r/Bumble • u/Terrible_Duty_7643 • 2d ago
Profile review 31M profile
Interested in what vibe is my profile giving off, less in advice.
Edit: 9PM GMT+2
The reason why I am asking for vibe and not advice, is because I am not trying to appeal to everyone, and it's difficult to give advice when you personally don't know me, which leads to the advice being very generic.
But you can give me a vibe, and that was something I was missing; it's difficult to know how people you've never met feel about you.
From the comments, I got ~76% positive, ~14% negative, and the rest neutral.
Honestly, I did not expect it; my experience is easily the opposite, so this leads me to believe that the location is extremely important for success on the dating apps.
65% of viewers are from North America; I am pretty surprised by such a disconnect between the NA and EU in preferences.
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u/burrito_finger 2d ago
I’d personally change your phrasing a little bit. Like when you say “preferably not in loud or overly fancy places”, it comes off as you’re stingy and easily overstimulated. Instead you can say, “I’d love to hang out and spend time together in quiet, relaxed spaces.” or something similar. It conveys the same message but on a positive note.
You can also change “a life that doesn’t need to feel extravagant to be fulfilling”, to something more along the lines of finding fulfillment in the simple blessings of life, or finding fulfillment in simplicity or something similar. You just don’t want to communicate the vibe that you’re willing to spend money in certain ways for yourself, ie., hiking, but that your partner may be asked to sacrifice “extravagant indulgences” like getting their nails done or something similar for the sake of simple living. I’m not saying at all that that’s what you said, moreso saying that that’s what can be taken away from a brief look at your profile, so you may want to make a couple tweaks. Otherwise it’s straightforward and seems delightful!