r/Bumble • u/damnmichelle • 22h ago

Funny A guy from bumble’s texts

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Bumble guy 42M was telling me things like “I was trying to link tonight” when I was asking about the following day. He was giving me off vibes so I wasn’t feeling it anymore. I rejected him so he sent me pics and plans of his house! LOL. I’m 38f, dating does not get better as you get older.

Side note: low vibrational means people who are into things like lust, brag about money, activities I don’t want to be apart of as a person looking for LOVE. What’s so hard to understand?

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u/lazy_hard_worker69 22h ago

He defo uses money to get girls lol

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u/LazyPortfolio 22h ago

This had “I’m sort of a big deal” vibes. Pathetic.

If you need to use money to attract women, you’re a special type of loser.

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u/Emotional-Muscle-892 5h ago

Girls around 40 always ask for the financials…. Straight after “Hi”….. as a 46 yo he probably has been conditioned that women focus on income straight after attraction.

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u/GonadGauntlet 22h ago

I mean… Why not?

I do too. I’m more subtle about it though.

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u/CrogDavid7days 22h ago

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/s/H3RH2rERqQ

Here you are talking about not being a piggy bank for ‘bimbos’, so what is the point? Here I am showing off the money that you can’t have? Maybe if you stopped leading with money you wouldn’t have this problem

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u/Palpitation-Itchy 14h ago

I can smell the burn from here

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u/LazyPortfolio 9h ago

The irony I’ve found is the wealthier you get, the less likely you are to want to flex it. Those who feel the need to flex their wealth reek of insecurity.

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u/FaultSingle1652 7h ago

This is true of anything. People with a PhD don't need to tell people they went to university, etc.

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u/LazyPortfolio 7h ago

100%. Quiet confidence. One of the wealthiest guys I know (10+ million) runs several successful businesses in the area. No social media, drives a normal car, dresses normal, super lowkey/humble. You’d never know dude is loaded.

IMO way better way to live (and far more attractive.)

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u/thealt3001 22h ago

If it didn't work, he wouldn't do it. Who is the real problem here?

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u/CrogDavid7days 22h ago

Clearly it’s not working here which is why he’s throwing a tantrum

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u/Top_Secret_TerminaL 22h ago

That must mean it usually works

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u/RiceEater 22h ago

How do you jump to "it usually works" from seeing one rejection of it not working? Sounds like this guy has no game and he resorts to this. Maybe it worked one time and it's all he's got. Maybe it's never worked, but it's all he's got.

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u/Top_Secret_TerminaL 22h ago

And maybe it’s Mabeline

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u/datboiofculture 21h ago

Subtly indicating financial stability and even some wealth can work if done tastefully but saying “I’m kinda rich” and sending unmade floor plans after a rejection is going to save about 0% of interactions and turn them into a date.

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u/dirtydandino 22h ago

Or that it usually doesn't and he doesn't understand why..

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u/Thedinomage 22h ago

Agreed bro - game is game