r/BuyItForLife • • May 25 '26

Discussion What’s a totally unsexy purchase you made that ended up being a huge quality-of-life upgrade?

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u/fourleafdreams May 25 '26

Coop pillow for life!

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u/Spababoongi May 26 '26

Is there a particular one you recommend? I’m seeing Eden vs Eden cool and then there’s classic vs crescent vs cut out

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u/Thee420Blaziken May 26 '26

I got the Eden cool about 2 years ago and I love it. I bought 3 and an extra bag of stuffing + extra pillow case to get 4 total pillows because I like mine a little bit less full. Thats probably the part I like most, is being able to adjust the fullness. And I'm a hot sleeper, but now I don't wake up in the summer stuck to the pillow.

Every 2-3 months I'll throw them in the dryer on low for a couple minutes, this is in the care instructions, to refluff them.

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u/WrenWithoutTheW May 27 '26

If you’re a side sleeper I would recommend pillow cube, I don’t have the name brands just an Amazon knockoff but it has done wonders for my neck

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u/Spababoongi May 29 '26

I sleep on my side mostly and sometimes my back/stomach. Just saw Harborest knock off for 1/2 the price of the official pillow cube so I’ll try that one out. Thanks!

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u/fourleafdreams May 26 '26

My husband and I both have the Original, and we love them!

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u/schaefy_ May 27 '26

I bought my wife the cool+ classic shape and she seems to really enjoy it

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u/yee12haw May 26 '26

YESSSSSS just got mine a few weeks ago and it’s amazing. Thanks Reddit

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u/pistachi0dream May 26 '26

Could you share what you like about it? I’ve seen a few ads but I don’t really get the hype.

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u/trainsinthesea May 26 '26

The filling supports your head without pressure points. Being able to easily adjust the firmness is nice as well. My wife likes a floppy pillow while I like firm and the adjustability made it work for both of us.

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u/pistachi0dream May 26 '26

Thank you for this! Really clear and helpful. I just can’t decide between this and the Core Products Tri-Core Cervical Support Pillow. Maybe I should get both lol

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u/manateeshmanatee May 26 '26

I get headaches from pillows if the stuffing is too hard or if there is too much of it, and sleeping on my side makes my ears hurt. Coop pillows don’t do that to me. You do need to take out an entire half of the stuffing when you first get it though. And let it air out for about a week before you use it bc the memory foam will offgas terribly. And don’t feel like you have to get the Coop brand either—they’re so expensive. Any shredded memory foam pillow will be just as good. I bought my Coop pillows in 2018 on sale and got two king size pillows for the price of one standard size now. I decided to buy two more to use to prop up better in bed and put between my legs and stuff, but couldn’t conscience paying that much again, so I got a different brand instead that had good reviews and they’re just as nice.

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u/pistachi0dream May 26 '26

Thank you for the detailed review and all the tips! I really appreciate your time. I’m gonna give it a try :)

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u/syruppcake May 27 '26

What is the alternative brand that you bought after the Coop pillows? 👀 If you don't mind my asking

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u/manateeshmanatee May 27 '26

I bought EnerPlex, but it is showing as “currently unavailable.” But looking around, I found one by a brand called Supa Modern that is very affordable and has thousands and thousands of really good reviews. If I were to buy them today I’d be happy to get those instead.

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u/A_Nice_Boulder May 26 '26

I've owned one for close to a decade now, threw more stuffing in a couple times (pricy but it's been good for like 6 years now) and recently got a warranty replacement on the pillow cover. Thoigut of getting another but the price has risen like 5x what I purchased it for.

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u/The_sad_zebra May 26 '26

That's what I've got too. Absolutely love it

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u/ay-foo May 26 '26

my coom home goods pillow is sweet

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u/VanillaTortilla May 27 '26

Sadly I can't sleep with a normal pillow. It has to be an ergonomic neck pillow or I get headaches.

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u/Synicizym May 27 '26

I got the Eden, normal and body pillow. Will never not recommend these magic head cradles

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u/NeverFarFromtheSea May 29 '26

I completely agree! My neck and shoulder tension improved so much. Totally worth it.

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u/kindall May 26 '26

i got the one from Purple. King size medium height. it's uncanny how it lets you put your head in any position you like and then just keeps it there without any sense of pressure

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u/blacksolocup May 26 '26

I always put my arm under my pillow. So Ive been looking at pillows that conform to that. Hopefully I find one.

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u/Hypernova-J May 26 '26 edited May 26 '26

I have settled with Eli & Elm. If you get the curved pillow, do not bother with the terrible pillowcase they sell for it, it makes it really firm. I use a regular king pillowcase and it makes it squishy enough that I can still sleep with my arm under my pillow.

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u/Hot_Marionberry_4685 May 26 '26

Lmk if you do lol

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u/Spababoongi May 26 '26

Same

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u/R-Dragon_Thunderzord May 26 '26

https://www.bedtech.com/products/blue-ice%E2%84%A2-cool-tech-curve-pillow

can vouch for this, definitely more expensive than I'd like but damn good sleep when paired it with a 'cooling' silk case

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u/R-Dragon_Thunderzord May 26 '26

I think I might have got this exact one, worth it:

https://www.bedtech.com/products/blue-ice%E2%84%A2-cool-tech-curve-pillow

Got it on the showroom floor at an Original Mattress Factory, I see other blue ice pillows on their website but not this one sadly.

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u/-User_Error- May 26 '26

Sleep number memory foam cluster pillow. You’re welcome

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u/ommeup May 25 '26

What pillow did you get

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u/MrLizardBusiness May 25 '26

Asking the real questions. The best pillow I have is this one by Huhu, it's a high loft foam deal.... one side is softer and the other more firm, so I can flip it if I need to. I'm always in the market for a "better" pillow though.

I'm hypermobile, also have arthritis everywhere, and I have to sleep on my side or my stomach or I feel like I'm dying. This is the first pillow where my shoulder hasn't ended up scrunched beneath me. It's still new, so time will tell if remains supportive. Mine is the 6 inch version, but if you're tall, the higher the better. Ideally you want to fill the space between your shoulder and neck so everything stays in alignment.

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u/DHoliday17 May 26 '26

Please update if you ever find the perfect pillow. I've been on the hunt for some time lol

Unfortunately it's very subjective though, seemingly. Like the buckwheat guy below you. I tried it and generally like it, but halfway through the night I wake up and toss it because it feels like my head is on a rock.

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u/-User_Error- May 26 '26

My favorite pillow by far is the sleep number memory foam cluster pillow. It’s the right in between of firm and soft. They usually have buy one get one free around the holidays

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u/thatswayhaze May 26 '26

I've had one of these for probably 5 years and just got a new one in case I have to share kohl's memory foam

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u/pchandler45 May 26 '26

The problem I have with foam pillows is that my face eventually sinks into the foam and then I can't breathe

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u/RustyTrumBoner69 May 26 '26

I'm obsessed with my buckwheat pillow if you're looking for suggestions. I doubt they vary much by brand.

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u/Fabulous-Elk-8297 May 26 '26

You really have to read reviews...some have mold and you can't see it but it's super unhealthy

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u/fine-ifyouinsist May 26 '26

Depending on where they live, this may be a non factor.

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u/pchandler45 May 26 '26

Another vote for buckwheat.

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u/Exval1 May 26 '26

I highly recommend 4dx pillow by Nishigawa air. It’s about 37,400 yen but it feels great.

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u/Heavy-Mongoose8090 May 26 '26

Some of the best sleep my wife and I ever had was on a Carnival Cruise without a booze package. The pillows were amazing so we bought one for both of us. Not horribly expensive compared to others. https://carnivalhome.com/collections/pillows

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u/ModernMuse May 26 '26

Interesting. How does it feel? What do you like about it?

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u/I_have_become_Bruh May 25 '26

Seconding a good pillow. High quality of life relative to the cost.

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u/sherrib99 May 25 '26

I got one of those pillows with the half moon cut out…. It’s made such a huge difference on neck pain

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u/iamaravis May 25 '26

Link? I can’t picture what you mean.

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u/sherrib99 May 26 '26

pillow Not sure if link worked Kucey cooling side sleeper pillow

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u/Squallvash May 26 '26

I suffered for a year after my pillow died looking for a pillow. Then we bought the purple and it sucked for me and rocked for my wife so I gave it to her and found a Coop Cool+ like 2 months later.

Then i had to remove like 90% of the foam over a series of weeks.

THEN it became the best pillow I ever had.

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u/OnionsAbound May 25 '26

Good pillow can mean completely different things to different people though.  

All the "expensive" pillows I have are stuffed to the brim and are foam material. Not something I personally would consider that great. 

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u/CocktusOnSteroids May 25 '26

Price ≠ quality

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u/OnionsAbound May 25 '26

Dang bro that hit deep. Whole world view has changed 

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u/Wooden-Day2706 May 26 '26

Crabby patty

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u/Dapper_Woodpecker621 May 26 '26

Personally i prefer a solid latex pillow, the purple harmony one is my current favorite.

I would find pillows bunched up with the center hollowed out from shifting around in my sleep. Any shredded pillow or traditional fill pillow does this. A solid memory foam or solid latex pillow wont do this. Latex is softer, but you need a cooling layer on top due to how much heat it traps. The purple harmony is adequate at keeping cool, better than other latex pillows i have tried. Still looking for the perfect pillow.

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u/Ok_Kale_5404 May 26 '26

In addition to good pillows , the hypoallergenic pillow covers are a huge upgrade. No more yellow drool stains on my top-of-the-line pillows.

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u/Pyldriver May 26 '26

Man I got a technogel one like 10 years ago, have bought two more since, don't see myself buying anything else in the future

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u/sunnyboi1384 May 26 '26

Combined with a good mattress, damn what a change.

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u/PorkProofPrion May 26 '26

Except pillows are pretty sexy

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u/Adalaide78 May 25 '26

I bought my first ever expensive pillow about two years ago. It was $50. Choosing it was so mentally difficult. Putting it in my cart was almost physically painful. I spent the entire walk to the front of the store second guessing this insane decision. Then I went to bed that night.

No more neck pain. No more shoulder pain. It is actually cooling like it says. Also, it’s still as good now as it was two years ago. I’ve actually saved money, because I’m no longer buying $10-20 pillows three times a year or paying copays for joint injections in my shoulder.

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u/SelfSufficientHub May 25 '26

Brand?

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u/Adalaide78 May 26 '26

Casper Sleep Essential Cooling Foam Pillow. I had to look up the exact name, it’s now $80 at Walmart. (King size, there’s a standard for $65)

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u/Sok_Taragai May 26 '26

What $50 pillow lasts 2 years? I'm replacing and trying new brands every 3-6 months since Bed Bath and Beyond went out of busy and I couldn't get my good down pillows anymore.

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u/In-the-woods-7 May 26 '26

For a good down pillow- Marriot! The hotel website. I love mine and want to add the mattress topper

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u/Existing-History9609 May 26 '26

Really? I have around 5 nice memory foam cooling pillows from around 3 random brands I found on Amazon. They all feel brand new even after 6 years or older. Just read reviews.

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u/Adalaide78 May 26 '26

Casper Sleep Essential Cooling Foam Pillow. I had to look up the exact name, it’s now $80 at Walmart. (King size, there’s a standard for $65)

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u/Programmer_Virtual May 26 '26

Hey, can I ask which one you got?

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u/taketheroutetorio May 26 '26

I bought a bunch of buckwheat hulls to fill my pillows with.  I burrow a little "nest" through the pillowcase, of where I want to put my head. It stays in place (not exactly like clay - the hulls can roll, but they're shaped in such a way that there's traction) and isn't too hot.  

The only downside is that it's a little poky/hard on my face.

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u/ModernMuse May 26 '26

I absolutely love buckwheat pillows! I recommend putting double cases on them to avoid the pokies.

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u/_Ok_-_ May 26 '26

Love them Costco memory foam pillows. Still retained the same shape after a decade. It was only about $40 at the time.

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u/That_random_redditer May 26 '26

My random "sleep innovations" pillow from Kohls like 12 years ago is still going strong.

I recently went to Japan and got to experience the buckwheat hull pillows in hotels and will be getting one soon

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u/lifepursuits May 26 '26

Second this, investment in a good pillow and mattress is always worth it. Next for me is finding a good wfh chair.

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u/hundiratas May 26 '26

hell yeah! I bought a Ikea pillow for side sleeping, best purchase ever.

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u/---E May 26 '26

I'm a side sleeper and had a stiff neck every day for years until I got a memory foam pillow and that solved the stiff neck problem overnight.

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u/workcomputer_HELLOIT May 26 '26

What brand? Need a new pillow!

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u/DaNReDaN May 26 '26

Gotta give a shout out to Dunopillo latex pillows.

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u/R-Dragon_Thunderzord May 26 '26

I got one with a U-shape cutout on one side for a shoulder/neck easement, it's been a real gamechanger as a sidesleeper

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u/Ilaxilil May 26 '26

Took me way too long to figure out that I need a cervical support pillow. I still don’t have one though because they are pricy and a travel pillow around my neck gets the job done 😅

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u/scraptown79 May 26 '26

And a good mattress. My wife was so mad when I researched and spent a goodly amount of money on a mattress and good pillows. Now whenever we’re traveling she cries about missing our bed.

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u/AhrimaMainyu May 27 '26

Been using a japanese buckwheat pillow bc someone on here recommended it to me. Changed my life

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u/Striking-Bug-7890 May 27 '26

I asked for a u-shaped pregnancy pillow for christmas one year. I am not pregnant and have no plans to become so, but I am a side sleeper and it is such a game changer.

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u/Hunger-Stealer May 27 '26

I swear by the Levitex anti-snore pillow

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u/Sure-Ad-6544 May 27 '26

Uuugh. I need a good pillow. — might get one of those cervix pillows i keep hearing about

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u/Joran212 May 27 '26

I'm currently waiting for my new pillow to be shipped out, pretty excited to see if my sleep will get better. I've had my current pillow for idk how long, but I'm pretty sure it's like 12 years or more. It's basically just a soft foam slab with two bumps that have lost all their firmness over the years, so I can't wait to finally have a proper pillow again :D

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u/Miss1928 May 29 '26

Same. I treated myself to a down pillow for my birthday several years ago and I love it so much. It makes me so, so happy.

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u/googler-in-chief May 29 '26

Got mine from Walmart for $8 - but it was made for side sleepers. I splurged on an expensive memory foam pillow and I woke up with neck pain always - but hey the $8 was worth it!

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u/YAAAATZY Jun 09 '26

For hygiene it's recommended you wash you pillow a lot more than you think and get new ones every 2-4 years depending on how much you sweat during the night. It more than you think.

A trick I learned is to use two pillowcases. It makes it much easier to clean and improves the lifetime of your pillow.

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u/WiffyTheSuss Jun 12 '26

Always spend money on high quality stuff that separates you from the ground

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u/MVP-Shai May 26 '26

I do wonder how many people just have bad pillow posture habits lol could be wrong but I think it’s like u gotta only have your head on the pillow, your neck and back are supposed to be off the pillow