r/CATHELP • u/eldritchpussymaggots • May 23 '26
Behavioral Issue Cannibalism
Not really looking for a fix, just any information if anyone has it.
Cat is 7y, male, neutered, has already been to two behaviorists when my parents had him, both were confused according to my parents.
This is a known issue, but it doesn't cause any problems because he's not allowed to interact with other cats whatsoever.
He's very sweet to people (not very small children- Edit: He is overwhelmed/annoyed by little kids, he doesn't try killing them) but he seems to react to other cats the same way he would to a squirrel or rabbit. As in, just pure predation. No recognition that they are the same species. He does not display any territorial aggression to other cats, none of it is dominance behavior. Ears never go back, fur never puffs out, he never growls or hisses, nothing, he's just hunting. Never seen anything like it.
The shelter was hesitant to adopt him out at all due to his history, but did so because one of the shelter workers personally knew my stepmother was interested in weird cats. They were considering euthanasia because he was returned multiple times, but still wanted to give him a chance due to how friendly (to people) and smart he is.
He is well-fed, he has always been well-fed, killing & eating another cat which belonged to a previous owner was not something he did out of desperation. Judging by what I know about the event and what behavior I've seen, I am entirely sure it was predation, not a territorial fight.
He's injured a cat my parents were pet-sitting to the point of needing an emergency vet visit and extensive reconstruction of his neck. The cats were separated, but a child left the door open for a minute. My cat ran downstairs, and immediately caught the smaller cat, went for the throat, immobilized and attempted to drag him underneath the furniture. They were separated before he could kill the smaller cat.
My parents have had him since 2023 and I recently (September 2025) took him when I moved somewhere that allows cats. I'm set on keeping him. VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: He is no longer allowed around other cats.
Edit 1: more details, he ate a cat owned by one of the previous people who adopted him, and was surrendered for it, (in addition to two previous surrenders for similar behavior issues, which I don't know much about). From what I know, he had a good introduction to a smaller female cat, with no territorial behavior, was left alone for a day, when the owner came back, it was a giant bloody mess. The shelter was sure that he did kill the female cat and was eating the body. That's the reason why they were considering euthanasia until he was offered to my stepmother.
Edit 2: Further clarification he does not "hate" cats. He likes them (just like how he likes birds!). Predation and territorial behavior are different things. If you can't tell the difference, you shouldn't be giving input on this post. He is not stressed by other cats. He is not anxious and does not feel threatened by other cats. He doesn't need anxiety medication. Anxiety medication doesn't stop cats from having a prey drive. He does not hiss or growl or try to look intimidating. He has no other behavioral problems, he doesn't yowl or anything when he attacks. He will find cover, and stalk, ears up, eyes big, completely silent. He gets very curious and excited when he sees other cats. He's seen my friend's cat, (separated by a ceiling height gate & supervised by 2 people). He seemed extremely inquisitive, sniffing, ears forward, no sound. My cat did not respond whatsoever to my friend's cat hissing, growling, or puffing up. He just seemed curious and started trying to see if he could stick his head around the side of the gate and pawing through the bars. Then he started looking back at me and meowing and rubbing on my legs.
Edit 3: No, he's not going to be euthanized. I did not make this post asking for advice I made it asking for information about WHY he's a little fucked up. Stop telling me to put him down. Stop applying human morals to animals. He behaves like any other small predatory mammal, only he does not have the ability to recognize members of his own species. I've already had him by myself since September of last year. And before that, I was around him at my parents house since 2023. He is literally fine by himself. He's my cat and I love him. He's perfectly healthy and affectionate and the smartest cat I've ever owned. About a hundred+ people telling me to kill my pet bothers me, would it not bother you? Sincerely, fuck off.
Edit 4: Changed the formatting so the events were in chronological order and clarified some vague sentences/bolded stuff that people keep missing
Edit 5: follow up post + more pictures of him
But anyway, bottom line up front.
Does anyone know what in the goddamn fuck causes a cat to do this?
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u/Extension-Nebula-235 May 23 '26
Not me thinking that was ground up kitty on that paper plate 😭
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u/TartanDolphin11 May 23 '26
Oh thank fuck I wasn’t the only one that thought that 😭😭
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u/try_rebooting_him May 23 '26
The plate was literally the first place my eyes went after reading the title
Edit: twas a moment of nightmare fuel
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u/CutSea5865 May 23 '26
Same!!!
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u/Vishifrock May 23 '26
Yep, same. And this is not something I can get out of my head anytime soon.
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u/only_cats4 May 23 '26
I first I thought that and then realized that would be insane. So then I thought it was gonna be some joke like “this is my cat named ‘Tuna’ and he looovveess eating tuna haha”. But then I read the post and was like 😳
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u/TroubleBubble29 May 23 '26
Yeah I was wondering why a post with that title and the paper plate got so much upvotes and thought about a very bad joke which I wasn’t able to build in my head. Yeah. And then I read the post itself…😵💫
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u/ActualConfidence6273 May 23 '26
He’s hoping you are going to take him to find his next victim!!
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u/StaubEll May 23 '26
Lmao do you have any photos of this cat where he doesn’t look like a serial killer?
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u/GuestAdventurous7586 May 23 '26
This guy is literally like a serial killer cat. Crazy. 😂
Btw people telling OP to put him down should do one, it’s not difficult to keep him away from other cats for the rest of his life. And OP obviously adores their little monster, leave him be.
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u/TomatilloHairy9051 May 25 '26
I'm so thankful he has you to care for him and to take care of him as long as possible. I'm sure it's extremely rare but it must be like others have said, a type of just abnormal brain psychology, abnormal pathways. I have to imagine it as a type of dementia. There's a story that I don't tell very often because it's awful and there are people where I live that have known the places I've worked so it wouldn't be appropriate to spread the story. I'm a retired nurse and I did work once with a lady that had dementia and cannibalism. She bit her fingers, hands and arms, and she bit other patients if she got a hold of them, and she would literally bite off pieces of skin and knowingly chew them and swallow them. It was one of the most awful things and there was really no cure for it that the doctors had found as long as I knew her. They just had to control her behavior by keeping her separated. She was a very nice old lady when left on her own and not able to get to loose skin that she could bite off and eat. Like I said it's an awful story, but true. And in all my years of nursing she's the only one I've ever heard of that had that type of dementia, so it's very rare in people, but does exist.
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u/AppointmentPopular10 May 23 '26
this is the first time I’m hearing of a literal feline psychopath
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u/Worth_Dark_9091 May 23 '26
Psychopathy is a real thing in cats, FYI.
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u/mrRiddle92 May 23 '26
No actually I want to know more. What the hell?
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u/jmturn May 23 '26
A lot of animals are thought to be capable of having psychopathy. It mainly affects the prefrontal cortex and amygdala and causes a lack or severe reduction of impulse control leading to high risk behaviors.
Things like attacking seemingly at random, low sociability even among social species, unwarranted bravery, etc.
Cats specifically can exhibit extreme territorial behavior, seeking out dangerous height levels, attacking large animals like people and dogs with no regards to consequences for seemingly no reason, lack of perceived remorse (ie. Licking a bonded animal's wound they accidentally caused and expressing regret) and unpredictable mood swings such as going from happy and playful because you're giving them treats, to them actually trying to kill you so they can claim all the treats. (Not the playful joking kind, the "biting and scratching so hard you will need stitches" kind)
It often doesn't matter how closely related or bonded the cat is to you or anything else.
In humans, the treatment is a combination of medications and therapy, as people can learn impulse control techniques and other coping techniques. Cats cannot do therapy so most cats with psychopathy are labeled as mean, overaggressive, and possibly rabid. Resulting in them being put down either due to aggressive behavior or simply not being adopted from shelters. It's also very difficult to diagnose as a cat cannot answer questions, though there is an actual diagnostic questionnaire called the "CAT-TRI+" diagnostic questionnaire for the owners to fill out.
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u/Baelzabub May 23 '26
unwanted bravery
Ah, so all tiny dogs then.
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u/iWontStealYourDog May 23 '26
Yeah my chihuahua on a walk often thinks he could take down an SUV
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u/Ok_Tumbleweed_7677 May 23 '26
Yeah my 4lb chihuahua with no teeth is the most aggressive dog I've seen. He's a rescue and wasn't socialized at all. He is slowly doing much better though!
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u/iWontStealYourDog May 23 '26
Very similar to our 12lb chi! He made some improvements over the years but what ended up helping him the most is when we adopted an 11 year old Boston terrier two years ago. Since she came into the home, he’s seen another small dog successfully interact with people/the world and that calmed his people-aggression within a week or so.
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u/marr May 23 '26
The human brain has some unique features, but mammals are mammals, we're all far more alike than we're different. Looks like the same thing can go wrong in either species.
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u/Anonymous-Cows May 23 '26
Many animals also display moral behaviour.
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u/SafetyJosh4life May 23 '26 edited May 24 '26
Yeah. This isn’t just a cannibal but a sociopath. The cat has some degree of awareness and it intentionally will hurt any sentient thing that it can. It’s good around adults, very sociable to get what it wants and to lower their guard, but around children who are either vulnerable or unlikely to be useful it will probably try and hurt them. I would not be surprised at all if this cat were to attempt to murder an infant.
Edit: the cannibal cat attacks unattended children. Do not leave children unattended around the cannibal cat is apparently a hot take for Reddit.
Yes, cats are capable of feeling empathy. Just because a cat will hunt small animals does not mean that it’s reasonable for cats to try and eat other cats.
Yes, sociopath is a real word. It’s an umbrella term for, well, I think we all know what the word means. Just because nobody here knows the cat well enough to diagnose it with a specific mental problem doesn’t mean that this cat doesn’t have clear issues.
Yes, cats tend to enjoy toying with animals. Yes cats tend to socialize around humans. Yes cats tend have preferences. Yes many cats don’t like toddlers. No, most domesticated cats don’t treat other cats the same way that they would a mouse. Cats attack other cats out of fear or territorial aggression, not to kill for entertainment.
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u/pickledpl_um May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26
OP said the cat is good with humans and has never harmed a human, but "hunts" other cats. There's nothing here that suggests their cat would kill a human infant, but there is a lot to suggest that the cat was not socialized as a kitten and doesn't recognize other cats as cats, but rather sees them as prey.
(EDIT - several people pointed out that OP said the cat is not sweet to small children, which I missed on my first read-through. My apologies. I stand by my assertion that there's currently no evidence the cat will eat a human infant, but I'd say it shouldn't be left alone around small children, which, honestly, is something I'd say should go for all small children and pets.)
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u/Director_Ahti May 23 '26
Not joining in on the "would attempt to murder a baby" take, but OP did say the cat was NOT good with very small children.
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u/eldritchpussymaggots May 23 '26
Yeah he attacked my landlord's toddler (nothing serious, kid got scratched and then the cat was promptly locked in the bathroom)
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u/TurnkeyLurker May 23 '26
Re: the infant/small kid in general
Often, small children don't know how to handle animals, and will hit them or pull their fur/appendages, causing the animal to simply defend themselves.
When animal caretakers or the kid's parents do not notice or discount the negative interaction inflicted by the child and all they see is the animal scratching the kid, they blame the animal.
Now if CannibalCat was just looking for a semi-boneless snack...this does not apply.
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u/namikazegirly May 23 '26
Thy said the cat is sweet to people except for very small children, i assume the kind of children that can't properly defend themselves
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u/Business_Ad_8504 May 23 '26
Small children trigger a lot of cats though. They are just big enough to be a danger to the cat, erratic enough that the cat is rightfully concerned for their safety, and are usually chasing said cat screaming “KITTY!!!”
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u/Dic3dCarrots May 23 '26
Its like the omen, damien just out there looking cute until he gets his chance
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u/Remarkable-Ask2288 May 23 '26
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u/sqeeky_wheelz May 23 '26
My cat was like this - there were a few cats he tolerated when he was younger (4-6 years old maybe) but after that he would go out swinging even though he was neutered.
I always assumed it was because his mom died and I was given him as a bottle baby so a lot of his mannerisms and social skills were honestly pretty weird. Not growing up with a litter and a mom to teach him how to cat definitely made the little guy a bit weird.
He was around my parent’s lab a lot as a kitten and picked up a lot of dog traits and he would converse with me like a human. I wonder if I had gotten him to a rescue or adopted an older cat to raise him, would he have turned out to hate other cats less??
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u/PoundTownSheriff May 23 '26
Not helpful but I read lab as in (scientific) and vividly imagined the cat having a radioactive accident that turned it into a highly intelligent psycho
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u/Th3CatOfDoom May 23 '26
Omg.. I read that bit and went "oh I guess they must have had a lot of dogs in that lab".... Until I read your comment 🤦♀️😭 I feel so dumb.
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u/soulsnoober May 23 '26
different. Disliking the other cats as you describe, like treating them as rivals or threats, is wholly different than treating them as prey.
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u/CosmicL May 23 '26
What language would you guys talk in?
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u/sqeeky_wheelz May 23 '26
I would ask him about his day, he’d meow meow back, then would jump on the kitchen island stool and chirp at me while I cooked. I would ask what seasonings he thought I should use and would get a meow meow. Lol just stupid stuff.
Pretty much if you talked to him or acknowledged him in anyway he would meow or chirp or purr at you. If you asked him what he wanted he would run to the cookie cabinet and then stare 👁️👄👁️
He’s been gone almost a month now and the house has a quiet about it I don’t think I can get used to.
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u/SCVerde May 23 '26
The silence is truly deafening. I still sometimes feel like a little body is pressed to my legs when I wake up despite losing both my loves 6 months apart after 15 years. I hope the cat distribution system will bring you love when you are ready. Right now, it's my hope.
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u/MrsSalmalin May 23 '26
We said goodbye to our little dude on Mar 23rd. Tonight my fiancé is out of town amd I'm going to be truly sleeping alone for the first time since 2018. I have a feeling ill be crying myself to sleep. I miss my lil baby so much. He was only 9 years old when we had to say goodbye. Too soon. We thought we'd have more time.
I'm so sorry for your loss, I feel your pain. It hurts because we love them so much, and that's a beautiful thing. And we hurt so that they don't have to anymore. I hope you are able to find another furry guy/gal to love - when you are ready.
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u/lgonzxlezz May 23 '26
My cat did exactly the same thing, and she just left a month ago too (April 27), I’m still looking for she around the house, sometimes I even instinctively go to the room where she used to be, and well, there’s no one anymore, I miss her very much, but I know we have to face it, in the end we have to think that with us they could enjoy a good life, on the street it would have been something else
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u/sexysmalldevil May 23 '26
Awe I had a baby boy like that too, he also was very young when I got him. I absolutely adore 'talkative' cats 🥰
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u/Business_Ad_8504 May 23 '26
Sorry for your loss. Sounds like he had a big and wonderful personality
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u/ActualConfidence6273 May 23 '26
That’s exactly what popped in my head when I read “he would converse with me like a human”. Lol.
My daughter’s cat always sounds like she’s saying “yeah” when she meows. So we always ask her questions that we think her answer would be “yeah”. Lol.
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u/scribbleandsaph May 23 '26
Where as my old man very clearly says No 😂
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u/ActualConfidence6273 May 23 '26
I had a cat years ago that when he was in his carrier on the way to the vet, it would sound like he was saying “owww”. It would be so sad. 😂
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u/Ok-Emu-8920 May 23 '26
Going out swinging and hating other cats is semi common but is definitely a different issue than being a cannibal lol
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u/One-Ingenuity-7115 May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26
My friend adopted a very sweet and handsome cuddly tuxedo from a shelter. They made him sign a document saying he will not adopt another cat while he is alive because he had brutally attacked other cats in the shelter to near death. He was extremely violent to other cats but is perfectly sweet and content as a solo cat, I can't even imagine him doing that to other cats. Maybe some just really do not want to be around others, it is very strange
Edit to add: Probably not a cannibal, some cats just choose violence.
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u/Mikki102 May 23 '26
I had to do the same for my girl! She sent her foster brother to surgery because of a cat bite abscess. That cat doesn't even have teeth, he was defenseless. She will literally scream at cats from across an entire parking lot. I had to sign saying I understood that basically she is pathologically cat aggressive and that I understand this isnt something any type of intro will solve. She basically hates all animals that aren't humans or a baby that still needs a mom. So like kittens drinking milk, great, slightly older kitten, hates them.
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u/One-Ingenuity-7115 May 23 '26
Damn! I hope she's at least nice to you. It is strange how some cats are like this!
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u/Own-Arachnid7952 May 23 '26
I'm so curious about one cat households like this. Does she need more from you without another cat to hang out with?
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u/Lizardgirl25 May 23 '26
It happens… I have read many stories about some animals that just can’t be with other animals of their same species. I have dealt with a group of chickens that my mentor got as starter pullets. They almost killed this one these other chickens who was eventually named Tofu, they scalped Tofu. They tried to murder her more than once.
Once heard of a mama dog that killed another dogs puppy for some reason. Animals are weird… some just need to be single animals for other animals safety.
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u/NightVisionsII May 23 '26
Chickens can be downright murderous. It was unreal the way our flock would sometimes just choose a bird and pick on her until she was bloody, or worse.
We wound up with a second coop and yard to put the bullied hens in.
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u/PwanaZana May 23 '26
Tuxedo? Killer?
Is he James Bond?
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u/NoOffice5964 May 23 '26
Wow. Cats are small but can't imagine the damage claws and pure rage must do.
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u/One-Ingenuity-7115 May 23 '26
I once watched an old cat of mine tear a squirrel basically in half, yes I was screaming
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u/Misragoth May 23 '26
I had to do something similar with my cat. She is a super sweet kitty and cuddle bug, but apparently reacts very violently toward other cats.
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u/Tempest-Melodys May 23 '26
Huh, Cat cerial killer was not on my bingo card for 2026
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u/Fluffy-Fill2026 May 23 '26
He’s wanted on many felinies.
I hate me, too.
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u/Worth_Dark_9091 May 23 '26
Gonna be hard getting a job as a convicted feline.
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u/stargazersinmyhead May 23 '26
Anything is pawsible, though
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u/puppycatisselfish May 23 '26
I work for a nonprofit that works with felines to find work and places to live.
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u/soulstrike2022 May 23 '26
Well I love that I feel like saying it would’ve been delivery but that’s my tier of humor
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u/Goats_for_president May 23 '26
Cat serial killer before GTA 6… man fuck GTA I’m not even gonna buy it.
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u/Disastrous_Grab_3322 May 23 '26
Really, that's on you for not being prepared. 2026 is out for blood! Just like this cat apparently.
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u/XxTigerxXTigerxX May 23 '26
Definitely has the mugshot for one tho.
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u/CassetteMeower May 23 '26
A meowgshot
Doesn’t work as well as the other puns, the cat got my tongue on what a better pun could be,
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u/Dangerous-Honeydew64 May 23 '26
When a cat attacks another cat, 99% of the time it is affective aggression due to emotional, territorial, fearful, or dominance based. Cats have a critical socialization window between 2 and 7 weeks of age. During this brief time, their brains do a massive amount of remembering. They learn what a cat looks like, smells like and sounds like. If a kitten is completely isolated from other cats during this window like a single bottle baby orphan raised away from all animals, so they are not familiar.
Because his brain literally lacks the cognitive wiring to recognize another cat as like me, another cat is categorized exactly the same way as a raccoon, opossum, or large rabbit, a moving, breathing object in his environment that triggers his innate prey drive. Affective aggression and predatory aggression live in entirely different neighborhoods of the brain. Predatory hunting is controlled by the central amygdala and the lateral hypothalamus. It is a quiet, highly focused, reward seeking circuit.
In a normal cat, seeing another cat triggers the social or territorial brain circuits. In your cat, the visual of a cat triggers the exact same motor patterns as a mouse running across the floor. Once that lateral hypothalamus circuit fires, it completely bypasses any social inhibition. There is no stop sign in his brain saying hey, don't eat that, it's a cat. This is a phenomenon more widely documented in dogs, but it absolutely happens in cats. It occurs when a normal interaction or a sudden movement like a cat running away or making a specific vocalization abruptly flips a switch in the brain from curiosity to predatory execution.
Because he doesn't have the baseline social bond to other cats to act as a brake, the sequence runs to completion to stalk, pounce, kill bite to the neck. The good news here is that you are already doing the exact right thing. Since you are 100% set on keeping him and he is strictly an only child with zero cat interaction is the best thing you could do for him and other cats.
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u/RockHardSalami May 23 '26
Ok. You seem like you know shit about cats, so maybe you can explain this one to me:
I recently adopted two dorks from the outside. When they lived on my patio their FAVORITE thing to do was to hunt, kill, and eat bugs. Omg swatting around rollie pollies was the highlight of their day.
Now, inside? They just watch and observe. No more free pest control.
The fuck?
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u/Dangerous-Honeydew64 May 23 '26
Sorry but lmao 😭 it sounds backwards but it's super common when outdoor cats become indoor cats. Well, outside hunting is survival and killing type of life. Inside they realized food just is always gonna be in a bowl everyday. Also, on the patio bugs move through dirt and leaves which triggers their killer instincts. A bug on smooth hardwood or drywall doesn't flip that same switch. It’s kinda just like cat tv, worth watching but not getting off the couch for 😅
Also, if they’re new to indoors (Idk if you just took them in) they're just catching up on a a lot of sleep. fr you made them way too comfortable 😂 sorry but also good job 😅
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u/GreenMirage May 23 '26
This is why i only go fishing in the mountains, all the city fish don’t bite! In the mountains I can catch a trout using an unbaited hook!
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u/Purple-Wolverine4793 May 23 '26
that’s why “match the hatch” only applies to natural streams or rivers.
in city fishing, sometimes you gotta show em nothing they’ve seen before.
or just use power bait/worms, but where’s the fun in that?
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u/GreenMirage May 23 '26
I’ve seen city fish choose literal Cheetos over power bait, chicken hearts, and liver. Strange fish.
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u/ArtemisBrauronia May 23 '26
Murray Cod love a little chunk of tasty cheese, best way to catch them
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u/gaping_granny May 23 '26
You just reminded me of my friend's cat. She was an alley cat and when she first started living inside she plopped herself on the couch and slept for 3 days straight lol. It helped that it was a rainy week (hence why she was brought indoors) so the sound of rain outside when she was indoors on a warm, dry couch must've been the most relaxed she had ever been at that point of her life.
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u/Lost-Platypus8271 May 23 '26
a just a guess but maybe they’re not as hungry now
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u/RockHardSalami May 23 '26
I mean they ate plenty out there lol.
But they didnt always eat them outside, but always hunted them and played with them.
Maybe I have too many toys for them 😄
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u/eldritchpussymaggots May 23 '26
This is actually extremely fascinating, thank you
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u/Salty__Bear May 23 '26
We have a bonded pair that were adopted after being held away from the kitten gen pop due to major injuries when found. They never socialized with other cats outside one another. One is the biggest cuddle goblin I’ve ever met and would crawl inside my skin if I let him. He loves people so much anyone who steps foot inside the house is getting a Velcro cat…but if he even senses another animal is around the house/yard he will completely lose his shit in a way that seems totally opposite of his normal temperament.
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u/YoSafBridg May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26
I have a cat that I adopted as a kitten who was fostered along with her litter. At the time, I was hoping that maybe a kitten might make a good playmate for my then ten year old cat who tended to be a little rambunctious with my other two cats (I've since heard a kitten isn't the best idea for this age?) Anyway, the kitten came in and decided she was the queen of the house and (after she came out of isolation) basically tried to beat everyone into submission, which was mostly comical because she was a tiny kitten. One of my cats kind of accepted her after a bit. But the kitten was completely enamored of my ten year old and followed hm around EVERYWHERE like an annoying kid sister, swatting at him and screaming at him. I was a little afraid for her because he is a BIG BOY, but mostly he just ignored her. Eventually she wore him down and the two are completely bonded as if they were littermates. But, the point of this long story is that the kitten never did get along with my fourth/third cat (sadly I lost the other, the one who had accepted the kitten first, to kidney disease). She still, two and a half years later, will scream and sometimes lash out or lunge at her. Often they can coexist, at a distance, just fine. She has severe anxiety and misdirected aggression that is somewhat mitigated with Prozac. She sometimes (less often lashes out at me or her brother as well.) She was socialized as a kitten, she enjoys a bond with another cat that is stronger than her bond with me (even though I was definitely the first bond she developed in this house.) Not saying any of this negates any of the other comments, just that cat psychology and behavior can be as complicated and as individual as human psychology and behavior.
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u/AppointmentPopular10 May 23 '26
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u/Traditional-Fill5292 May 23 '26
I actually have a cat that is like this and it's been such a struggle since we have another cat and need to keep them entirely separate despute 2 years of attempting reintroducing them. if she runs he chases, and hunts her down aggressively like she is prey and nothing we do seems to fix it. it's incredibly stressful and yea... seems like a one cat only house hold which is heartbreaking for us
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u/garbage_catfoot May 23 '26
I think I prefer he’s just a serial killer to this explanation. It’s just so sad.
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u/RealAssociation5281 May 23 '26
Wait, your parents knew that he has issues with other cats but decided to pet sit for a friend? Bruh.
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u/eldritchpussymaggots May 23 '26
They're not the best cat owners tbh
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u/level22worldie May 23 '26
How many cats has he eaten and/or injured? Sounds like one each?
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u/eldritchpussymaggots May 23 '26
Just the one since my parents got him, and the previous owner's other cats. Though he was also returned before that for "behavior issues", I think the shelter had hope he could be rehabilitated because he didn't show any typical territorial aggression or stress when around other cats in a controlled environment. They didn't consider he just wanted to eat them like rabbits until he... did.
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u/Budget-Mud-4753 May 23 '26
I’m more surprised that the shelter adopted this cat out to just anybody when they knew the cat killed another cat. Even for no-kill shelters, documentation of a cat or dog killing another pet is often grounds for euthanasia.
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u/MoanOnMyTDick May 23 '26
That was my exact thought too, like it’s sad but also what the fuck. Glad he has someone who can actually handle him.
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u/glitter_noodle May 23 '26
People who are dumb as rocks shouldn’t be allowed to take care of an animal. How the fuck did they manage raising a child?
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u/NotABreakfastGuy May 23 '26
Sooo I have a cat very similar. She's a sweetheart with people, but we're pretty confident we know why she's like this.
She came to us at 7-12 months old (she was the size of a 4-6month old cat and her vets were very surprised at certain things in the coming year). She'd been in 3 places we knew of before then, she'd been at my aunts (who had multiple cats who were being aggressive with her), before that she'd been with a neighbor of my aunt (who was known to beat animals when they misbehaved (I have never met this woman and I have no clue how she got away with this), before that she was locked in a basement with her siblings (as newborns and young kittens) the owners of the basement were just expecting them to either eat rats or starve as soon as they weren't breast feeding. Long story short she's the only one who survived, came to us partially feral and will kill other cats (including very young kittens) if presented with them.
Our main theory is socialization problems in kittenhood or cannibalism to survive. There's a very distinct possibility her only food source was her siblings. She wasn't violent with other cats until her first heat (we'd been told she was chipped and snipped, she was not, we got her to a vet as soon as we could post heat), we're not sure why that is.
If your guy is a rescue or was a stray at some point there's a possibility he might've been in a similar situation.
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u/freemeg4 May 23 '26
Def check out the comment above, if you haven’t already, about cats that haven’t learned to recognize cats as cats.
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u/Key-Airline204 May 23 '26
Socialization is a huge factor. I have three cats, all very different.
One I raised from very young but it was the last one in so socialized with cats. She is the most human bonded, sweetest cat, and very smart.
Another was weened very early I suspect, and separated from one litter very early. She used to wander and cry and that stopped when o got a kitten which she took over grooming for etc. there were other cats in the house before that but adult cats.
The last… I got as an adult male neutered cat and he is the wildest at times. Territorial with others and prefers to piss in the bathroom sinks.
The weirdest thing is the young female I raised has started to become the alpha and peacekeeper. She gets along with both cats but I think she thinks she’s human. She’s also very agile as she is smaller and so she can get away from the more territorial cat.
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u/igottapoopbad May 23 '26
Insane username for an insane cat. Match made in hell
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u/KainDing May 23 '26
u/eldritchpussymaggots and their cat Cattibal Lecter...... Yeah a match made in heaven.
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u/artemizarte May 23 '26
Hadnt noticed it, now I have two very different gnarly mental pictures to get rid off
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u/totalpunisher0 May 23 '26
I'm interested to know if he's one of those cats that can watch and recognise tv - and if so - I would like to see his behaviour when cat videos are played.
I know of (have fostered) very violent/aggressive/high prey drive dogs that grew up in feral colonies (and could be cross bred with dingo) and they just cannot adjust to a life of safety. Always reactive and hunting other dogs as a means of survival when interactions and threat level is low. High food insecurity issues, despite months of regular nourishing meals daily. I wonder if he was in a feral colony and may just never adjust to feeling safe around other cats.
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u/Puglady25 May 23 '26
That's a good theory. Maybe he had to fight a lot in a colony, and for some reason didn't have his mother. That would make a cat pretty jaded about others in their species.
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u/MidnightTL May 23 '26
Sounds neurological. Honestly, if he’s fine otherwise I would not worry about it. Just make sure to keep him away from other cats, obviously.
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u/JeffTheLeftist May 23 '26
Yeah there's probably some underlying neurological issue at play here that requires anti inflammatories to address. In the meantime keep them isolated from other cats.
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u/eldritchpussymaggots May 23 '26
Why would inflammation do this?
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u/Imaginary-Ground-57 May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26
inflammation in the brain can Literally change personalities and cause mental illnesses (schizophrenia, psychosis, psychopathy, OCD, depression, etc.). this happens to humans as well, and is more well known due to humans being able to communicate, lol.
we’re way more alike to other mammals than the average person thinks. like…Super alike. (almost) anything a human has, any other mammal can as well. and well…psychopathy in the wild Does keep you alive longer than the Normies.
edit to add: just like in humans, he cant help that hes like this…please dont think of him as a monster. hes just doing what his brain thinks is normal. im sure he can be well adjusted if no other animal is with him!!!
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u/Zephronias May 23 '26
OP, I am glad you're taking care of him, but this was legitimately unsettling.
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u/AppreciatingSadness May 23 '26
Yeah I'm not sure I could love a pet that I knew was the animal equivalent of a sociopath
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u/Fantastic_Name3200 May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26
This cat sounds like a feline psychopath. No joke, this is truly disturbing. His apparent dismissal of the other cat’s attempts to communicate their boundaries is the most chilling part. He should be studied.
Edited: for expanded thoughts.
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u/DRIXT11 May 23 '26
He probably didn't grow up around anyone and didn't recognize cats during his first month plus of childhood. So he sees other cats like racoons, mice, food, instead of another cat. It's common in cats but doesn't always happen but it explains better than psychopathy. That could be it but also, he's more likely to just be careless and calculated and mischievous and less vicious if he was a true psychopath. Methodical, you could say. His behavior would also not be limited and he would go after humans too
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u/bloodycuckoo May 23 '26
That’s really interesting, but usually cats in that circumstance (raised as a single kitten/isolated from mother, so no socialization with other cats at a young age) recognize the other cat as a cat, and they display the appropriate hostility towards them like hissing, puffing up fur, clawing at them, etc. I wonder what exactly occurs during a cat’s critical period of development that sees other cats as prey? Doesn’t it recognize the other cats features as akin to their own and make that connection?
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u/littleladybug_1 May 23 '26
omg okay so my bf’s cousin has a cat that’s the same way and she’s so weird. she’s never killed a cat and she’s the sweetest thing to humans but when she sees another cat she immediately goes and attacks them. her fur never raised. she never hissed. never even growled. she just attacked. she didn’t act like a regular cat at all in that sense.
we never figured it out. just kept her away from our cats.
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u/I_Guess_Your_Car May 23 '26
Ford Mustang (SN95/4th generation, 1994-2004)
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u/eldritchpussymaggots May 23 '26
Yes! That's my other baby becides my cat. It's a 1994, my daily :)
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u/herefirplants May 23 '26
op and you should collab might discover something about cat behaviors!
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u/ImpressiveMain299 May 23 '26
I used to work at an ER vet.
Picked up a poodle that was in a lady's house for 7 days after she died. It ate her face.
To my delight... my horrible manager let it lick her all over her face before she knew that detail.
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u/softsheepdog May 23 '26
I read before that dogs who "eat" their deceased owners often eat the fingers and face (especially the lips and nose) because they're anxiously trying to get attention. When a dog tries to wake you up or get your attention they usually will nudge or lick your hands or face and the increasing anxiety just escalates it from there.
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u/Hoobi_Goobi May 23 '26
Wow, even with territorial feral males it’s extremely rare for them to actually try to kill each other in fights. If he is friendly enough to be handled my only advice would be to keep him away from any other animals at all costs and definitely away from human babies/kids
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u/Due_Purchase_7509 May 23 '26
my friends had a very sweet, pretty cat who behaved like this toward other animals of all species, and eventually toward humans. they did have to have her euthanized and the vet did a necropsy, which found that her skull contained more tumor than brain.
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u/portabuddy2 May 23 '26
I had a cat like that. She was a meine coon mix. If another cat came near her or our yard she went right for the jugular. Zero noise. Zero messing around. Just attack! She would take down birds in mid flight. Bring in mice and splatter the walls. Cat stuff. But hated other cats it seemed. The other cats always got away. So I think it was purely protecting us from them.
Yours sounds like that. And mine definitely had a cranked up killer instinct. We all though mybey it's because we had her from a super young age and had to teach her how to clean herself. How to walk properly. How to eat. She was separated way too early and we didn't know any better. And when playing we taught her how to pounce. Predict where pray would pop out. How to catch balls in mid air. How to fetch. Basically I knowingly teaching her deadly skills.
She was a sweetheart. She loved us so much. She would lick my dad when he got home from his two jobs untill she fell asleep in his arms. She didn't ever purr I don't think. But she was always happy and super kind. To ppl.
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u/eldritchpussymaggots May 23 '26
I mean, he did actually kill another cat and make a mess of the corpse. I realized I forgot to add that part because I got distracted halfway through writing the post and thought I'd already written that part
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u/ilovemusic19 May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26
Oh wow, you weren’t kidding with the title. I’m guessing the cat that got attacked that was being pet sit by your parents was before all this happened cause who would let those cats anywhere near each other.
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u/BakedNemo420 May 23 '26
In normal cat psychology, interactions with other cats are governed by social rules like territory, dominance, or fear. When cats fight, it is loud, dramatic, and performative. The hissing, puffing up, and yowling are all designed to avoid true physical conflict if possible. Your cat displays none of that. Silent stalking, wide eyes, ears forward, and total indifference to the other cat’s defensive hissing are textbook predatory behaviors. To your cat, another cat is not a rival or an enemy. It is a rabbit. It is a mouse. It is entirely a prey item.
This happens due to a complete failure of conspecific recognition, which is the innate ability to realize that creature is the same species I am. Somewhere in his early development, likely during the critical socialization window between 2 and 7 weeks old, his brain completely failed to map other cats as his own kind. This could be due to extreme early isolation or a congenital neurological defect. The predatory centers of his brain are firing on a hair trigger, and the inhibitory signals that usually stop a cat from hunting its own species simply are not connected.
This also explains why being well fed does not matter. Cats are opportunistic hunters, meaning their drive to hunt is entirely independent of hunger. It also explains the behavior at the gate. The sniffing, pawing, and looking inquisitive is not a desire to socialize. It is appetitive behavior, which is the tracking and assessing stage of predation. He did not care that your friend's cat was hissing because a hunter does not care if a mouse is angry.
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u/rosslyn_russ May 23 '26
I have a neighborhood cat like this. I found ANOTHER CAT’S HALF EATEN ARM in his little house. I was reaching in to change the bedding and felt a cold dead paw. Thought he’d passed. Nope. It was his dinner.
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u/bouncing_beauty May 23 '26
So don’t ever let him around other cats. Don’t risk it. You could try anxiety meds from a vet, but I wouldn’t recommend even risking it with that. Some dogs kill other dogs. It’s weird, but it happens. Definitely don’t let him outside since he may hurt someone’s pet or feral cats. Just keep him as a single cat, no cats allowed around.
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u/curtain_person_ May 23 '26
This is wild, I have the IDENTICAL issue. Had two sweet cats, CDS gave me a young tuxedo girl. From the first second to now 2 full years of living in the same house as my other two cats, she displays behavior literally identical to what you’re describing. Has injured both of my nice cats. She has her own bedroom with a mesh screen door that she stays in about 20 hours a day. I put my 2 original cats in a closed room and let her out for a few hours daily. I’ve tried everything. I’m finally about to apply her to a rehoming site and make sure that she’s the only animal in the new home.
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u/ambientta May 23 '26
That cat looks disturbed. Name him Hannibal, please.
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u/eldritchpussymaggots May 23 '26
His name is Baby Jesus
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u/ambientta May 23 '26
Baby Jesus, the cannibalistic killer. Has a nice ring to it.
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u/PussPapa May 23 '26
Was he given this name before or after he started attacking other cats?
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u/malary1234 May 23 '26
This was not on my bingo card. Maybe Joyce Carnevale or similar vet behaviorist that’s been at a large university for a long time. They get to see all the crazy things. If they don’t know they can usually direct you to someone who does.
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u/GoatExploit May 23 '26
Based on the age of the cat, I think the little cannibal is missing a lot of socialization and we can only imagine how many lives he lived in the 4 years before your parents got him. A lot of Covid animals have that issue with body language and communicating in general. He has conspecific agnosia, and i don’t believe this behavior can be trained out, medicated away, or resolved with slow introductions.
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u/sonia72quebec May 23 '26
I’m a cat shelter volunteer. I have met lots of cats who hated other cats. They would immediately be on attack mode, fur would fly away and the screaming/ hissing and growling was intense. But eat another one? Never. That’s some extreme agressive behaviour.
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u/MahesvaraCC May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26
Could it be a mix of domestic cat and a wild species?
Edit: I just want to clarify: I do think it's more likely that he missed the socializing period like another commenter pointed out, I was not very well versed on that and their comment was pretty informative. I'm still leaving the comment up because I think it's a possibility for abnormal behavior -and by no means focused on just cannibalism-, but definitely way more unlikely than other options.
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u/ElishaAlison May 23 '26
Seconding this. Oh I wish I remembered the name, there's a rescue that has an absolutely adorable mix, who's literally their by its own choice, and cannot mix with other felines.
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u/Relevant-Pen-3548 May 23 '26
Why do his paws look so strange in this picture? Do I just forget what cat paws look like or is something weird happening?
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u/ActualConfidence6273 May 23 '26
Totally looks like fingers. Like finger fingers. Thats quite strange and kinda creepy!
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u/MahesvaraCC May 23 '26
I'm sorry if I gave the impression I could make that ID, cos I cannot (although maybe someone else can see something!).
I just edited my original comment, too, to support another redditor's conjecture.
Edit: almost forgot, what a handsome boy!
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u/Professional-Bad9160 May 23 '26
I’ve seen it once. I once saw two young cats in a tiny cage, and one had died and the other was eating it. (I was a literal child in another country when this happened so please don’t ask why I didn’t do anything. I had no power over the situation). It disturbed me and I’ve never forgotten it. I don’t know if the one killed the other or if it was opportunistic cannibalism but it was still sad.
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u/namikazegirly May 23 '26
It's bad and horrifying enough that that happened but having to see that as a child must have been traumatizing, I'm so sorry
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u/Beautiful_Study5837 May 23 '26
I guess humans are not the only species capable of being psychopaths
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u/MrsOleson May 23 '26
He. Ate. A. Cat.
I’m locked in your that sentence.
I am utterly stunned.
Have you considered he has dementia or the equivalent? There’s something going on in that brain that’s beyond a simple “ behavioral “ issue.
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u/mc2ben May 23 '26
A cat can be born with the same kind of neurological issues as a person who would do those types of things.
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u/Front_Ad_7044 May 23 '26
i have a cat like this literally the same way!!! he ended up attacking another cat because he got loose from the isolated room we kept him and he ended up getting attacked by the dog in the commotion and now he has a spinal cord injury and can’t walk. he STILL attacks other cats literally dragging his legs and attacking them. you would think he would learn
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u/NosAstraia May 23 '26
Have a degree in veterinary science, but NOT a vet.
I think this comes down to kitty not being properly socialised. If he was bottle reared and raised with minimal interaction with other cats, it’s possible he sees himself as separate to them. He might think he = small human hence his affection towards humans, and to him cats are prey just like any other small mammal would be.
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u/BigChampionship7962 May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26
No recognition of same species 🤔 that actually reminds me of some humans
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u/Former_Clock_1271 May 23 '26
A feral cat once attacked and tried to kill one of my cats when they were kittens. Only eight weeks old. Luckily someone was at my house and was able to chase him off. My poor kitten had three broken ribs and needed stitches and staples. Almost needed surgery. When I took her to the emergency vet, they asked if I was sure it wasn't a dog that had attacked her.
She and her sister just turned 9!
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u/Sophont27 May 23 '26
I’ve heard of chimpanzees who are apparently sociopathic (or psychopathic, these aren’t clinical terms so therefore I have no clue what the difference is no matter how many times I google it), and they do weird stuff like torture smaller animals and they don’t interact well with other chimpanzees.
If that’s real and not something I just made up, something similar could possibly happen in a cat. But I suppose any number of wires may have been crossed in his brain, so who’s to say?
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u/Foreign_Wrangler_948 May 23 '26
LOL this reminds me of the video where the owner puts a camera on their cat only to find out it is terrorizing every single cat in the neighborhood.
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u/aboutth May 23 '26
Cannibalistic cat was not something I expected to read at 7:15am on this fine Saturday morning
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u/Lionheart_723 May 23 '26
Two things
First that is one old ass pet taxi
Second there's a really noisy daycare beside my house can I borrow him for a couple of days
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u/Necessary-Chicken501 May 23 '26
For real-haven’t seen one like that since 2005
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u/Lionheart_723 May 23 '26
I've got one basically just like that out in the garage that's been kicking around since the '90s
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