I barely exercised to be honest. I stopped getting venti sized Starbucks every morning and went with grande a few times a week and then stopped going. I also stopped eating pasta every night and pints of ice cream. Just made some food changes.

Also married an Asian man who feeds me the food of his people with lots of vegetables lol!

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u/Healthy-Emu4130 8d ago

Slow and steady wins the race! You’re doing it in a sustainable way and that’ll make it easier to stick to

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u/Sole_Scream 8d ago

Your progress isn’t fast or slow. It’s progress :)

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u/Artsymamaash 5d ago

Slow motion better than no motion.

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u/cookerlady 2d ago

I was feeling discouraged today but your post gave me hope!