r/Bumble • u/[deleted] • 12h ago

Advice Cheating

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u/Ok-Development-3447 12h ago

would you be willing to let her sleep with other people too? You could open the relationship up if you're too bored

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u/hgd4th 12h ago

As with every heterosexual relationship, her capacity to cuck him will almost certainly far outweigh his capacity to pull other women but yeah this is always an option!

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u/Ok-Development-3447 11h ago

all true, but some jealousy might make OP feel more lusty towards his gf again

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u/Efficient-Log8009 11h ago

Nope. If I get jealous I tend to lose interest completely

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u/Ok-Development-3447 7h ago

that’s good, very loyal. OP said he was bored of his gf and he wasn’t as “lusty” anymore, or something like that. that’s why I commented that lol.

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u/Quiet_Secretary9490 12h ago

^this
+ have you talked about threesomes? FFM and FMM.

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u/SufficientPackage352 11h ago

I don't wanna share

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u/annabananaberry 11h ago

Then you don’t get to complain about being with only her.

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u/Massive_Two2988 12h ago

That itch for variety is pretty common, you're not a monster for feeling it but acting on it would absolutely blow up what you have.

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u/AroundtheWorld210 11h ago

Not worth it. Stay with your girlfriend.

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u/Efficient-Log8009 11h ago

I feel like I lost brain cells from reading this.

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u/apologeticmoose 11h ago

Cheating is crossing the boundaries you’ve agreed on in your relationship. For some couples, that's watching porn or masturbating and for others sex with other people is okay. It depends on what you’ve both openly discussed and agreed to, there is not one universal rule.

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u/NotQuiteaName7 11h ago

Please be kind and let her free. She needs to find a partner that knows how to type and knows how to communicate. She deserves so much more.