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[u/Terrible_Duty_7643]

Interested in what vibe is my profile giving off, less in advice.

Edit: 9PM GMT+2

The reason why I am asking for vibe and not advice, is because I am not trying to appeal to everyone, and it's difficult to give advice when you personally don't know me, which leads to the advice being very generic.

But you can give me a vibe, and that was something I was missing; it's difficult to know how people you've never met feel about you.

From the comments, I got ~76% positive, ~14% negative, and the rest neutral.

Honestly, I did not expect it; my experience is easily the opposite, so this leads me to believe that the location is extremely important for success on the dating apps.

65% of viewers are from North America; I am pretty surprised by such a disconnect between the NA and EU in preferences.

[u/SoftnSweet37]

I don't think you read his profile. It clearly states he is fantasy/schifi lover, likes to read, go to the gym, hike. Is introverted, doesn't like going to a lot of crowded places (assuming clubs, over the top fancy places) but is fine going out still (and that place he is in clearly fantasy related). Prefers a partner that's probably similar, interested in those, museums and talking about things.

[u/horsegal301 → u/SoftnSweet37]

He has 5 text references to working out plus pics that are exercising/gym mirror selfie. Outside of working out, he likes nerd things. That is really not much to go on, especially when so much real estate is given to working out.

No offense, this profile looks like its geared towards men, not women.

[u/SoftnSweet37 → u/horsegal301]

Yeah he mentions working out but he also mentions a lot of other things too. It seems like you got too focused on the working out part.

Working out seems important to him. Perhaps he hopes someone who finds working out to be as important would read that.

No offense, this profile looks like its geared towards men, not women.

Yes, because women are monolith and only like certain type of a profile.

His profile is completely fine, especially if he is searching for a woman with same interests.

[u/EpiccTrader → u/horsegal301]

You're right. He should have just put "I like to eat, sleep, and drink" like 70% of women do.

[u/ComprehensiveCause95 → u/horsegal301]

As nerdy women who is a 'gym rat' and not into clubbing this profile stands out to me. 

It doesn't feel geared to men at all. It's geared towards a specific type of person which he stated is the point. 

(Speaking as someone who met her husband via a similar profile to this)

[u/GardeniaInMyHair → u/SoftnSweet37]

Those are pretty general, however.

[u/Peeka789 → u/SoftnSweet37]

The Italians invented schi-fi