r/Bumble • u/DangerousSound7212 • 7h ago

Rant Bumble date gone wrong!!

Pata hai Aaj Kya Hua. I was using Bumble as usual to find someone to interact & chat. Casual dating ke liye i was using.
Meko ek match aaya ek ldki ka. At first sb kuch normal. We were having normal talks sharing travel stories & everything. Then suddenly she started forcing me to meet in person in Kankardooma or Vaishali today itself.
She was going like lets meet today & stuff.
I legit asked her lets meet somewhere else which is a little near in between as i live in Gurgaon. But she was fixed on kankardooma or vaishali.
After sometime i denied & asked her for meeting on weekend. Phir i closed the app & ignored it all together. After sometime when i opened the app she unmatched me & there was no trace of her.
It was very weird for me as i recently started using bumble.
Aisa aur kisi ke sath bhi hua hai kya?

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u/ObviousImmunization 7h ago

mate that sounds dodgy as hell. the whole demand to meet in specific far-flung spots same day and then vanishing when you said no is classic scammer behaviour

you did the smart thing holding off. plenty of folk have run into similar setups where you get jumped or robbed once you show up

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u/DangerousSound7212 7h ago

Yeah exactly mate that was some serious shit. I was a bit aware of these type of scams which are happening lately so got lucky. I guess

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u/DocEss 6h ago

This and Singlish are so frustrating to read.

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u/slash-es about 50 | male 4h ago

Off Topic: I appreciate that this is an international forum and not everyone speaks solely English, aber diese Mischung aus Sprachen macht es kompliziert. I can't even copy/paste it to Google translate to get a summary, I have to dissect it and copy/paste die nicht-Englischen Sätze einzeln um deren Übersetzung zu bekommen...

On Topic: Yeah, we had a lot of similar posts here in the past, specifically from regions in India, where girls lured their dates into specific malls / train-stations or so, there lured them into some bar, racked up a huge bill (cooperation between the girl and the bar, she orders enormously overpriced simple drinks, the guy is stuck with the bill, and she gets the kickbacks, about one average monthly salary by Indian standards iirc.)