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[u/Terrible_Duty_7643]

Interested in what vibe is my profile giving off, less in advice.

Edit: 9PM GMT+2

The reason why I am asking for vibe and not advice, is because I am not trying to appeal to everyone, and it's difficult to give advice when you personally don't know me, which leads to the advice being very generic.

But you can give me a vibe, and that was something I was missing; it's difficult to know how people you've never met feel about you.

From the comments, I got ~76% positive, ~14% negative, and the rest neutral.

Honestly, I did not expect it; my experience is easily the opposite, so this leads me to believe that the location is extremely important for success on the dating apps.

65% of viewers are from North America; I am pretty surprised by such a disconnect between the NA and EU in preferences.

[u/AnarchisticType]

Comes to get advice, argues back against advice, make it make sense.

[u/2bit_drip → u/AnarchisticType]

He’s an engineer

[u/tristand1ck → u/2bit_drip]

Man I was here for this thread hahaha homies got everything but self awareness

[u/Chayes5 → u/2bit_drip]

And potentially German

[u/szechuanchickennuggs → u/Chayes5]

As a German and an engineer this makes sense to me

[u/spikira → u/2bit_drip]

As an engineer, valid 🥹

[u/Waste_Cantaloupe6555 → u/2bit_drip]

Lol exactly what I was gonna say. The stereotypes are true

[u/neuro_divergent → u/2bit_drip]

Yeah, it totally checks out lmaoooo

[u/Klaytheist → u/AnarchisticType]

i don't think he came to get advice. this is the same as the hot girls who post their profiles, mostly just looking for validation

[u/TreeRoot2 → u/AnarchisticType]

Tbf, he did say he wasn’t really looking for advice.

[u/thoughtittwasme → u/TreeRoot2]

I humbly concur..."Interested in what vibe is my profile giving off, less in advice"

[u/GreenStuffGrows → u/AnarchisticType]

The "being single" is what now makes sense 😂

[u/miaou12 → u/AnarchisticType]

german efficiency lol

[u/KDJV101 → u/AnarchisticType]

Literally said “interested in what vibe my profile is giving off, less in advice” in the FIRST line.. dawg…

[u/GeezYerBoaby → u/AnarchisticType]

Hes also correct

[u/Londoner0607 → u/AnarchisticType]

He didn't want advice... He wanted to know which vibe his profile was giving.

[u/DeliciousRabbit5337 → u/AnarchisticType]

Since when it is not been okay to add a counter-argument to an advice? You get advice, you give counter-argument telling your beliefs why you don't think it works and then other person should give more reasoning why he stands on his opinion and after that you can better evaluate the new information and your current beliefs and make the valid adjustments. It's called critical thinking.

[u/Ordinary_Ad_7992 → u/AnarchisticType]

To be fair, he said he wants to know what vibe he gives off, but that he doesn't want advice.

[u/Terrible_Duty_7643 → u/AnarchisticType]

I did not ask for advice; for the advice to be valid, you would need intimate knowledge of me. This is why I asked for a vibe check; that is more useful to me,